Is the original divorce agreement still valid after remarriage? There is a saying in "The Dream of the Bridge" that goes well, "Women's marriage represents the end of daily life and also represents the starting point of daily life." This "starting point" means that you must continue to work hard in all aspects, enrich yourself, and move forward.
There is a saying that has been circulating on the Internet: "Even the most lucky marriage, there are 100 thoughts of divorce in your life."
So if you have really argued with your partner to the point where you tried to say "divorce", don't feel guilty, but instead learn from the sentence "divorce" and how to love each other more.
When you want to divorce, please think about the following questions first, and you will find that you are just a momentary inspiration, and you will also find that you have such deep feelings for your partner.
Otherwise, you will stay at the starting line from the beginning, stick to the rules and break the trajectory during the period, and go further and further with your husband. If a woman enters the path of marriage, many problems will arise, such as how to save the marriage after her husband cheats, the psychological state of a man when he has a third party, and the men have an extramarital affair. These will be your problem, so you must prevent problems before they happen.
Before divorce, ask yourself: Do you still remember the reason for loving each other?
This problem may be very ordinary for everyone. It is a problem that ordinary dating men and women should also reflect on themselves when they are about to break up. However, the most common problem is the most basic.
The origin of a marriage is the love between a man and a woman. If you can remember the reason why you loved each other, you will definitely not forget your love for him at this moment.
You or him may change as the years pass, and some things may gradually become natural, making everyone slowly forget their original intentions
Whenever they are angry, think about the reason why you loved him, take out the beautiful things from the depths of your mind, tell the other party, and then ask yourself the next question.
Woman, you have to know, what should I do if my husband cheats after knowing the objective facts? You have been in a defensive position since you chose to save this marriage life. You have chosen to be tolerant, that is, tolerant in your heart. Then why don’t you let go of your hands and do it more casually and look better, and use your own actions to prove to your husband that you must pay special attention to others in three days. You need to work harder because you know your husband has an affair. This is a 100-meter race against time. If you are willing to work hard, the situation will definitely change the direction of steady development.
Is your marriage really broken down irrescuely?
divorce, the legal procedures are required to submit the divorce agreement . In addition to the general custody and property distribution of the agreement, the last column of the agreement states that "the above-mentioned marriage has been broken and irrescue." If both parties agree, they will truly bring everything to court for handling.
Maybe when you file for divorce from him, you will only think of the other person's badness in your mind, so bad that you are hypnotized and feel that you want to divorce, and you feel that you can no longer go with the other person for a lifetime.
However, when you really find a divorce agreement and look at it, you will find that when you see this column, you find that your marriage has not reached the point of "irrescueable", and there is still a glimmer of hope, and that glimmer of hope makes you want to continue, proving that you don't really want to divorce at all!
However, if you even have this problem lost by your own persistence, then you have to go to the next problem and think about it carefully. Before
, you are very likely not very concerned about getting along with male parents, and you feel like you can live a while. So, from today on, you need to change this kind of consciousness. You need to understand that in the final war of attrition in marriage life, they are all your powerful assistants, and they have unexpected effects at critical moments.I still remember that the extra work was too significant. After all, everyone's hearts have always been more sensitive. We should gradually increase our attention to them. There is a whole process from shallow to deep, from the initial phone call to buying some more cost-effective food, use and clothing every now and then. Do not be honest. The speech must be sincere and sincere, and talk more about your husband's goodness, so that they think that the children are good to their wives. Therefore, the daughter-in-law also gains their care and works hard to build a harmonious atmosphere at home.
You are really willing to push down the castle you built by yourself?
If you think that this marriage is "irrescueable", you may still think that the other party is wrong, and the other party should be changed, not yourself. However, how can a marriage be absolutely right or wrong?
The castle you built by yourself, are you really willing to push it down with your own hands because of your persistence? There is never right or wrong in love or even marriage. No one is a "love judge". You cannot make such a conclusion, but what you can do is to maintain and accept this marriage and relationship.
Before, you might not care much about getting along with a man’s parents, you just feel that life was in the past. So, starting today, you need to change this consciousness, and you need to understand that in the final war of attrition in marriage life, they are your powerful assistants, with unexpected results at critical moments. I still remember the extra work was too obvious. After all, the old man's heart has always been sensitive. It is necessary to gradually attract their attention. There is a complete process from the initial call to buying more cost-effective food and clothing every once in a while. Don’t pretend, speak sincerely and talk more about your husband’s goodness, so that they feel that their children are good to their wives, so that their daughter-in-law will also be beneficial to their care.
There may be something that makes you want to file for divorce, but after this incident, after more than ten or twenty years, you look back and see how insignificant this incident is.
Time will always pass, everything will pass, the question is whether your persistence is important or this marriage is important in your values.
is the relevance of every parent to children. If you already have children, that is the key major fund in the battle to defend your marriage. It is very likely that the husband often works outside and has few opportunities to be with his son. Although he loves his children very much, because of the lack of waiting time, the things that are more or less missing in the depths of love make it less abundant, mostly from the instinctive reactions of family affection and intimate contact. You need to learn how to properly guide your child to take up her husband's time, which is done by the child without your consent. What you need to do is to collect more information privately, know when your husband is free, and then correctly guide the child to take the initiative to find his husband. Of course, it is necessary to grasp how to make your child take up your husband's time, not intentional.
