There are only two situations where two people can be lovers for a lifetime. One is that both parties have a happy marriage and family. Apart from these two situations, it is impossible to be a lover for the rest of your life.

There are only two situations where two people can be lovers for a lifetime. One is that both parties have a happy marriage and family. Another situation is that one party completely supports the other party. Apart from these two situations, it is impossible to be a lover for the rest of your life.

If one of the two parties has a bad family, then he wants to start a family with his lover. This has become the basis for the conflict between the two. This also determines that both parties cannot be lovers for life, and their relationship will eventually break down. It's just about time.

If one party has a family, but the other party does not have a family, then unless you completely support the other party, let the other party completely recognize his humble status and let him accept this kind of life of being kept.

If one party is married, but the other party is unmarried. Moreover, the married party not only does not keep the unmarried party, but instead treats the unmarried party as a bag of money and always cheats away the unmarried party's money. Such a lover relationship will not only break down actively, but will also have a high probability of blood disaster. This type of extramarital affair mostly occurs in men who seek out money and sex with unmarried women. Of course, there are also cases of women cheating on men.

Actually, it’s about extramarital affairs. Anyone who encounters these problems must think about a problem carefully. Does that mean that feelings exist? Does love exist?

Any psychologist will tell you that feelings and love are vain and subjective and do not exist. Can people’s affairs be caused by human nature?

So, don't be a lover. Don't play extramarital affair. There are so many men and women in the world, why do you have to steal people? Wouldn't it be nice to find a complete person of your own?

As for the feelings and love you think you feel, its essence is an illusion. You must get rid of this illusion to live in real life.

Whether it is love or love, is the essence of it the natural and comfortable relationship between two opposite sexes. And this can easily appear among many opposite sexes. There is no need for you to be lovers with someone just to be happy and comfortable. You have to know that you are an individual, you are not a beast. You are a human being. You should have a complete and dedicated emotional relationship that belongs to you that is recognized by society and morally, rather than stealing other people's spouses.