A few days ago, a friend cried to me:
"I have been in a relationship with the other party for six years, but the other party has never proposed to me. When I talk about marrying the other party, my boyfriend will say that he is not ready yet, and sometimes he is very impatient. This makes me feel particularly distressed because I want to get married early and have a child."
When I heard the sister's crying, I had a bad premonition:
Maybe this man never thought about marrying me, the sister, and maybe he did not treat the other party as his wife to see this relationship in the beginning. My sister also paid a lot, and she gave more in love than the man.
So this relationship is unequal, my sister has been giving, and that man has been asking for it. But the fact is that the man is also very outstanding, his career is booming, and he has a net worth of tens of millions.
But my sisters have neither education nor improvement of their education, and they have no job, so they ask men for money all day long.
Finally, I advised my sisters:
"Break up with the other party early and go find your next home. This person is unreliable, and this person will not marry you."
So sometimes women must know how to invest in themselves and don't hold on to a man, because sometimes this man does not regard you as his future wife, so the woman is the one who suffers in the end.
Women must make themselves better and better, and must understand that the woman a good man wants to marry brings these three points of light.
01. Elegant appearance
A woman can attract an excellent man. First of all, the appearance of this woman is very elegant, which will make men feel very comfortable. Only in this way can women attract men and let men understand you.
If a woman looks not good-looking enough, she can actually improve her temperament. Sometimes we can make her dressing style more elegant. In this way, it will make men feel comfortable and will also make men's eyes shine.
So women must be more reserved when dressing up. Sometimes they don’t show much, but they are good in the eyes of men. On the contrary, the more reserved woman will make men feel suitable for being a wife.
There are many women wearing clothes that are not wrapped in the video, and many men like it below, but these men are just playing around with each other, just to play with each other. When it is really time to marry each other, such men often hesitate.
so women must make their appearance clean and tidy, and they are particularly elegant. In this way, men will think that you are a good woman and will feel that being with you is not just a playful thing, but to marry you home. At this point, women must figure it out.
In fact, sometimes it is more elegant and has an oriental charm. This is much better than those that are very seriously leaked, and will be respected by men. It will be like a fairy, which will make men feel that this kind of woman is untainted by the mud, and will also make men admire her. After getting it, she will cherish it and protect it well.
Women must be clear about an excellent man. They often don’t value how much this woman is exposed. They often don’t like a woman. Their clothes are exposed. Those men who like women who don’t wear clothes are often relatively superficial.
02. Clear black and white
A woman must be clearly distinguished between black and white. When you clearly distinguish between black and white, men will think you are a thoughtful woman.
There are some women who have not married men, but when they arrive at a man’s house, they will always have conflicts with their parents, or even conflicts with their brothers and sisters. Then, this approach is wrong. If you have not passed by someone else’s house, you should not do this.
If you think the other person’s family is not easy to talk to, when you encounter such a thing, you can discuss it with the man to explain some of your depression. In this way, the man will think you are a reasonable woman.
Some women raise their dissatisfaction with men's family to their emotional dissatisfaction with men. Some conflicts will arise between the two. Men will think that such women are not clearly distinguished from black and white. Women will think that such women are unreasonable women. Over time, men will be very bored.
You must know that an excellent man will definitely contribute to this family. If you have already caused chaos in the other party’s family before you pass the door, then the man will stay away from you and will be separated from you in the end.
03. There is a bottom line
If a woman has a bottom line, then in the eyes of men, this woman is also very excellent.
An excellent woman can often attract an excellent man and will enter the palace of marriage with this man.
If a woman has no bottom line, then in the eyes of men, this woman is a woman without personality, and men will feel that there is no future with such a woman.
Because if you are with each other, once you get married, then the two of you will run a good family. If this woman is a woman with no bottom line, it is impossible to run this family well in life.
If a woman has no bottom line, then the things in the house may be occupied by outsiders. Sometimes such women will not be able to tell whether they are good or bad, or who is good to whom. Many things will backfire. Therefore, such women are relatively stupid and men don’t like them.
As a woman, you must make yourself better and better. Sometimes you are good to someone, but the other person may not be nice to you, but when you become more and more outstanding, you will attract excellent men.
