Many people will say that they don’t understand why they are always mistressed.
obviously fell in love first, and even went to get married.
It turns out that I have become a third party unknowingly?
Who is the fault of being mistress? The mistress may be innocent, but the cheating man must not be innocent!
A female fan came to complain to Lan Fang, saying that she didn't know why she was always targeted by married men.
She is 34 years old this year, she has never been married, and she has been in a relationship for seven years.
Finally, because of her cheating, she went on a blind date when she was in love with her.
talked with her blind date for more than half a year, and after she discovered it, her ex refused to repent.
also insisted that the blind date partner was true love, so the two broke up.
Exe also married her blind date partner, but she ended up getting married for less than a year.
This ex started looking for her frequently and said she regretted it. It was just a fresh feeling with a blind date.
and she are the true feelings. I hope she can forgive her, but the ex meant that she did not want to divorce and asked her to be a third party.
This female fan naturally would not forgive the cheating scumbag and decisively blocked her.
She thought this was just an accident because this man was an ex.
So I came over and wanted to cheat on her. Let her be a third party, which is the problem of this man.
As a result, in less than a year, she met a man at work.
worked with her for a while, and the man began to pursue her, and she felt that she couldn't accept it.
Because this man has a wife and children, she even met this man’s wife.
She refused decisively, saying that she would not be a third party, but the man said: Do you want me to divorce and marry you?
This fan said that she doesn’t mean this way and she will not have any entanglement with married men.
But the cheating man may not listen, just because he thinks she is negotiating conditions, not really not wanting to be a mistress.
finally got the job done and finally got rid of this cheating man.
Not long after, a married man expressed his affection with her.
She began to doubt herself. Is there anything she attracted to married men?
Why do men who want to develop extramarital affairs with her always appear around this fan?
The question of this is another way, that is, what kind of woman will a cheating man take as the goal of making the cheating.
First of all, she always encounters married men. One of the important reasons is her age relationship. Most of the men she can come into contact with are married.
Those who show favorability will also be part of these men, so they are all married men who want to cheat.
This actually has little to do with this fan, not because of her.
If you are a woman in her twenties, you should be a third party if you don’t show any initiative.
Even if a man wants to develop an extramarital affair and is rejected, it will not happen. The cheating man thinks it is a situation where he plays hard to get.
This is actually because this society is biased and not friendly to older single women.
A cheating man may be subjectively thinking that this fan has not gotten married at this age because he cannot find it.
It is natural for him to let this female fan be a third party. After all, you can't get married, so it would be great if I could fall in love with you. I would have this kind of thinking.
So what kind of target will a man look for when he cheats, an older unmarried woman, or a divorced woman at an older age.
There will definitely be married men around these women. Even if they don’t develop extramarital affair, they always want to take advantage of a few words.
Secondly, this fan's past emotional experience can easily make married men think about it.
In other words, women who have been hurt by love can easily become targets of cheating men.
Many men have been married and have emotional experiences, and they understand women very well.
They know that a woman who has been hurt by love will easily be moved by other heartwarming actions.
Women who can be in love for seven years must be very dedicated, and even some love brains .
. Men who cheat like such women, and they subjectively think that such women are more likely to become mistresses.
So many mistresses are injured women who have unfortunate marriages and have not had good emotional experiences.
These women are also more likely to cause crises to their original wives because they will rely on cheating men emotionally.
After they were discovered, they were even more reluctant to end their extramarital affair, and even because of their love brain, they were willing to go to three.
Finally, this fan does have some unclear elements and a weak sense of boundaries.
Border sense refers to the degree of judgment or attention to boundaries.
When a person lacks a sense of boundary, he/she may unconsciously entrust his/her affairs to others, and
invites others to step into the boundaries they should have, or imposes their wishes on others and force them into the boundaries of others.
Abnormal men are also people with a weak sense of boundaries. When they find a partner they cheat, they will be more inclined to find their own kind.
is to find women who also don’t value the sense of boundaries and can allow him to cross the boundaries. They will start to tease and test whether they can go further.
In fact, many people don’t know it, and their sense of boundaries is relatively weak and they don’t notice it.
They will say that they are just careless and care less about things.
is actually a weak sense of boundaries, although it will give people the impression of being together with others.
But at the same time, it will also give a kind of impression that you are easily affected by cheating on men with dissatisfaction.
Like this fan's situation, age factors, and previous emotional experiences cannot be changed.
If she wants to no longer be regarded as the object of her extramarital affair by married men, she must pay attention to her sense of boundaries.
If she shows a look of being a stranger, don’t joke with her if she is familiar with her. The boundary of
is clearly marked enough. Even if these men have this intention, they will never dare to go to her to tease her.
Blue Party also gave her a lot of specific suggestions to help her enhance the sense of boundaries.
at the end of the article wants to say that an extramarital affair will be found, which must be the result of the cheating man and the third party having the intention.
If one party cannot accept it, there will be no extramarital affair if one party refuses to violate its moral bottom line.
If you find the wrong partner, the cheating man will be afraid of being backfired.
So when they look for a partner, they will look for women who are interested and think they will be mistresses.
This also reminds the original wives that if such a woman appears around your husband or you, you should go just in case.
If you have an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
