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01, Volume Start
Every stage of life has different insights.
When I was young, I devoted myself to my children's life. I once thought that raising a child could prevent old age, but when I really got old, I realized that those who could be reliable were not children.
However, when people are middle-aged, they often focus all their attention and energy on their children. In order to give your children a better life, do your best to work.
In order for their children to have a better life, they often ignore their wife at home and their feelings when they go out early and come back late.
puts parent-child relationship first in marriage. When the children get married, their concern for their children will still surpass everything.
Jia Pingwa wrote in " Qin Opera ": "If a person is alive, you will not be left in this world."
In his old age, his body began to gradually decline and was suffering from illness. I gradually realized that family affection is actually very realistic.
People are old and lying on the hospital bed. Only then do they know that if they want to get rewards when they need help, they must first "invest".
A sixty-year-old man, when he was lying on the hospital bed, he realized that his children were unreliable, and family affection was very realistic, and there were only two people who could rely on in his later years.
02. When he was young, he was not good to his wife. In his later years, he was miserable. After being hospitalized, he saw a clinical mother-in-law. After he got sick, his family took turns to accompany him and took care of him. He was very envious from the bottom of his heart.
When it comes to my family and relatives, I feel regretful and helpless, and my eyes wet after less than a few words.
Li Qiang is a bad temper, domineering and willful. When he was young, he did not listen to advice and went out to do business and rarely asked about his family. Every month, except for giving her a living expenses to her wife, she never asked her if she was working hard or tired.
Every time I get home, Li Qiang Ye regards his wife as a "maid" and points fingers at her.
Every time I eat, my wife needs to prepare the food and serve it to the table before going to eat. Every time I finish a bowl of rice, I will hand the rice bowl to my wife and let her serve the rice; I have to prepare the clothes I have to wear every day...
He never does housework at home. However, he is very kind to his two children. He always stays with him and spoils him when he comes home. This is also the reason why Mr. Li Qiang’s wife has been holding back and not getting divorced.
Later, when the children grew up, Li Qiangye retired. The daughter gets married and the son gets married. He lives with his wife and daughter-in-law.
However, Li Qiang Ye has been accustomed to calling his wife all his life, and in his daughter-in-law's house, the same is true for his daughter-in-law. For this reason, there have been constant conflicts between him and his daughter-in-law and son.
03. It turns out that the people who can really rely on are they who will encounter unexpected events in
days, and people will have good fortune and good fortune every day. Once, Li Qiang suffered a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and was sent to the hospital. Fortunately, there are people around me, and they are rescued in time. Although the person has been saved, someone must be kept to take care of him.
He is in the hospital and his wife is unwilling to take care of him and only spends money to find a nursing worker. I never came to deliver a meal, but I just showed up when I needed to pay. My son and daughter-in-law hate him very much, and I have never even met him once.
The daughter said she was very busy with work and sent her mother 20,000 yuan to take care of her health. As for her father, she was willing to pay some medical expenses and was unwilling to come back to visit her.
When I really got old, I realized that my daughter and son were unreliable.
At this time, he no longer had his usual power and just lay there quietly, feeling the torture of illness and the powerlessness of not being able to take care of himself in life.
Looking at the father and son who are kind and filial in front of other patients, and protecting them in harmony, I suddenly realized that I should not treat my wife and children like this. It was because I planted evil causes and could only bear the consequences of myself.
Later, he apologized sincerely, feeling that he had little time and wanted to see his two children again, so he also said sorry to them. My wife's eyes were red.
Li Qiang's attitude changed, and his wife came to the hospital more frequently. My son is busy with work, and my daughter-in-law often brings some soup and says she feels sorry for her mother-in-law, but in fact her attitude towards her father-in-law has also eased a lot.
This did not make Li Qiang feel happy, but instead felt even more guilty.
If God gives him a chance to come back, he will love his wife, manage his relationship with each other with care, treat his children well, and shoulder the responsibility of a big family.
At that moment, he truly understood that what was truly reliable in his later years was his daughter-in-law and wife.
04. Summary of
Life path, please be kind to the people around you, especially those by your pillow.
Qijinnian said: "In this world, if you meet someone who is really good to you, you will lose one. Don't lose someone who is good to you; don't let down a heart that treats you sincerely."
In fact, it also requires "investment". If you invest in love and warmth for the people around you, you will gain more happiness in your later years.
When I was young, I was not good to my wife. Many men often had miserable lives in their later years.
does not know how to treat your lover well, cannot manage a good relationship with your children's family members, and when you grow old, you will not receive more care and care. Only one can feel this cold world alone and accept endless suffering and pain.
Be kind to the people around you, and you will not spend your later years in sorrow.
A truly smart man will stick to his promise to his lover during the long years and give his lover more tenderness with his lifelong power.
In his later years, he will also receive love feedback.
The feelings between people are mutual, even in family affection. Only with efforts will there be rewards and rewards.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
