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In addition, , from the perspective of our human life journey, our vital signs will go through the whole process of "from fragility to strong, and then to fragility". During this whole process, our vital signs and our thinking patterns are an interrelated state.
Simply put, means that when we are strong, our thinking is active and resilient. At this time, if we discover and deliberately correct this stubborn personality, we can still correct it to a large extent.
On the contrary, as we age, if we do not keep exercising from time to time, our bodies will become fragile and our thinking will solidify. At this time, most of our behavioral habits will form a complete and fixed system. If we want to change, it will be as difficult as climbing to the sky, and we will also show increasingly stubborn behavioral manifestations.
Therefore, from this perspective, the reason why a person becomes more and more stubborn as he gets older is that as his physical health decreases, his thinking and behavioral habits will be solidified, and he will automatically stay in his inherent thinking mode.
On the other hand, in daily life, we will also find that some people are stubborn at the beginning, but later they gradually become less stubborn. What is the reason? This is mainly influenced by acquired experiences, or the stubborn edges and corners of society are smoothed out.
The logic is very simple. If you want to achieve greater achievements in this society, you must communicate and link with others. If a person is very stubborn, it will make others feel that it is not sociable and it will be difficult to establish a good relationship with more people. Under the oppression of this environment, if you want to survive and live better, you have to change your stubborn personality.
Of course, has two sides in everything, and stubbornness is the same. Stubbornness has a good side and a bad side. If we use stubbornness in interactions between people, then stubbornness is not a good thing, because stubbornness when interacting with others will give others a feeling of being out of place, which will have a negative impact on our interpersonal relationships.
If we use stubbornness to do things, what we show is a kind of tenacious willpower, a kind of attitude of not giving up, and a style of doing things that must achieve results in something. Of course, everything is appropriate. While being stubborn, we must also grasp a standard. If something is really not worth persisting in, we must also know how to judge the situation and bow our heads in time.
Changyan Changyu:
Why do some people become more and more stubborn when they get old? A person's stubbornness is by no means formed in one or two days, but is the result of accumulation over time. If a person becomes more and more stubborn as he grows old, he is likely to have a stubborn style of dealing with things when he is young, especially when he is young, who has a certain power and status, and is used to giving orders to others. When he is old and retired, it is difficult to listen to other people's suggestions.
There are also some people who have never experienced any strong storms when they were young and are used to being alone. Because they rarely come into contact with others, they are also prone to forming stubborn behavioral habits.
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