An old saying goes: It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage! There is a reason why it exists in marriage when it is persuaded to be harmonious or not. Without any last resort, no one wants to take this step! People say that marriage is "suffered" by two people together. If you can endure it, it is a kind of happiness! If you really can't stand it, or if you really can't hold on with your life, then you won't have the fate of this couple.
Regarding marriage between the two sides, why not persuade people to separate? In fact, it cannot be separated from three aspects.
First: Harmony is precious
The old saying has cloud, harmony is prosperous. In the marriage life of a man and a woman, only when the husband and wife are harmonious can everything become better. Once separated, both sides will suffer losses. Anyone who has experienced divorce can experience this pain in his/her physical condition. Moreover, the separation between husband and wife can sometimes ruin the life of two people. This is also the reason why many people don’t want to remarry after divorce. Divorce brings pain to two people and may cause a lifetime of shadow. Sometimes, the seeds of hatred will be sown that a person will live in hatred for the rest of his life and cannot get out of it. Therefore, persuading peace and not separating is often a right way between husband and wife! Don't break up easily unless you have to.
Second: involves blood kinship
In the marriage life of a man and a woman, the reason why we persuade people not to separate is because if a couple divorces, it is very likely that blood kinship kinship is involved. Once a person has a child, he will have a bond, and such a bond is also a lifelong shackle and reluctance. No matter who the child is given, it is impossible for the couple to accept such a fact. This kind of blood is thicker than water, and it can be cut even if it is cut. In real life, the reason why many couples do not divorce is due to the ties between children. In addition, if the couple is really separated, it is likely to cause psychological shadows and trauma to the child! This is why we should persuade and not divide. After all, children are innocent, but children suffer from the pain of separation of flesh and blood.
33: Develop the population and realize the real
In the married life of couples, why should we persuade people to reconcile and not to separate? After all, persuading peace is for the sake of the other party's good. Once the separation is made, it may be that the couple has not been well-intentioned. Once the couple reconciles, it is easy to lose their demographic. Therefore, in real life, face the quarrel between husband and wife, or the divorce between husband and wife. Smart people will persuade the couple with kind words and will not persuade the couple to divorce. This involves a person's moral issues, and also involves the issue of being a human being. No one will take the blame for doing things that violate morality, persuade couples to divorce, or quarrel. If so, it is all the style and style of people with incorrect minds. Sometimes, even if two people can’t continue to live, they have to clarify the interests rather than persuade them to separate.
