The maintenance of a marriage depends on the joint efforts of both husband and wife. The husband and wife love each other with one heart, take the initiative to take responsibility, treat each other well, and live with each other down-to-earth. The marriage between the two can often be maintained well.
However, if both husband and wife do not focus on this marriage and are unwilling to live a down-to-earth life with each other, they will always create problems, but are unwilling to solve the problems.
There are too many problems accumulated between them, but they have never thought about solving them. In the end, the two often go to the end of their fate. After their marriage is over, they find it difficult to find a better one. In the end, they may reflect and regret, and feel that they did not cherish it enough and broke up rashly. This may be the irreparable regret in their lives.
If you don’t want to see such a result, you should avoid such a thing. In fact, if these signs are missing between husband and wife, it is easy to end their fate. Do you understand it?
1. If there is any problem, it will not be solved through communication.
There will inevitably be misunderstandings and conflicts between husband and wife. At this time, if you maintain spiritual communication and say anything directly, many problems will be solved.
In marriage, couples maintain spiritual communication, and both express their problems and dissatisfaction, so that the other party understands their expectations. This will give the other party a certain alert and make the other party realize their mistakes and shortcomings, and the other party may restrain themselves, and the problems between the two people will be gradually solved.
On the contrary, the couple lives under the same roof and originally had many opportunities for communication. Both of them were unwilling to open their hearts and express their opinions to each other. They were all hidden and unwilling to talk to each other. As a result, the originally small problem eventually became a big problem because there was no communication. Over time, the relationship between the two became more and more tense.
2. There are intersections in life and help each other in life.
If a husband and wife are intimate, two people live together, cherish each other, value the time they spend together, and be able to treat each other well in life and accompany each other.
They stay together, and when encountering things, they can think about each other and help each other, and their relationship will gradually improve.
On the contrary, if couples are different from each other and are unwilling to focus on each other, the two will no longer have any intersection in life and will be indifferent to each other's affairs. As a result, it can be imagined that the distance between them will become larger and larger, and the relationship between the two will become worse and worse.
3. Take care of each other and continue to improve yourself.
When a couple is together, they can listen to each other's voices, take care of each other's feelings, and be able to recognize some of their words and deeds in the process of getting along with each other and make up for their shortcomings, and continuously improve themselves. The relationship between the two people will often develop in a better direction.
Just like in a marriage, if one party does something wrong, he will take the initiative to apologize, make up for his mistakes, and continuously improve himself, and the relationship between them will become better and better.
On the contrary, when two people are together, they do not care about each other, do not take each other seriously, do not care about each other's feelings, do not pay attention to each other's opinions, and do not think about making any changes to enhance the relationship between the two. The result can be imagined that both of them are too indulgent and act recklessly, which will only make the relationship between the two people worse and worse.
