Women are middle-aged, so it is better not to bother with "love or not" anymore. It is better to live a more realistic life. In fact, many women are still entangled with "love or not" when they reach middle-aged, which is really a bit stubborn.
When I was young, love can make people reborn or destroy love. Love must love passionately and wholeheartedly. Love is everything and everything. That is because I am young and do not understand the world, so I have such persistent pursuits. However, when people reach middle age, they experience a lot and understand a lot, and they will live a more realistic life. They no longer regard the love that pursues the love and love of the moon as the only pursuit in life, and will no longer regard love as the support of life.
In the face of reality, it is no longer pretentious or stubborn, but admits that bread is more reliable than love, because love cannot be eaten as a meal.
Women are middle-aged and don’t have to bother men whether they love you or not, whether they change their minds, and whether they will leave you. They think all day long about how to please men’s heart, grasp men’s stomach, and keep men’s people, making them restless and restless. In fact, there is no need to worry so much.
You should know that men who want to leave you will leave sooner or later; men who don’t love you will be exposed sooner or later. They cannot change as you want, nor can you keep it as you keep it. When love has not undergone substantial changes, instead of thinking about it, it is better to keep your energy, manage yourself well, and live a steadfast life. Even if the situation you expected in the future, then with your strong strength, you will no longer be afraid of changes in reality.
No matter whether there is love in marriage or not, women must know how to do these three things well!
Women reach middle age, they must work hard to make money silently and rely on their own financial independence.
Zhang Youyi said: A good direction in life depends on one's own success.
The best way for women to live after middle age is to have money and ability in their hands, so that they can have the right to choose freedom.
Katherine Hepburn once said: "Woman, if you can choose between money and sexiness, then choose money. When you are old, money will make you sexy."
Economic independence has always been the greatest capital of women. When a woman does not have the ability to make money independently, she will naturally lose the initiative in family life. In real life, you can have no love and no marriage, but you cannot have the ability to support yourself. Only with it can you face the toughness of reality calmly.
Women should clearly know in middle age that in life, it is better to rely on themselves than to rely on others. Financial independence is the greatest confidence of women in marriage. Only when they are independent can they have the toughness of life and get along with their lovers on an equal footing, and will not feel humble in front of others.
In marriage, your independent economy can make your husband and in-laws respect you more; if you have money in your hands and encounter risks in your marriage, you will have the ability to fight against many unexpected things, and you will not be helpless and humble in the dust.
Although having money may not necessarily make you happy, but without money, you will definitely not be happy. Therefore, for middle-aged women, only by working hard to make money and striving for financial independence can they dominate their own destiny, change their life state, pursue the freedom they want, and have the love they yearn for.
Live in the world. Everyone should be responsible for their own life and have the ability to be responsible for themselves. In this world, many people will add icing on the cake, but no one is willing to give you timely help. Except for yourself, you can make your life better, no one can give it.
Therefore, women must work hard to make money, make themselves better people, become a solid backing for their parents, become a reliable partner for their husbands, and become the most reliable leader for their children.
Women reach middle age, raising themselves is better than pleasing others.
An Li said: "The only thing in this world that can withstand the destruction of time is talent."
says that time does not forgive others, especially women, so women must learn to be independent, not only economically but also spiritually independent. Therefore, when women reach middle age, it is always good to study more, read more, and exercise more.
When people reach middle age, they must know that in the noisy world, they should quietly enrich themselves and improve their inner qualities and cultivation. Don't deliberately flatter anyone, don't force them. Whose love, whether it is the mountain of learning, or life experience, can only understand the fun of it through experience, and can only accumulate strength and develop continuously over time.
The world is bizarre, ordinary life has wiped out too much fighting spirit. The first half of life is busy, and the second half of life should settle down and sort out the years before moving forward. The road ahead is still long. We have to continue rushing tomorrow, and we must still be confident in the future.
No matter how much life is, life should not be lived alone, beauty should not be abandoned, every day should be extremely fulfilled, do your best to enrich your inner blanks, make up for the lack of thoughts, nourish your soul, and make your life pragmatic and romantic.
Only once in life, nourishing yourself is not only material, but also spiritual abundance, so that you have better material conditions and have rich spirits. God’s life.
Women when they reach middle age, they should cultivate some interests, enrich their lives, and experience the joy of life.
Wang Han said: "Be brave and find what you really like. Only by finding what you really like can you get rid of the anxiety and confusion brought by going with the flow. "So, middle-aged women, no matter whether they have love or not, don't give up on themselves too early and give up their life.
When women reach middle age, the love in marriage has faded, and even no love, they will feel boring and life is bitter and hard. I don't know what kind of mentality should be used to face the future road besides a simple life and how to spend time alone.
When you experience some things and take some things lightly, women will understand that rather than courting men, pleasing marriage, and pleasing men, women should learn to please themselves and make themselves live more and more interesting.
After work, in their spare time, cultivate interest for themselves appropriately, do what they like, and transfer attention and energy from their distress. Come, let your heart feel the richness of life.
Life is on the road of getting older, having your own interests and hobbies is a very happy thing. When your interests and hobbies are enough to support you, your mood will become better, your horizons will be broader, and there will be more friends. Gradually, you will find that marriage is not the whole of life, and love or not love is not as important as imagined.
If someone loves it, it is better. If you are not loved, it doesn’t matter!
Love is not the whole of a woman’s life; marriage is not the destination of a woman’s life. When you are middle-aged, don’t bother with love or not.
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