Zhang Ailing once said: "Love will end when it is about to end. At that time, it is impossible not to end. Love turns out to be a drink of poisonous wine with a smile."
Although in this world where every day is unknown, not every relationship can reach the end, there are always some relationships that you will know that you can't go any further as you walk.
In fact, whether a relationship can go long can be judged by daily communication and actions put into practice.
Because love is in the details, so is it not to love.
If you have been dating for many years, the other party has never talked to you about these topics, and most of them have never thought about being with you for the rest of your life. You should consider whether there is any need to continue this relationship.
1. I have never talked to you about the future plans
. People who really want to spend their whole life with you, no matter how uncontrollable he was before, at the moment he met you, he began to become mature, plan everything, and put it into action.
Begin to take care of things, because you must give priority to everything, and you are put first in every plan.
A so-called person who originally had little to do with a house and income began to set goals for himself, when to buy a house, how to improve himself, how to increase his income, and do his best to improve his quality of life.
Ta will tell you what your plan is in order to make more money in the future, and formulate the worst-case response measures. As long as you are there, you don’t have to worry about anything.
Because I want to give you a better life for this home. You can clearly feel the efforts he has made for your future.
. People who have never thought about spending their whole life with you never consider any consideration for you in their work. They avoid the future when talking about the future, and never tell you about family affairs, and they will not help you share the burden when you encounter difficulties.
Most people who treat you like this are not true love.
2. Never talk about marriage with you
Talk about marriage is the recognition of this relationship.
As Yang Jiang said: "Before I met you, I never thought about getting married. After I met you, I never thought about getting married with others."
People who have never thought of spending their whole life with you will never take the initiative to mention marriage to you no matter how long they have been together or how long they have been dating.
Because he knows very well, whether to live a while or a lifetime with you.
You take the initiative to get married early, your silence, your perfunctoryness, and your avoidance are all for you to be conscious of yourself, accept the facts, or leave yourself with the conscious of yourself.
. People who really want to spend their whole life with you, no matter how many days you have known each other or have been dating for a while, when they recognize you, they want to give you a title.
Ta will plan to bring you to know your friends, your family, your family, and your friends into the relationship between the two families.
Even if the current material conditions and objective factors cannot meet the prerequisite for marriage, he will give you a clear reply and time.
Talk about marriage and the future and put it on the agenda. This is the most reliable promise of a relationship, the visible future of a relationship, and the best love.
3. If you say anything to you,
The most comfortable relationship is that both parties can be their true selves and can say everything without worrying about being unhappy because they said something wrong.
Because you understand me, I understand you, what you want to express.
No matter whether it is sad and happy things, the little warmth you see accidentally, the things in the workplace or the things you encounter in the social circle, you can chat with you without any hesitation.
It’s natural, and there is no avoidance in words; there is no dodging in eyes.
You will be open and honest with each other, without hiding each other, let alone deceiving each other.
Such feelings are extremely precious.
Those who want to spend their whole life with you will not let you wait too long. You don’t need to stand on tiptoe to love him. He will bend down and he will do what he says.
In a relationship, whether you are loved is true or not, only you know best.
When you often feel that you will not have a future and love disappears, leave as soon as possible.
The rest of your life will not last long, love and cherish it, and only if you miss it, you will have the chance to meet the right one.
