Friends, good evening.
Recently, there was a small emotional observation: there is also a difference between people's singleness. For example, some people are single because they don’t even have a opposite sex around them. Some people say that they are single and do not have real girlfriends, but they account for three-quarters of the ambiguous objects on the WeChat list. It's really Schrödinger's singleness.
A friend went camping some time ago and met a new boy. He was fair and pretty and tall. He was the type that she would be moved at a glance.
and chatted on WeChat and learned that his work is good. When chatting, you can pick up memes, and you can see the things posted on your circle of friends and you can see that your taste is not bad. A friend joked and asked him, "Boss like you should be very popular, why don't you have a girlfriend?"
This guy said that he has been single for two years. He usually goes to fitness except for work, and occasionally goes out to play with friends. The circle is quite small, and there are no suitable girls around. And I don’t want to enter a relationship that is fruitless anymore. I waste time and feelings. If I want to have a conversation, I will have a serious relationship and want to have a relationship based on years.
Anyway, I don’t have much experience in love, and I’m not so casual, and I won’t mess around. When asked about her previous girlfriend, she was a little regretful but relieved tone. In addition to the nervousness and shyness he showed when he met, his pure and dedicated personality was established.
My friend was in a state of full bloom at that time. crush is not only my ideal type, but also a handsome young man. Both of them have been single for a long time. Isn’t that the destined destiny of each other? !
Everyone advised her to be careful. After all, based on the experience of the people around her, Any man with better conditions may not be as simple as he sees on the surface.
At this time, my friends who were almost trapped in didn't care about so many of them. They used "He doesn't look like that kind of bad guy" and "There are very few honest and handsome guys, but they are not extinct."
Until one time a friend went to him for dinner and wanted to order milk tea in the restaurant, he handed her his phone to her for her to see. She chose and jumped to the checkout page and saw that the default address was a nearby hotel.
Out of curiosity, she opened the address column and found that there were several different hotel addresses, and there were two strange addresses. The recipient was the girl's name. She returned the phone to him and continued to have dinner with him absent-mindedly.
After the date, both of them went home, he asked her if she had any worries. She couldn't help asking him what was going on with those addresses. He quickly explained that they were all takeaways ordered before and forgot to delete them.
No matter what, this incident has had a considerable impact on his pure love personality. While my friend felt a sense of disappointment about being deceived, he also comforted himself with "It's already a thing of the past."
Less than two days later, another friend of my friend sent a screenshot saying that he seemed to have seen the man on the dating software. My friend found out that it was him after reading the screenshot and asked his best friend to swipe right first to try his luck. Unexpectedly, he got on match that day. After chatting for a few words, he said that he was single and hoped that he could come out to play together when he had time.
Now my friend gave up on him completely. After deleting the friend with one click, he said that he would not trust the man easily anymore. The next step is to go to Ganlu Temple to sweep the floor.
I have discovered that some people are single on the surface, but they are not idle behind their backs. Ambiguous, raising fish, and even chatting with sex or having sex, but they just won’t confirm their relationship with these “close female friends”.There is also the kind who talked about fast food love for two weeks, and they only took it lightly.
Most of them are unwilling to be bound by relationships and only enjoy and don’t want to give or take responsibility. Even if you establish the so-called pure love personality and the illusion that you always give people a good chance, it is just for the convenience of achieving your own goals.
We are not saying that we do these things during our single period, but it is a one-size-fits-all approach. Of course, being single has the right to have ambiguous relationships. Everyone has their own emotional pattern, and others have no right to criticize and accuse them. However, it is really nauseating to pretend that they have been severing love and not being close to women for many years.
It’s like a friend who has been in a window for a year and is asked about how long he was single by others, he would not avoid mentioning that he had an ambiguous relationship with the person he liked, but unfortunately he was destined to be in the end and failed to succeed.
To put it bluntly, many people are still pursuing love. instead of creating a illusion of love for people, it is actually just to satisfy one's own selfish desires.
Anyway, next time I meet someone I like, saying that I have been single for many years, so I may have to ask some questions. Of course, Schrödinger is not a big deal. Don’t create so many characters for yourself and you won’t be scolded.
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