1. Depend on character and character. Whether you can get along with you is the most important thing. Too strong, you will definitely not be able to be scheming, sarcastic, dislike the poor and love the rich, and be greedy for vanity. Another point is whether your attitude towards your parents and elders is filial and respectful.
2. Look at the knowledge and cultivation. Good academic cultivation is not only conducive to the interaction between the two, but also better educate the next generation.
3. Depend on family background. When it comes to "family matches", many people may feel disgusted, but that's the reality. Marriage begins with the interaction between two people, but it is a combination of two families, or the running-in will be more accurate. A similar family background can reduce many conflicts and contradictions during the running-in process. Although there are many differences between ancient and modern times, many of the experiences summarized by our ancestors are common.
4. See interests and hobbies. Common interests and hobbies must be "consensus desire", which is the basis for maintaining the popularity of exchanges between the two parties, which can allow each other to have more topics and enhance the relationship between the two parties. Of course, although it is "likely" to have any low-level interests, such as hangovers, bars, gambling, etc. Emotions based on low-level fun are destined to be unhealthy and unsustainable.
5. Look at the words and deeds. A person's words and deeds are inseparable from his inner character cultivation. The character cultivation is profound and difficult to identify. Words and deeds are externalized and revealed, making it easier to detect. Therefore, you can understand a person's character through your words and deeds.
Finally, "Gold is pure, no one is perfect." A perfect person does not exist, and even if there is, it is not your turn. If you are not Tang Bohu, don’t always worry about Qiuxiang. If you are the top martial arts scholar, please support Sister Pomegranate. Focusing on the key points and mainstream is probably a good person who can meet these points. I wish all friends can find their own wonderful marriage.
