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Our life is destined to have many choices that cannot be controlled. After all, adults need to consider too many pros and cons, and it is difficult to handle everything quickly and neatly.
For example, some people have already lost their feelings with their spouses, but they still choose to live together on the spot.
The combination and separation of a family will inevitably affect many troubles. It is a forced choice to be patient and tolerant for the sake of some immediate pros and cons.
They often have their own little thoughts and have many selfish trade-offs. So time has been pushing the two people with their own thoughts to slowly move towards their old age under such hesitation and weighing.
Regarding how to get along with a spouse who just lived with him in his later years, the neighbor Aunt Zhao said a lot. She said:
"The spouse who did these two things when he was young is old and is not worthy of your kindness to him. This is his due retribution."
It turns out that karma is destined by God, and no one can escape it.
1: Betrayal of marriage and not take the promise of marriage seriously
Aunt Zhao always had a knot in her heart. Her wife had betrayed her when she was young.
The love of love was in full swing at the local area. Just when Aunt Zhao wanted to divorce cruelly, her husband sweared in front of her, saying that he would definitely change his past and not make mistakes again.
Considering that her son is about to take the college entrance examination, Aunt Zhao is reluctant to let go of this relationship, so she ended with such a bloody ending. After thinking about it, she decided to endure the matter.
But she had no hope for this marriage in her heart. She is still continuing her marriage with the other party, but she just lives together.
She is very sober, and she will not focus on men for the rest of her life. If he is ridiculous again, Aunt Zhao believes that she can cut the mess quickly and cut off all the connection between them.
So Aunt Zhao said that this kind of man who betrays marriage and does not take the promise of marriage seriously is not worthy of being kind to him, and loving yourself for the rest of your life is the kingdom.
2: Abandoning children and unwilling to assume the responsibility of being a parent
Aunt Zhao not only resented but also hated his wife. He did something wrong back then, which made Aunt Zhao unforgettable even after so long.
Aunt Zhao also has a daughter. When she was just born, her husband gave it to others as quickly as possible on the grounds that she was a girl.
In fact, he was full of calculating, because the policy at that time was that the first child belonged to his son, so he could not have a second child. If he gave birth, he would have to pay a huge fine when registering.
At the time of the daughter, Aunt Zhao's husband saw that he was a money-losing guy. He didn't want to pay the huge fine for his daughter. If it was a son, it would be another matter.
So without Aunt Zhao's knowledge, her just-born daughter was sent away. Fortunately, she knew that family, so she dragged her weak body and went to take back her daughter.
Since then, Aunt Zhao’s feelings for him have never existed again. But she had no job at that time, so for her daughter's food, she had to swallow her anger and continue to pass by.
Even though her husband loved this daughter the most later, it was still difficult for her to convince herself to forgive him.
also because she was hated in her heart. Aunt Zhao never planned to be nice to her husband. She was indifferent to many things about him.
After so many years, although the two have not divorced, Aunt Zhao has always felt that she has no feelings for her husband and just makes do with her. After all, the things he has done are not worth forgiven at all.
When you were young, you betrayed your relationship and abandoned your children's spouse. When you are old, it is not worth your good treatment to him again.The miserable old age is the destined ending for such a person, and this is the punishment he deserves to do something wrong and cannot escape.
After all, no one can escape the retribution. Don’t think you are an exception because retribution comes later. In this world, no one is an exception. God remembers everything you do, not because the time has not arrived.
I hope everyone can know how to be responsible for their own life.
Don’t do things that hurt your partner or family at will when you are young, otherwise retribution will come in your later years, and it will be too late to regret it, and there is no turning back in life.
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