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After getting older, will your brother still contact you?
Is the relationship between the brothers and sisters in the family as good as they were when they were young after their parents passed away? Too difficult!
For the sake of their children and for their own interests, only when they need help will they think of their own brothers and sisters. They walk around each other less often and their relationship in their hearts fades. When they recall, they think of the beauty of the old man still alive, so they can only wipe away the tears in the corners of their eyes.
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People are old and find that their brothers and sisters are in a weak relationship. What should I do? Do 3 things, don’t sigh
first, relax your mindset, everything goes with the flow
When there are parents, family affection continues. When parents are not around, is family affection still there?
When my neighbor Aunt Liu was young, her uncle was worried and had eaten all his salary, which cost a lot. Aunt Liu was so angry that she was hospitalized, and the medical expenses were prepared by Aunt Liu's brothers.
Aunt Liu felt it was particularly embarrassing and planned to give it to several brothers with his salary. Unexpectedly, I asked my child to pay it back, but the child spent it. Aunt Liu was embarrassed to contact her brother if she couldn't pay it back. After a long time, the contact was cut off. When I get older, I miss them, but I don’t dare to look for them. A painful marriage cut off family affection and the way home.
Let’s go with the flow!
Aunt Liu felt pain inside. Her biological brother gave me too much. I regretted not listening to my parents and not educating my children well. I don’t know if I can still get my brother’s forgiveness in my lifetime?
Second, cherish your body and don’t cause trouble for your children
Uncle only has one son in his family. The uncle cherishes his body very much and smokes when he was young. After the aunt passed away, he stopped smoking. My uncle's old friend was sick and needed the care of his children.
Uncle doesn’t want his son to affect his work. In order to make his child live a good life, he cares about his health. In order to control blood pressure in terms of diet, we have reached a very strict level of control of salt and oil intake every day.
Both children in my second uncle work in another place, although they do not live in the same city as my brother, but they just talk to the phone during the holidays. They all bless each other, be healthy, take good care of yourself, and make your children live a relaxed life.
When you have no choice but to part with your brother, you can only expect that everyone is healthy, have a happy family, and the children are all in a smooth career, so they are content!
Live your own healthy life and don’t let your children worry. Brotherhood can only be cared about by an occasional greeting!
, look down on the past and live freely.
The father of a colleague Xiaoran earned a lot when he was young and was good to his brothers at home. He paid all his money for any family. However, when his parents were gone, several brothers left his lover with excitement!
The parents are gone, and the lover is gone! Xiaoran had to ask for leave and accompany her father to relax. After she felt better, Xiaoran came back to work.
paid so much, and the marriage fee for several children was given by Xiaoran's father, but in the end it was a waste. Xiaoran was very angry and helpless. I had to let my father take it lightly, and it is more important to live a good life in front of me.
I broke off contact with my brother. Xiaoran's father was also adjusting his mind, thinking that he had been working hard to make money, just hoping that everyone in his family would live a good life. Unexpectedly, everything was cut off! " Zhu Zi's Family Instructions ": Don't worry about giving favors, don't forget your kindness.Don't think about it anymore, forget it!
As my brothers are getting older, my contact with each other is fading, so I can only relax, make myself healthy, and have a higher quality of life so that my children can be happy and my family will be happy! Xiaoran's father began to join the morning exercise team, and began to practice calligraphy, and let go of it all!
A netizen on Zhihu shared that he has been worried about his parents since he went to college. Are they getting older and caring about them more?
The sadness of the past can only disperse with the wind. Or, only by making yourself in a good mood and in good health can your children work better and live a happier life! Are you right
Will you still contact me after my brother hurts your heart?
