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As the pace of life accelerates, more and more people's demand for emotions is gradually increasing.
is mainly manifested in the desolation of a person who envys others for having a partner when he is lonely and has no one to accompany him when he is sick.
As adults, we may not be so pretentious, but the facts have proved that there are too many things in
, and there are too many differences between and secular concepts.
We think destined is the heart-warming when we meet, but we don’t know that the so-called love at first sight is just a wishful illusion.
In this world, there are too many regrets and misses.
If we cannot judge whether the person we meet can be with us for a lifetime, then it will be difficult to grasp our happiness in the end.
gets along with the opposite sex. If we have these tacit understandings, it is truly "destined".
1. Mutual trust
Sense of trust is an indispensable condition between lovers.
If two people are together and the other party is just going home late, they have to accept your "judgment" and "guessment". Will such a relationship be too suffocating?
The relationship between adults requires respect for each other, even those who love each other.
Perhaps it is due to women's nature. They are prone to lack a sense of security in their relationships. When facing a man's closeness, they will also appear to be worried about gains and losses.
At this time, women should learn to adjust their mentality.
We are a mature adult, not a child, and we don’t have to stick to the object all day long to share the sweetness.
Of course, as a qualified partner, we should not let our lovers feel neglected.
When we are busy or cannot reply to the other party’s messages in time, we can explain it in time afterwards.
If something is not solved, it will become a hidden danger, causing quarrels and conflicts in a certain node.
Many feelings are broken in unknown details.
Therefore, mutual trust among the opposite sex is the basic condition.
2. Understand each other
The most feared thing in a relationship is not the third party, but you don’t understand my joys and sorrows.
Nowadays, many people’s views on emotions require consistency in their three views and souls, but meeting this person with destiny is not easy to .
As long as we go from one person to two people, we will habitually put ourselves in the center, ignore the other person's feelings, and even try to change the other person.
This is actually a wrong behavior.
Reminds of a plot in hit drama " Bottom Line " .
Zhong Yuanyuan and Sheng Fangming are a couple. They have reached the point of talking about marriage and are only short of getting a certificate to hold the wedding.
But at the last juncture, Zhong Yuanyuan met Sheng Fangming betrayed him, and the two eventually parted in an unhappy manner.
Seeing this, many netizens think that Sheng Fangming is just deceiving his relationship.
But isn’t this relationship that I have loved deeply, and there are cracks in the little things?
Zhong Yuanyuan's family is well-off and pays attention to life; Sheng Fangming was an entrepreneur who had not made much money in and valued work.
The former focuses on quality of life, while the latter only wants to work hard for a career.
The two lacked the topic of encouragement and emotional communication, and finally broke up, which was reasonable.
In fact, two people who cannot understand each other are like two intersecting lines, after meeting, they go further and further.
Only by thinking from the other person's perspective and trying to understand the other person can the relationship be kept fresh.
3. Getting along with each other
Someone asked: What is the best love?
The answer is simple, it is not that you have a lot of money, but that you have a lot of happiness.
This society is too impetuous. Each of us lives wearing a mask, and even the smile on our faces is just an expression.
Only those who have been beaten by society understand: it is so rare to be with someone who can make you feel happy.
Just imagine: many people live a mess after getting married, and the laughter and joy of the past are replaced by family matters. Is
because I don’t love it anymore? Of course not, but at the beginning, what we showed to each other was a kind of packaged "pleasure".
is truly destined to not need any whitewashing, but is happy from the bottom of your heart.
Love will never disappear, it will only disguise itself as if it makes you lost.
Don’t rush to determine the relationship with someone. Before we make a choice, we can get along with the other party for a period of time.
If you laugh more than worry, then congratulations: You have met true love.
Xiao Yuan Message : Between the opposite sex, love and respect are needed.
How to get along with people is also an art, especially in front of people who make you moved.
cannot show that it is afraid of shrinking, and cannot show that it is too ostentatious.
Only with just the right expression and communication can a relationship last.
If you meet the opposite sex that makes you excited, and you have the above three tacit understanding, then please cherish this relationship.
encourage each other!
Topic: What behaviors do you think are true "destined" among the opposite sex?
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