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Dulas once said: "A person loves you, there will be care in his eyes. If he doesn't love, there is only desire."
You are not happy in a relationship and will reflect on your face. You will feel anxious, worried about gains and losses, and it is difficult to believe that you are worthy of love.
When in love, it is difficult for many girls to judge whether they are sincere or false to them. Even others have persuaded each other many times, but they still love each other without hesitation.
It is not that difficult to see a man clearly, as long as you don’t deceive yourself.
Men always contact you at these times. They are not loving you deeply, but treating you as a spare tire. Don’t be moved by yourself.
01: When you feel bored and lonely, he doesn't miss you, he just passes the time
Chen Yin (pseudonym) has been dating her boyfriend for less than half a year, but his attitude has become cold.
If Chen Yin doesn't contact him, her boyfriend can almost not appear in front of her for a week.
or if the other party has someone to accompany and have something to do, they will not want to meet Chen Yin alone. Every time my boyfriend takes the initiative to contact her, it is most likely that he feels bored and lonely.
Chen Yin is a relatively inferior and sensitive girl. She was already very moved when her boyfriend was willing to drive a car for half an hour to find her.
She always fantasizes in her heart that her boyfriend loves her very much and will be responsible for each other's feelings.
But if a man really loves you, he will not let you wait. He will take the initiative to want to see you, and he will never think of your existence only when he feels empty.
Most men who do this behavior do not love you. The reason why they are willing to continue dating you is just treating you as a spare tire.
At the moment when he has not yet encountered a better partner, with your company, you can at least reduce some loneliness.
02: When you are drunk, you just want to have an affair with you.
Some naive girls will think that a man who is drunk and takes the initiative to contact him means that he has a very important position in the other person's heart.
There is a saying: "Speak the truth after drinking."
The girl believes that every word he says to you when he is drunk is the truth. Being able to treat his man like this is a manifestation of deep love.
But this is not the case. If he loves you enough, he will not play with your sincerity.
will treat your man like this, but in fact he just wants to have an ambiguous relationship with you. After he wakes up, he will find various reasons to draw a clear line with you.
No matter how much you love him, I advise you not to deceive yourself. If you want to have a good start and result with the other person, when he is drunk and contacts you and wants to see you, you must restrain yourself.
Don’t say too much to him. Even if he says a lot of confession and promises, you have to wait until he wakes up and say it to you again and then be moved.
A man who truly loves you will attach great importance to your feelings and does not want to leave you with a casual feeling.
If he only remembers you when he is drunk every time, I advise you to block him.
03: Only when you need your help, do not have sincerity to you, but use
Wang Yangming said: "The conscience is the essence of the heart."
people with kind hearts will have a more sincere attitude towards feelings, and their good character will be seen by everyone around them.
When you are with the person you love, he will try to give you the best things and not make you feel wronged.
However, a man who doesn’t like you so much will only contact you when he needs it. He has no sincerity towards you and is all used.
Shen Bin (pseudonym) met a boy he liked very much and met at work.At first, she felt that the other party should like her, so she tried to introduce him to resources and customers.
But after I met her for a long time, I realized that every time a boy contacted her, it was related to work.
Shen Bin's family conditions are good. She opened a company herself and met many rich people.
The boy looked very ambitious. He knew that Shen Bin had a good impression of him, and even if he didn't like her, he would pretend to be very enthusiastic.
's purpose is not to fall in love with her, but to have a better development in her career.
A man only contacts you when he needs you. He is most likely not sincere to you, but just wants to use you to get your own benefits.
likes Zhang Xiaoxian a sentence: "Real love is gentle and firm, it will not give you a face of worrying about gains and losses."
The more a man you have in your heart, the more you will give you the sense of security you want, so that you can be with him confidently.
If he has the above three attitudes towards you, I advise you to wake up as soon as possible. Your love is so precious and cute, and should be left to those who know how to care for it.
