This extramarital affair case was encountered by Jiaxin some time ago.
How did the original wife Ms. Zhao discover her husband’s extramarital affair?
is because her son’s kindergarten teacher asked her if she wanted to pull her into the parent group.
said that although her husband was in the group, he couldn't find anything, so he looked for her.
But the problem is that Ms. Zhao’s son is already in junior high school and she is only one child.
So why did her husband have other children? She didn't know, the children who were in kindergarten?
Because of this accident, Ms. Zhao realized that her husband had cheated on her. It has been seven or eight years since her illegitimate daughters have gone to kindergarten.
Because Ms. Zhao always posts photos of the family of three on her circle of friends.
even posted her sister's daughter, and she also talked about her own baby.
So the kindergarten teacher naturally felt that the one who sent her husband to the kindergarten was her second daughter.
The man who cheated on him never thought that Ms. Zhao’s son had been in kindergarten for six or seven years, and Ms. Zhao also had a friend of the kindergarten teacher.
And this kindergarten teacher also recognizes him and knows that he and Ms. Zhao are husband and wife.
Under these various coincidences, Ms. Zhao discovered this extramarital affair.
Ms. Zhao told Jiaxin that she couldn't accept it when she first found out.
She and her husband have been married for more than ten years and their relationship has always been very good.
Her husband contracts the project, so sometimes he goes on a business trip to other provinces and cities for a while.
Then she never doubted her husband, because her husband would go home to accompany her and her children as long as she had time.
drives for most of the day and can stay at home one night and have to go home.
I haven't had a fight for many years after getting married, and I am very nice to her parents.
Everyone around me says that Ms. Zhao married the right person and her husband is a peerless and good husband.
is such a good man who cheated on him and had such a big illegitimate child.
, and Ms. Zhao must have not noticed it from beginning to end, and was completely kept in the dark.
The man who cheated on him didn't know at first that Ms. Zhao had discovered it and was still pretending.
is fine. After returning home, I talked to Ms. Zhao about the child and said some sweet words.
Looking at the face of the cheating man, Ms. Zhao was so angry that she didn't understand why a cheating man could enjoy the family while carrying her back to her with peace of mind.
And cases like Ms. Zhao are actually not isolated cases.
Many wives have been cheated for several years, and for more than ten years, they have had illegitimate children.
means that some unexpected knowledge that their husbands have cheated.
This is a bolt from the blue for wives who believe in their husbands and have always had a good marriage life.
What is the mentality of men being able to enjoy their family while raising their lovers with peace of mind?
First of all, such men are selfish.
All the men who cheat are selfish, they only think about themselves.
Because marriage can no longer satisfy them, it is for their own selfish desires.
No matter how happy the marriage is, it will go out and cheat. It will not only raise a mistress, but also give birth to an illegitimate child.
A cheating man like this won't really think that his extramarital affair will never be discovered in his life.
Even if they have a lucky mentality, they feel that they will not be easily discovered.
, but I won’t be arrogant, and I feel that I can hide it for the rest of my life.
They know that sooner or later, their wives will know and their children will know, but they still cheat and have illegitimate children.
is because of myself, even though I know it will cause harm to my wife and children, I still want to satisfy my desires first.
Secondly, such men are greedy.
Why can you enjoy your family while raising your lover with peace of mind?
is because both sides can bring him what he wants, and he has a certain enjoyment.
He wants not only the benefits brought to him by a stable family, but also the enjoyment that a mistress can bring to him.
All cheating men have this mentality, no matter how good the marriage is, they will be dissatisfied.
They always want more, or better, or even a little more enjoyment.
cheating is not because of an unfortunate marriage, but because of feeling that you can get more happiness through extramarital affair.
Finally, such a man is arrogant.
On the one hand, they will feel that they make a lot of money and can afford to support two women.
No matter it is this wife or a third party, there is no formal job.
is all raised by cheating men, and cheating men do make more money.
has a natural mentality. I can support two families, so I will raise two.
On the other hand, this cheating man is very good at coaxing people.
Not to mention that the original wife has been cheated for seven or eight years, she has not noticed it, and she also thinks that a cheating man is a peerless and good husband.
Just talk about this third party. She has been with the cheating man for many years, and her illegitimate daughter is so old.
Not to mention forcing the ceremonial ceremonies to rise to power, the mistress has been cooperating with the cheating man to hide his extramarital affair.
does not cause trouble at all, only a cheating man can hide it so well.
A cheating man should also be arrogant for this. Maybe he goes out with his original wife. When
is praised by relatives and friends, he will be proud. He is really amazing.
After analyzing the psychology of a cheating man, let’s talk about the case itself.
To be honest, Jiaxin’s suggestion is to divorce and stop loss in a timely manner, and use the character of cheating a man with good men.
original wife can negotiate with cheating a man without causing trouble, but she needs more benefits.
Don’t make a fuss until you become enemies. Don’t think about how to relieve your anger. It’s serious to get the custody of the child and property.
With such a arrogant personality as a cheating man, the original wife showed that she was reluctant to leave the cheating man even after divorce.
A cheating man will feel that he can still hold on to his original wife even if his property is given to him.
he
can remarry his original wife, and his property will be his in the future. Only in this way can the cheating man be willing to give more property.
Jiaxin does not advise the original wives to be patient, but hopes that the original wives can know what is the most important thing.
is more relieved than to relieve your anger at the moment. If you take more property, you will make the cheating man think that he will give you more property, and it will be more relieved.
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I am Jiaxin, a marriage maintenance teacher who focuses on the separation of third parties.
