The boss’s daughter confessed to me that if I promised me, I would struggle for thirty years less, this is a dream that men dream of. But I have a girlfriend, one side is my girlfriend who has been in love for many years, and the other side is the boss's daughter. It's you, how would you choose?
I am 29 years old this year and have been in the company for three years. I am in the company. Although my salary is not bad, it is nothing in first-tier cities. I can’t breathe when I can’t afford to buy a house, my monthly mortgage, daily necessities, daily consumption, etc.
I met my girlfriend in college. She is the kind of existence that stands out among the crowd and feels very comfortable to get along with. Many couples broke up when I graduated, but when I was with her, she understood me, was very sensible and considerate, and I cherished the days I spent with her.
She has recently begun to hint at me about some marriages, such as who got married in a certain university and who gave birth to a child. I am 29 years old and she is 27 years old. Her family constantly urged her to get married, and even thought that I delayed her and wanted her to go home for a blind date. In fact, I want to wait until my job is stable and my income is higher. There are too many places to use money, and having children will be even more expensive in the future. She knew all of this, so she understood me and would not put too much pressure on me. I always remember it in my heart.
The boss of our company has an only daughter. She just graduated from college this year and went to the company for an internship as soon as she graduated. She was assigned to my name. I naturally dare not neglect the boss's daughter. She is easier to get along with than I thought. She often asks me questions, and I patiently help her answer them.
She looks pretty, playful and cute, and has a pair of dimples when she smiles. She is of two different types from my girlfriend, and she is the kind that looks better and better the more she looks. I often bring her to familiarize herself with the business and help her block unnecessary social engagements. Over time, I felt that the look she looked at me changed. At first we only talked about work, but later she asked me about my preferences and feelings intentionally or unintentionally. When I learned that I had a girlfriend who had been with me for many years, there was an unstoppable loneliness on her face, which I could see.
Once, she got herself drunk intentionally or unintentionally by socializing. I was afraid that something would happen to her, so I stayed with her. When the client left, she looked at me with a blurry look and said to me: I like you very much, do you like me?
Me: You have drunk too much, I'll send you back.
She: You didn’t say you didn’t like it, that’s you.
Me: I have a girlfriend...
She: You don’t love her, right? You have been together for so many years, and you haven’t married her yet. You are obviously a habit and responsibility to her, otherwise you would have married her long ago, right?
I looked at her with a firm and serious look. I knew that she confessed to me with the help of alcohol and was not really drunk. But she was so confused that she asked me in a sudden question. Seeing me like this, she leaned directly on my shoulder, then hugged me and said: Don’t deceive yourself, you are delaying her like this, be with me, I am also very good-looking, no worse than your girlfriend, and I can give you everything I want, I like you, I can feel that you have feelings for me, I can help you, if you marry me, my dad will definitely support you.
She held me and I knew I wanted to push her away, but I didn't. I kept thinking about what I just said. Do I really love my girlfriend? And her words can help me. My mind is very messy now. She suddenly got up and kissed me. This time I pushed it away and stood up.
I immediately called the driver and sent her home. Along the way, I didn't say a word to her, I knew she was pretending to be asleep. After sending her home, the boss saw that she was drinking like this and looked very bad, so he drank me. I returned home in a daze. My girlfriend saw me like this and cared about me. But I was very upset and chose to be alone and remained quiet.
I don't know how to face my girlfriend.I know that I need her support very much. I have been in the company for so many years. There are many outstanding overseas returnees every year and many top students. I think it is difficult to be on the top level. Have you ever liked her? I don’t know that being with her is indeed different from my girlfriend. She has an inexplicable temperament that attracts me. She has confidence and youthful taste. I am really happy to be by her side. Do I love my girlfriend? I don't know if I love or get used to her, but I feel at ease with her.
If it were you, what would you do? I don't want to hurt my girlfriend. I know that when I was thinking about this question, I was already sorry for her, but I really hesitated. I know that if I could really marry the boss's daughter, then my life might be less than decades. I really hesitated...
What I want to say is :
There is a saying: Heart-moving is not the answer, heart-stability is.
I know many people will say that they will persuade you to leave and let your girlfriend go. But in real life, if you really encounter such temptations and choices, many people will hesitate. I understand that after all, career, power, money, beauty, these , seven emotions, six desires, are all human desires, but in this world, many items and things are priced at the right time. You know that if you choose the boss’s daughter, you can get opportunities and possibilities, but at the same time, you have to think about what you will lose?
We are not saints. We are naturally seeking benefits and avoiding harm and weighing pros and cons. However, in this world, some people and things cannot be measured externally. We bystanders do not know what it is about your girlfriend, but many people will think that it is family affection and habits after being together for a long time, but if they are really separated, you may find out what you have lost.
We cannot help you make decisions. I hope every decision you make is clear and don’t regret it.
