Preface:
Aunt Zhong refused to go to the city to help her son take care of the child. The neighbor laughed at her as stupid. Aunt Zhong said that the neighbor didn’t know how many grievances he had suffered. What happened? Let’s take a look at the incident!
Aunt Zhong said:
I only have one son. My wife passed away many years ago. After my wife passed away, I depended on my son for life. I worked in a factory and my monthly salary is pretty good. I have an older brother. My brother is in business. My brother has good financial conditions. He often approached us, so my life with my son is still good.
Some time ago, my son had a second child, and then asked me to help him take care of the child, but I refused. I really didn't want to go to the city to help my son take care of the child. Later, the neighbors knew about this, and the neighbors laughed at me as they laughed at me as they thought I should go to the city to help my son take care of the child, so that I could enjoy the happiness in the city. I didn't want to explain too much because they didn't know how many grievances I had suffered.
This matter starts with my son’s first child. A few years ago, my son gave birth to his first child and asked me to go and help take care of the child. After all, that was my grandson, I was very happy to help take care of the child. After I went to my son’s house, I did the housework at home, and I didn’t care about this. After all, I am a mother, and I think my son is under too much pressure. He has to pay back the mortgage and car loan. I want to do more and make my son feel more relaxed.
My daughter-in-law has a bad temper. When I help them wash clothes, she always dislikes me for not washing them clean. She took the clothes I washed to the dry cleaning shop and washed them again. How expensive is dry cleaning clothes? I feel sorry for the money, but I dare not say that my daughter-in-law. I know that with my daughter-in-law's personality, if I say her, she will definitely make trouble with me, and then the family will be uneasy.
Usually after I clean, my daughter-in-law brought gloves to check. If she found that there was something unclean, she would ask me to clean it again. I remember one day, I cleaned it three times, and I really felt wronged. I don’t think I look like my mother-in-law anymore, I look like their nanny.
And when I was living at my daughter-in-law's house, I paid for their living expenses. I had more than 3,000 yuan a month, and I spent it all almost every month. Sometimes I also had to use my pension money. Sometimes I really don't want to spend it because I am older and I have to consider my future, but if I don't take out the money, my daughter-in-law will lose her temper and keep showing her face to me.
What I can't accept the most is that my daughter-in-law never lets me hold the child. He said I am an old man and there are many bacteria on my body. I was afraid that I would get the bacteria on my child. I lived in my daughter-in-law's house for half a year, and I have never held the child once. I am an old man. I like children very much. I can't hold my grandson. That feeling is really uncomfortable. Moreover, my son helps my daughter-in-law with everything. I usually don’t dare to complain to my son. I know that if I complain to my son, my son will think it’s my fault, because my son is too partial to my daughter-in-law.
Half a year later, I left my son’s house because I was really wronged at my son’s house. It was because I experienced such a thing that my son asked me to help take care of the child after giving birth to his second child. I refused. I knew that he didn’t want me to help take care of the child, he just wanted me to help with housework and so on.
