The weather is getting colder in the morning. After sending the baby to kindergarten, I plan to go shopping with my friends and buy some seasonal clothes.
This friend of mine is two years older than me and is a full-time mother like me, but she lives much more free and easy than me.
Every time I make an appointment to meet, I listen to my family matters, she always says "how big things" and "no need". Coupled with the expression of speaking, she always helps me a lot.
always feels that the higher the age, the better you get, the better you see, except for the baby, everything else is nothing.
Before, I always envied my friend, and only after getting along with me did I gradually realize that her marriage and family did not look so perfect.
She also experienced it with me. Before marriage, the family members of both parties are not optimistic, the differences between the second child, and the disagreement of her in-laws' family...
But I have never heard her complain too much. She told me: The lives of middle-aged couples are full of contradictions and problems from all parties. How can there be so many years of peace? When encountering difficult things, you either actively think of solutions. If you really can’t solve them, just let them aside. Can people still be crushed by things?
The most unnecessary thing is to tell everyone about your miserable life. It is useless to complain here and you won’t help you with any problems.
Whether it is disagreement, not being understood, or having no place to say anything, it is a trivial matter to take it out alone.
For us, marriage happiness is like a fairy tale. The filter is too heavy, it is a little unreal, and it is stretched everywhere. In fact, subconsciously amplifying anxiety and chewing it repeatedly is copying and superimposing pain over and over again.
This is how life is. There are always difficulties, so it is better to live a more relaxed life.
always complains, the body is full of negative energy, and the whole person is dark. Only by being more positive can the same sex attract each other.
