text丨The West Chamber of affection
Time has not been long, I hope you will meet in my words!
There is a saying: "What you love is separated by mountains and seas, and the mountains and seas can also be level."
Indeed, love has infinite power. Love can bring courage and confidence to a person, love can make a person take off defense and disguise, and love can also make a person redeemed.
In short, the meaning of love is that it will make you feel that the world is worth it, which is why everyone yearns for and pursues love.
However, on the road to pursuing love, some people get what they want and meet a good person; while some people meet the wrong person, wasting their feelings and sincerity.
People always say that love will make a person beautiful, but in fact, there are differences in love here. After all, the result of love and being loved is very different.
People surrounded by love are happy, they will become better people, they can be full of confidence and have various emotions.
On the other hand, those who are not loved lack confidence, lack of security, hidden emotions, etc. are common manifestations.
is visible. One of the criteria for measuring whether you are really loved by someone is your feelings. Feelings from the heart are the most real feedback, and no matter what, it cannot deceive yourself.
Therefore, you must know that if a person really loves you, you will have the following 3 feelings:
Full of security
Two people are most afraid of being insecure in their hearts, and if a person really loves you, then you will have a full sense of security.
The so-called sense of security means that no matter what happens, as long as he is there, you will feel very at ease and at ease. At the same time, you trust him very much, and you are sure that he will not let you down.
However, the sense of security does not come out of thin air, but is given to you by the other party. Only when he really loves you can he give you a sense of security.
For example, he will always appear in time when you need it, support you and stand on your side; he will properly handle the relationship with other opposite sexes and will not cause you to misunderstand.
He will also introduce you to his family, friends, etc., and give you an open and upright title.
It is precisely because he really loves you that he is willing to do this. And in the process of doing this, you will gain a sense of security.
On the contrary, if a person does not really love you, then he will naturally not care about your feelings and will not do so.
When you encounter difficulties and troubles, he will appear as a bystander; he will not keep himself clean for you and keep a distance from other opposite sexes; he will not take the initiative to bring you into his life circle...
Over time, you will naturally feel serious insecure. At this time, he will not only not reflect on himself, but also tell you: "You give yourself a sense of security."
A burst of happiness
makes you feel happy, and it is also a manifestation of a person who really loves you. When you are with someone who really loves you, you often feel that you are being taken care of and cared for.
His care, care and care for you can be said to be meticulous and often reflected in some details.
For example, before taking a shower, he will silently adjust the water temperature for you; when cooking, he will carefully remember your taboos and preferences; when you are sick, he can take care of you patiently.
Many times, you will feel like a child in his eyes. As long as it is within his ability, he will be willing to do it for you.
He is afraid that you will work hard, and he can see your efforts and understand your difficulties.
Just like Ge Peihao's family in the variety show "Dad's Home", Anna is like his eldest daughter, and she can get his care and care at any time.
And in this kind of care, it is reasonable to have a lot of happiness.
So, if you are with someone, you have no sense of happiness at all, then most of them don’t really love you.
The feeling of being arrogant because of favor and being arrogant
When you are with someone who truly loves you, you often feel that being arrogant because of favor and being arrogant. Because he loves you enough, he will accept your willfulness and unreasonable acts.
The state between you is often you are making a fuss and he is laughing. Even if there are disputes at some time and in certain things, he will compromise and make concessions later.
Under this kind of pampering, you will gradually become fearless and feel proud of your favor, because you know that he will definitely accept you.
In front of him, you can be yourself without disguising yourself, nor have you ever tried to please and cater to him.
However, if this person doesn't really love you at all, then everything will be different. When you are with him, you will become a fake self, or even the way he wants to be.
He doesn't really love you, so when you don't suit him, he can naturally let you go instead of accommodating you.
Conclusion:
If a person really loves you, then you will be free. On the contrary, you are always bound.
is like Cheng Shaoshang and Ling Buyi in the TV series " Star Han Brilliant , the Moon Rising Sea". Under Ling Buyi's true love, Cheng Shaoshang gradually has a sense of security and happiness, and sometimes even becomes arrogant because of his favor.
For example, she will not be afraid when she is hijacked and tell the other party that she is Ling Buyi’s favorite fiancée, and Ling Buyi will definitely not let him go.
For example, every time she encounters trouble, Ling Buyi will support her and teach those who bully her a lesson.
As the saying goes, "Those who are favored are fearless", and whether true love is reflected in these.
When you don’t know whether a person’s affection for you is real, ask your heart and see if you have these feelings.
