text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Xiao Jing once saw this sentence on the Internet:
"The secret to living in harmony with women is to let her take advantage, and never let her suffer losses. A girl who likes to take advantage will be happy and thus recognize you; a girl who does not likes to take advantage will be grateful and thus recognize you."
In short, it is to let women take advantage more, which is a manifestation of men's liking for women.
I believe many women think so, but do you know? There are many ways to express love. It is one way to take advantage of you, and it is also one way to take advantage of you.
The relationship between men and women is actually a two-way request. Letting you take advantage means that a man is willing to give for you, and taking advantage is a man’s request for you.
Although it is difficult to balance this kind of effort and request, it is all proof that men like you. If it weren't for loving you, men wouldn't bother to take advantage of you at all.
Even if you don’t want to be taken advantage of by men, you must understand that men treat you like this, seem to be taking advantage of you, but in fact they are in love with you.
Go to and from get off work while your car
My friend Xiao Ding told me that she recently encountered something very troublesome, and one of her male colleagues always took advantage of her car.
This male colleague actually owns a car, and the two of them are not close to each other. It will take half an hour to send the male colleague back.
Xiao Ding hinted from the beginning that her male colleague didn't want the other person to take advantage of the car, but the other person didn't know if it didn't understand or deliberately. Anyway, she just liked to take her car, and she was in the co-pilot every time.
This behavior of a male colleague is obviously taking advantage of Xiao Ding, but if you think about it carefully, why did he do this?
A man often takes advantage of the woman's car when he owns a car and both parties are not on the way. He seems to be taking advantage of the woman, but in fact he likes it.
Men do this with only one purpose, which is to create more opportunities to get along with women alone. Although his method is a bit unacceptable, you can see his intentions from it.
If your male colleague also acts like this, you have to pay attention. You should know that a man treats you like this may be because he falls in love with you.
often go to your house for free and eat
My friend Ahai and Xiaojiu have been together for almost three years. When I recalled the scene I just met, Xiaojiu always said that Ahai was taking advantage of her.
Three years ago, the two of them were interns at the same company, and the house they rented happened to be opposite the door again. Ah Hai doesn't know how to cook, so after getting along with Xiaojiu, he often goes to her house for free.
Someone is accompanying her to have dinner. Although it makes Xiaojiu feel that she is not that lonely, because she always pays for groceries by herself, she feels that Ah Hai is taking advantage of her.
Later she realized that the reason Ah Hai did this was because she fell in love with her at first sight and wanted to have more opportunities to get along with her.
A man always goes to a woman's house for free. It seems to be taking advantage of it, but in fact it is also a manifestation of love.
Because I have fallen in love with it in my heart, but I am not ready to confess my love, I can only create more opportunities for the two of them in this way of taking advantage of it.
During the long-term meal together, the relationship between the two people became closer and better. There are many scenes like
, which are often seen in TV series, in real life. If you have encountered this situation, it means that love has come to knock on the door.
Always touch you with your limbs
For men's limbs, most women will think that they are taking advantage of themselves, but this is not the case.
Reader Mr. Tao wrote to him that he was very distressed recently because his like was regarded as a way to take advantage of it.
Mr. Tao is a person who is not good at speaking. He has fallen in love with a friend of the opposite sex for a long time, but he has never confessed his love.
Every time he meets a friend of the opposite sex, he can't help but touch the other person with his limbs. At first he was just a small test, and gradually became bolder.
Because the other party did not refuse, he thought the other party accepted him. But later he heard from his friend that the other party had always been disgusted with his behavior and always thought that he was taking advantage of her.
Mr. Tang felt that he was wronged because he believed that physical touch was a way to express love, but the other party just didn't understand.
A man’s touch on a woman will indeed make women think that men are taking advantage of it, but women should also think about it. If a man doesn’t like you, how could he boldly touch you?
A man’s body touch seems to be taking advantage of you, but in fact it is also a manifestation of liking you. You may not accept it, but you cannot misunderstand his mind.
Conclusion: There are many behaviors that take advantage of others, which actually represent the love in a man's heart. Women only need to look at it from a different perspective to understand the man's true thoughts. Although being taken advantage of you will feel uncomfortable, you should also know that men treat you like this, but in fact they are in love with you.
