text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
Two opposite sexes push apart the crowd and move towards each other. This is not only a fate, but also a physiological attraction.
In love, everyone has different views. Some people believe that as long as two people are together for a long time, even if they don’t have feelings, they can develop a tacit understanding of companionship.
Some people think that if two people don’t attract each other at all, they will sooner or later be separated even if they stay together every day.
In fact, fundamentally speaking, love that cherishes each other requires love. Through love, the relationship between the two is better, making the two more tacit understanding.
If you want to reach this tacit understanding, you must understand this principle: the three physiological attraction between the opposite sex is very touching.
Attraction on the outside
people are sensory animals. If you can't attract each other in terms of appearance, then not to mention eternity, he will feel disgusted even when he dates you.
corresponds to it. If the other person’s appearance is not in your aesthetic sense, how could you be willing to get along with him for a long time?
Many people think that as long as you are not beautiful and handsome enough, it means you lose the right to choose a spouse. Even if you are lucky enough to fall in love, the other party will dislike you.
In fact, the most important thing about beauty is not your own, but more about appearance. The so-called: "A man depends on clothes, and a horse depends on saddle." A gorgeous appearance can often enhance a person's appearance.
Therefore, the physiological attraction between the opposite sex should start from appearance. No matter what occasion, don’t deal with it casually. At the same time, you also need to improve your character.
Remember, at any time, your appearance can complement the inner world, and when your appearance is not good, you can also make up for it through the inner world. But if the heart is ruined, no matter how good the appearance is, it will only make the people around you feel disgusted.
language attraction
I don’t know if you have found out, chatting with someone who is destined to always make people feel like they wish they met too late. Talking with people with disagreements always makes people feel frustrated that they are not speculative. In fact, this emotional gap is the best manifestation of attracting or repulsing each other.
When Ruohan (pseudonym) was with his ex, he felt that he was simply wasting his time, because no matter what she said, his ex could not really understand her, and the two of them often chatted with awkwardly.
ruohan said that when she was studying, her ex would always complain from the side, saying that it was useless to learn these things, and it would be better to learn some skills and be an assistant for him in the future.
Ruohan is better than his ex in all aspects, and he is always tolerant of his words, but no matter how much she gives in, his ex will not stop doing this.
Finally, Ruohan realized that it was not appropriate in essence between him and his ex.
Indeed, if two people get along with each other, it is simply a torment, because they have to find ways to deal with each other every day and cannot express their true thoughts at all.
If you get together with the person you are in love, you will have a sense of fate. The topic seems to be endless. No matter how long you are together, you will not feel tired of it. The more you understand, the more you will feel fresh and attached to each other.
Attraction in behavior
Two people who are destined to love more and more get along with each other. Maybe the words between them will become less, but the tacit understanding will become stronger and stronger.
If you and the other person are not good friends with each other when you are in love, the longer you are, the more problems you will have, because after doing something, you need to explain to the other person, otherwise some minor misunderstandings will arise.
And the reason why people with fate can cherish each other more is that two people can understand each other more. Sometimes you just need a look to understand what the other person is thinking in an instant. In this love atmosphere, both of them will feel comfortable and misunderstandings will be greatly reduced.
You must understand that the fatigue in love is often caused by two people. Because you don’t know each other too much, you always doubt the other’s motivation and purpose. Once doubt arises, feelings will become precarious.
Therefore, behavioral attraction is particularly important. If you have enough tacit understanding and can understand each other's heart, it will not fade away when you are together for too long.
Conclusion:
These three attractions between the opposite sex are actually the key to being intriguing. If you only change yourself blindly or find the other person’s faults, love will not eventually become what you want.
You must understand that the relationship between you and your whole life has always been the joint efforts of two people. It not only depends on appearance, but also through communication, and ultimately transforms into tacit understanding in behavior.
When you follow this step and take your time, your feelings will naturally become stronger. You who are used to this way of falling in love will find it difficult to get out and just want to be with each other.
