Love in college students was very beautiful. Two people who love each other didn’t need to think about many things every day together. There was no pressure. Study together and go to and from get out of class together. Being happy every day is the most important thing. Even if there are some conflicts, it is just a little fight, but it adds a little different experience in the boring college students’ days.
However, few people can always enter the marriage hall in school love. Although everyone was adult in college, is still relatively childish in . In addition, there is no pressure in school life. What the two of them think about together is just whether they like . But after they really enter society, there will be many problems in the relationship between and they will end in vain.
The sentence "I won't marry a rural girl" puts myself at the forefront, but it's really realistic!
has a question on the Internet: Why do so many urban boys not marry rural girls in ? One of them answers pushed himself to the forefront, but every sentence was realistic.
This boy shared his relationship. he is a city native, while his girlfriend is a rural child from a remote area. The two have been together for two years and are still determined to break up. The gap in 's identity still brings big problems.
Both are alumni of key universities. I have a senior girlfriend and a junior. I have never considered the identity issue when I was together. Moreover, my girlfriend is very independent and will not ask for gifts from me. , but I often give gifts to my girlfriend and take her to travel to . Although my girlfriend was inferior because of her identity problems at the beginning, she felt that she was not worthy of her, but she didn't mind and she had always had a good relationship during the two years she was together.
But when I was about to graduate, I decided to break up with . The main reason is that the original family is very important. Even if the girl is very good, the boys are very deep and reluctant to leave the girl, but they still make choices. is because the girl’s family relationship is relatively complicated.
The boy's family relationship is simple and he has always been very happy. However, the girl's father passed away very early. After marrying, the mother did not have the ability to be independent. . All the expenses in the family depend on the support of the stepfather. Moreover, the stepfather has a child, a boy, but he is a ignorant person who is addicted to gambling and online loans and is interested in . This forces the boy to consider whether he can afford such a family in the future.
Through the boy's narrative, is indeed good to his girlfriend. . Not only has he helped his girlfriend write papers, copywriting, and research. also analyzes the employment situation for girls. teaches girls how to be financially independent, and will share their connections with his girlfriend . Everything I did was to make up for my girlfriend. hopes that after breaking up with her girlfriend, her girlfriend can have a good future.
Two people are not only a matter for two people, but also a matter of "matchfulness".
What a boy says is a bit ugly, but has to say it is very realistic . Although the education of the two people is the same, has completely opposite family environments , which not only refers to the relationship between cities and rural areas, also has the problem of the original family, one family is happy, the other is complicated and messy . Two people don’t have to think about it so much when they are in school, as long as they are done well, , but there are many problems facing them in the long run, especially girls have such a "cumbersome" brother.
With the development of society, people no longer care about the combination of equality and good marriage as before. However, in many cases, it has to be said that "a equality" is really important.
No matter how high the education is, it cannot make up for the horizon problem. There will be a big difference between two people who do not need to grow up in the environment. In addition, the influence of the original family, there is really no way to not be taken seriously.
This reminds me of the emotional entanglement between Fan Shengmei and and Wang Baichuan in the TV series " Ode to Joy ". Even if you like it, two people who are not suitable for each other can't be together at all. Two people are not only a certain material foundation, but also a consistent view of the three views, and their views on marriage and work must be consistent.
Marriage and love require many considerations, but rural students rely on their strength to get out of the "mountain" and deserve respect.
The uneven distribution of educational resources in my country has caused many children in remote mountain villages to receive a good education. Whether it is the teaching environment, teaching staff or educational resources, there is no way to compare with urban schools. However, rural children can still get out of the mountains with their own strength. There is absolutely no doubt about the strength of .
Even students who receive a good education in the city may not become talents. Whether in the city or in the countryside or in the countryside, they receive nine years of compulsory education. However, under such poor conditions, rural children in should be respected if they can achieve something.
And rural children should not be inferior to themselves. They are not worse than anyone else. should also adjust their mentality when they encounter disapproval of being understood and respected. should not be fascinated by the world of flowers, and insist on keeping their original intentions and bottom line of being a human being.
The author’s message: People should not be divided into different grades of , everyone should be respected. origin is not something you can decide, and there is no need to feel inferior to others because of your identity. "The flowers bloom and the butterflies come." As long as you are excellent enough, you will naturally have a Bole to take a fancy to it.
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