Marriage is a major event in a person's life. When we choose to enter a marriage relationship, there must be something worthy of our appreciation for the marriage partner.
As the marriage life unfolds, couples are easily disagreeable and conflicted when they get along with each other in their daily lives. With the blessing of dissatisfaction, couples can easily forget their goodness, and then become disappointed in the marriage relationship, and then want to escape from this marriage.
In my opinion, this is a punctuation of forgetting the original intention. When every couple holds hands, what they think in their minds will be to grow old together with each other, rather than wanting to be separated from each other.
As the writer Zhang Ailing said, A couple can meet in the endless wilderness of time in tens of millions of years. This is a rare fate.
Because of this, people in a marriage relationship should have a grateful heart for their marriage partners and be content with their marriage life. Only in this way can they manage their marriage life happily.
In the novel " Madame Bovary " by writer Folaubert , the reason why the heroine Emma's marriage life is unfortunate is that she pursues unrealistic love and material enjoyment too much, and lacks a grateful and contented heart for marriage.
. Emma does not think that her husband is a kind of treasure. Instead, she feels that her husband is like "the streets in the morning" and does not understand romance and interest. Her husband's meager income cannot meet Emma's needs for a luxurious life. Therefore, Emma chose to find love outside of marriage, and did not hesitate to use debt to meet her material needs, and eventually pushed her life to a tragic ending.
The novel "Madame Baufari" brings us the inspiration that in married life, you must have a grateful and contented heart in order to achieve happiness.
1. People who know how to be grateful can get along well with their marriage partners.
In the vast sea of people, two people who did not have any intersection could meet by chance and be lucky enough to become a couple. This is something worthy of gratitude.
When we choose to enter the palace of marriage with someone, there must be a shining point on the other party that we appreciate. The other party is willing to accept us and live with us. This is also something worthy of gratitude.
People who can have a grateful heart in their marriage will not feel disgusted or dissatisfied with their partners, and thus cherish this marriage even more.
In the novel "Madame Baufari", if Emma is grateful for her marriage and knows how to cherish her husband's strengths, perhaps her life journey will be smoother.
2. Only content people can adapt to the ordinary married life.
The normal state of marriage life is a trivial daily life filled with food and food, oil and salt. No one's marriage life will be eternal flowers and romance.
If you want to manage your marriage life happily, you must understand the principle of contentment and learn to adapt to a plain marriage life, rather than pursue a luxurious and unrealistic life.
Emma's husband Mr. Bao Farley, although his income is not high, it is OK to meet the basic living needs of the family, but what Emma wants is a luxurious life.
In order to satisfy his material desires, Emma did not hesitate to spend in advance, causing herself to owe a lot of debts, which eventually led to her life in a tragic ending.
In my opinion, if Emma knew how to be content and could adapt to her ordinary life, perhaps her marriage would be happier.
3. If you want to have a happy marriage life, you must know how to be loyal to your marriage.
It is precisely because Emma is not satisfied with her ordinary marriage life. She feels that she cannot find love in her marriage life, so she chooses to look for love outside of marriage, and eventually makes the mistake of betraying her marriage.
can come from love outside of marriage and cannot give people a sense of security. Emma originally thought that love outside of marriage can not only give her a sense of happiness but also give her a sense of satisfaction, but when she is really in trouble, her so-called lover is unwilling to reach out to help her.
It was not until this time that Emma realized the luxurious life and material enjoyment she had been pursuing, but it was just a passing cloud, which was simply unrealistic.
Emma was discouraged and finally chose to end her life with her own hands.
The novel "Madame Baufari" tells us that only a person who knows how to be grateful and content can gain happiness in his marriage life.
A person who knows how to be grateful will always appreciate his marriage partner and will not despise his partner, thus making the mistake of betraying his marriage. A person who knows how to be content will also know how to be satisfied in his marriage life, and then knows how to cherish marriage even more.
A couple can meet among thousands of people, which is something worthy of gratitude. The way a couple can be together and never get tired of it is because they know how to be content in their marriage life.
In married life, only a person with contentment and gratitude can obtain a happy life.
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