The four girls chatted until the early morning and cried bitterly, and the reasons all pointed to their parents!
Does parents love you? Actually, there is no need to ask. If you look back and think about it, the answers are all in the details.
Hubei
On October 9, several girls chatted in the dormitory. It was a very daily communication, but I don’t know why I talked about family, but now it was out of control. The four girls started chatting until three or four in the morning, and they were crying and laughing all night. What were they talking about? It was their original family.
Some people say that these girls are not very sensible and don’t know how to be grateful. I refute this to go out for more questions. Almost most families always have individual aggression, which has become a common practice.
What surprised me was that the few of them just got together, and they all happened to be so miserable. They were all so aggrieved. What was the conversation? The girl did not introduce it in the video.
But when seeing the girl in the camera, she either covers her face and wipes her tears, or lowers her head, with tears in her eyes, the degree of sadness is self-evident.
Yesterday I wrote an article that the girl had a fight with her brother the day before her marriage. Before that, the mother said that she would not return the bride price and did not send a bride to the girl that day. The mother said that having a son is to spend money, and her daughter is to make money. The folk saying goes, the son is China Construction Bank, and the daughter is to China Merchants Bank , which is indeed in line with the characteristics of some people.
Once chatted with a very hardworking girl. Their family had four daughters and one son. The son was the youngest. Zhaodi and Qiandi were the girls' names. The sons born under such expectations naturally had no need to think about the treatment of the sons born under such expectations. Their daughter would take the initiative to ask for some bride price to give back to their parents, but their parents had never held a banquet for them, because the younger brother who was born at a very old age, the father would explain before the son got married that everyone would not be able to help.
html Fortunately, although the youngest brother is very favored, he has not completely abandoned it. He knows that he has worked hard and his three views are OK, so he didn't ask his sister to take the money to get married.This preference is found in families that prefer boys over girls, but also in families with a group of sons. He once chatted with an uncle who was two brothers. He was lazy and married, and his wife was capable and intelligent. When he got married, his mother also helped build a brick house. This uncle is different. After the brother got married, there were not many rice left in the family. The uncle had a broken partner. His mother arranged for him a daughter-in-law who was slightly disabled and not very smart.
In fact, most of the money my brother had when building a house was earned by his uncle before marriage to his mother. This preference was in the face of filial era and filial children. It was a rebellious thing to say. Mother said, "You will work harder." When you talk about this topic, ask your uncle if he is resentful?" He smiled bitterly.
There are many preferences like this. I saw a netizen in the comment area saying that he asked his mother why his younger brother had been studying in private and accompanied him since childhood, but he could only stay under his grandmother's house. He was bullied by a boy in the village and jumped down from the second floor when he jumped to junior high school, and his mother interrupted loudly.
The misfortunes of the original family mostly come from preferring
disappointment is saved bit by bit, just like the housework of a family, the man and woman can't bear to bear it together, and the person who is easy to use when a few children are doing it. The era of
is different. Now most people’s dissatisfaction with , the original family of is no longer because they are not full of food and clothing, but because they prefer several children, which makes one hold a grudge for the rest of their lives.
As parents, they should think carefully about this. When a person truly understands it, he will only discover whether his parents really love you after he has children.
The book "Original Family" once said that parents are healthy and toxic. The book says that many parents are toxic. Unhealthy families are not encouraged to express personal opinions. Keeping consistent with their parents is the highest awareness. Children in such families grow up in depression all year round and have defects in their personalities.
The misfortunes of the original family that everyone is discussing now are actually emotions. In 2018, there was a long article " Peking University Master of Study in the United States, a ten-word long article accusing parents" caused a wave of discussions on family education.
90's parents are teased by people to take care of their children in reverse, but how many people know the true feelings of their children, and how many parents know " How tired is a child to live as a parent since childhood?"
Family has always been a harbor. I hope every parent can learn to take care of their children's emotions evenly. A healthy family has no preference and speaks freely. I also hope that children can learn to grow up on their own. After all, not every parent is born to be educated.