After divorce, can you still spend time to get to know, accept, and love another person?
You choose to get married with the other person. It must be that you have spent time understanding and knowing the other person, and you must have spent the time to give your love. Now you are no longer 18 or 22, and you are no longer a person without the past. To put it realistically, you must spend time and scheming to re-recognize, understand, get used to, and love another person. Can you?
firmly believes that as a father, everyone looks forward to their children's great achievements. In his free time, the child stipulates that he will go to the interest training class with him, and he is very willing, so that the husband will not have time to meet women outside, and can also shape the emotions between the child and the husband. Or let your children and husband go to the library to buy books. Maybe your husband will entrust you with this daily task, but you need to notify your child in advance. Mom is not good at choosing more meaningful and interesting books, and dad is much better than mom. They can also moderately tell the kids how powerful skills they have when husbands first get to know each other.
Children usually simply repeat these words you feel very comfortable to your husband, and then they will invisibly recall the days when everyone fell in love with each other and gradually cherish your former lover.Also, they will continue to feel your nostalgia for him. My husband may look at the children again, this is the crystallization of your love. The child knows that he is diligent and wants to buy books, so he has free time. How could they not satisfy his little wish? Of course, there are other tips for how to deal with a cheating husband and daughter-in-law, but after all, one goal is to make the husband love his children more and work diligently to warm the family.
If you have time, read more recipes, master some professional health care knowledge, make some delicious health soup or special dishes for dinner, and then ask the child to call her to tell her that there are delicious hot rice and dry pot dishes and waiting for him to go home to eat. Maybe at the beginning, her husband would find reasons not to go home for dinner, so it was okay. If he doesn't go home, he will have a good meal with his children. Even for the sake of better deliciousness and physical and mental health of yourself and your children, make more calls. It is not easy for my husband to refuse.
After all, it is the children calling them. He probably doesn't care about your experience, but he certainly doesn't care about his child's experience, so he will definitely go home for dinner in the end. That moment is the result of your hard work during this period. I believe that your diligence will definitely be recognized by your husband. Even if he knows it in his heart, he will suddenly realize that the food at his house is so delicious, and there is also a special way to take his children to eat. Give him more food to him. You must be able to tell your husband what developments your child has developed in his studies recently, or use jokes to tell him what aspects of his child look like his husband, rather than his temper and way of dealing with things. Then when you say that your husband must be very happy, you can also correctly guide your children to talk more about interesting things in colleges and universities. The children are all real and it is very interesting to talk about, so the atmosphere at home is very harmonious.
You should also learn and train some massage methods to release stress throughout the body. Before going to bed, you should take the initiative to publicize the massage prescription to help him relax his muscles and tendons, especially his head, neck and abdomen, so that he can be safe and stable. In addition, this is also a reasonable way to improve the relationship between husband and wife. Maybe at some point, my husband found the years I loved with you before.
At night, when your heart is softest, communicate more and talk about your own words. When you release your feelings, you must be gentle and sincere, so that your husband can truly experience this love. You can also talk about your preparation for your children and how to make the other party’s parents enjoy their old age better. Of course, you must also remember that after all, boys pay attention to aesthetics when choosing a nightgown that looks good to you but is not exposed.
In addition, don’t forget to do the most important thing in this external standard is to love yourself and be kind to yourself in gradually changing the status quo and paying attention to your body shape, skin and its sales. These are all very important. It is very likely that young girls will have a hard time maintaining a slim figure after marriage, but at least you should make yourself look even, not loose. Read some fashion weekly to learn how to dress yourself, how to maintain and put on makeup on your skin. This kind of money must be spent. If you don’t spend money, you won’t see the actual effect. You think you have saved money. In fact, you are asking women other than your husband to pay for the man you seduce. Do you really want and want to? If you don’t want to act, boys will love you more and more and more and more beautifully from beginning to end. Why doesn’t he make himself more and more beautiful and better, often making him feel that you have a bright feeling? He will appreciate you again and feel the increasingly beautiful and moving aura in you.
You should also read more interesting books and carefully record some interesting funny jokes. When your husband is in a low mood, stroll around with him and make him happy. Even if his husband can't laugh, he knows that you can already see his unhappiness and he is still trying to make him happy. He may tell you why you are not happy at work, so that's your main manifestation right now. You need to listen carefully to him and follow him more. If you don’t help Ni Lin, tell him that you feel heartbroken and cheer for him. If you have a good suggestion, just tell him politely. In this way, your husband will once again discover your understanding and gentleness, and slowly want to tell you about work, instead of thinking that you can't communicate.
If you really work hard and earnestly guarantee this, I believe your marriage life will be successfully preserved, and your husband will be influenced by the silent method of moistening things, allowing him to find his way back, and you are the lamp that leads him home. I sincerely hope that every family will be happy and harmonious and successfully save love and marriage.
Love someone is never an easy thing. Of course, you can choose to indulge in the pleasure of being pursued by the opposite sex, but how many times can you give to love someone sincerely in your life?
