As the saying goes, "A man is afraid of entering the wrong profession, and a woman is afraid of marrying the wrong man." If a woman is married correctly, it is very important to her life's happiness. But if the marriage is happy or not, others really have no say. As the saying goes, "It is like a fish drinking water, you will know the cold and warmth." Therefore, we cannot point out other people's lives from the perspective of bystanders. Despite this, I still can't help but want to comment on these ordinary people in the ordinary world.
Let’s talk about the supporting role Sun Lanhua.
Sun Lanhua is the eldest daughter of Sun Yuhou . Although the Sun family is poor, it has very excellent genetic gene . Sun Lanhua, Sun Lanxiang , Sun Shaoan and Sun Shaoping are all excellent in appearance and inward. Because Sun Lanhua is the eldest daughter of her family, she has been poor since childhood, and has never been to school or left Shuangshui Village. Adhering to the hard work and ability of his parents, Sun Lanhua is strong and can chop firewood, carry water, and farm. There are many younger brothers and sisters, and Sun Lanhua is the neglected child. Every day, I work hard in the mountains and fields for the life of my family, and I often fall asleep as soon as I get my pillow at night.
Her world is very simple. Just talking about working and eating, her activities are all about home and the field, and her clothes are all patches. As for the future, she has never thought about it.
Until one day, a young man dressed and washed face appeared in front of her and said something that made people blush. On May 1st, the girl started to suffer indifference. After a while, the girl began to suffer insomnia. She has never been paid attention to like this in her life, and the feelings of the sleeping girl were awakened like this. When he kissed her fiercely and gave her a new dress he bought from another place, she agreed to marry him.
We all know that this person is the famous "ghost-walking" Wang Manyin . Originally, his ancestors were rich, but his grandfather ruined his family. His father is a famous example. He was alone at the age of nineteen and wandered around idle. When I reached the age of starting a family, I thought for a long time that beautiful and capable orchids were suitable. So he used his slutty tongue and gained the favor of orchids by acting like a gangster.
After the girlish feelings of orchid were ignited, they no longer listened to any persuasion. His father Sun Yuhou said he would not agree to the marriage. Orchid, who had always been docile, threatened his father with death, and from then on, a flower was inserted on cow dung. Although Wang Manyin was not optimistic, in Orchid's heart, he was his treasure, because only he had given her the glory and happiness of love in her dim youth.
The orchid after marriage maintains the traditional Chinese women's "marry a chicken and follow the chicken, marry a dog and follow the dog", and lives with him wholeheartedly. Wang Manyin did nothing, and he walked around every day, no matter whether he was the housekeeper or the children. Orchid was alone in the house. I often have a meal at home but have no meals, and I rely on my parents’ help. At the end of the year, as soon as the twelfth lunar month approaches, Orchid hopes that her husband Wang Manyin will come back with great pleasure, and then serves him with satisfaction.
Wang Manyin often returns empty-handed for a year, and of course sometimes he will bring back something, especially once he brought back a "Nanyang" woman during the Chinese New Year. Although Sun Lanhua, who had been waiting for a whole year, was a little disappointed, she still accepted Wang Manyin's arrangement, and the three of them and their children were all sleeping on the same kang.
The "god sister" that Wang Manyin met halfway through is also a speculative person. He reselled the electronic watch with a fake plastic core at a high price and made dozens of yuan. Since the two of them got together, they have switched to sell watches during the day and slept in a bed at night. Because of Orchid's good temperament, he took it home later. He knew too much about Orchid and knew that she would not react.
He ignored that Orchid is a traditional woman. She maintained her unparalleled loyalty to him. She only had a few days of intimacy every year, which made her forget all her pain. She also hoped that he could be as loyal as she did and bring back a woman. The simple Orchid didn't think about anything else, but when he started to act sneakily in the middle of the night, Orchid was completely hurt.
This woman who has never left the house in her life ran to the "commune" in anger. Her demands made the commune kidnap the "woman" from outside. This should be the first big thing she has done in her life. However, when she heard that she was going to kidnap her man, she retreated and refused to sue her. She couldn't bear to let her man suffer.
This is a traditional rural woman. She is unwilling to "promote family scandals outside". She is unwilling to let her family kidnap her husband. She is not able to drive that woman away. She does not have the courage to make a public fuss about this matter. She thinks about "the idea of death fills her whole heart." This woman, who is usually a little weak, has two thoughts of dying in her life, both of which are related to her husband Wang Manyin. But she didn't hate him. When she came back from the hospital, she saw Wang Manyin, who was beaten by Shaoan , regardless of her sadness and hunger, immediately wiped his face with a hot towel. Even so, Wang Manyin just stayed at home for a few days, and his old illness relapsed and he wandered around.
Wang Wang Manyin has been shopping for many years, and his hair is white, but his hands are still empty. Suddenly, he thinks that he should go home to accompany his wife and children to live the rest of his life. Orchid only let him stay at home, and he was reluctant to let him work in the fields. As long as her husband did not leave her, she felt that it would be a great happiness. She tried every means to make him eat and drink well, and she loved him like a baby.
Is the life of orchids bitter? Sun Yuhou often felt so distressed that she cried. Sun Shaoan also felt sorry for her two young nephews. Everyone felt that she was miserable and felt sorry for her, but she didn't realize it. Just like Xiu Lian didn't want a bride gift at the beginning, and she resolutely followed Shaoan to live a hard life in the wind and rain. When the bitterness came, she fell down. Everyone thought Xiu Lian was a pity, but Xiu Lian enjoyed the process very much. Runye, after Li Xiangqian became disabled, he felt her husband's love, changed his mind and served him for the rest of his life, and everyone felt sorry for Runye.
In fact, whether it is the last moist leaf, the initial lotus or the orchid, their lives have their own hardships, but their hearts are sweet, and whether they are happy or not is entirely a personal subjective feeling and has nothing to do with others. "It's hard to buy willingness with money." This is human nature, this is life.
