Human nature is a very ugly thing, and it is also something that cannot be looked at directly.
There are many complex problems that cannot be explained in the relationship between people, especially between husband and wife. Many people believe that the relationship between husband and wife is equal, which is a naive idea. It is impossible for an equal relationship between husband and wife to exist. In the relationship between husband and wife, one party is strong and the other party can only be weak, and the relationship can be maintained.
The tip of the pin to the wheat is not long in any relationship.
Therefore, when the relationship between husband and wife is seriously unbalanced, one party will cause harm to the other party, such as cheating. Men bear the responsibility for material provision in their families, and are often on the strong side in husband-wife relationships. Infidelity in marriage is an inevitable problem for men.
However, due to various interest relationships in reality, most cheating men will choose to return to their families in the end. However, even if these cheating men return, they still look down on their wives.
1, Party A and Party B
In a husband-wife relationship, men often despise their wives in marriage because they are material providers, and because of the influence of the traditional concept of strong men and weak women for thousands of years, men often despise their wives in marriage.
It is appropriate to use Party A and Party B in the contract to image the relationship between husband and wife. Party A establishes rules according to its own needs, and Party B cooperates with Party A in order to obtain various benefits given by Party A.
In the contract, Party A has absolute rights, and in marriage, men also have a dominant position that cannot be ignored. Maybe because of this, when a husband-wife relationship is established, most men will not truly respect their wives, and men regard their wives as nannys in life.
So, when one day the expansion of their pockets catches up with selfish desires, most of them will hurt their wives by cheating. For men, cheating is more like their nature, just about suppressing or not.
2. No rules of behavior come and go freely
Women who have experienced cheating are the most experienced. The various ugly faces and bad tempers of men after cheating will feel that they are very great and can make different women fall in love with them. This is a kind of blind self-confidence.
Most men are conceited. They cheat on their lovers, which seems to be for desire, but in fact they have something to do with face. Almost all men believe that being able to have a relationship outside of marriage is a manifestation of their ability and prove that they have succeeded.
Men do not want to restrain their behavior and like to find freedom in marriage. This should be the reason why most men cheat after the marriage enters a dull period.
They are fond of the old and are also greedy and selfish. They act without rules and come and go freely, but they like to use various rules to restrain their wives. They cannot accept that women cheat, but they themselves always cheat, and hope that after the cheating returns, they will still receive absolute status and their wives' acceptance and forgiveness.
Why are they so confident? Because their economic status determines their arrogance, women's soft hearts towards their families and children also make men feel that they can come and go freely.
3. A woman’s weakness makes men look down on her
men themselves don’t know that they are actually contradictory. If a wife cannot accept their cheating and divorce, they will blame the woman for being cruel and not caring about anything. But if women tolerate, accept their cheating, and accept their return after cheating, they will despise their wives from the bottom of their hearts.
They will think that their wives cannot live without themselves and choose to accept the material life they provide. This is a perspective from which the strong view the weak.
Men despise their wives in their hearts since they cheat, and they cheat because of their contempt. The change in mentality makes them still despise their wives after they return from cheating. They will think, look, I hurt you so much, but you have to bear it.
After the man cheated and returned, he still acted like a man, because they knew that no matter how they did, his wife would not leave him.
A weak woman will always make men look down upon.
ending
Men will like to win the weak lovers when they are in love, but after marriage, they will hope that their wives will be strong, can stand alone, and let themselves enjoy freedom.
Most men look for lovers according to the perspective of love, obedient, gentle and considerate. Only men will have super specifications for their wives. They require their wives to be self-reliant, and it is best not to rely on themselves.
Men in marriage like to treat their wives with double standards, which may be because of the constraints of marriage, which makes men think that their wives should give in this way. Also because of the marriage relationship, men think that their wives will not leave at will.
After all, men despise their wives from their marriage relationship. This contempt will be more obvious once they cheat and return.
