Filial piety to parents is a traditional virtue of our nation. Parents work hard to raise their children. When they get old, it is time for their children to feed back. You raise me and I support you, so that parents can enjoy their old age.
The elderly are supported by their children. Some are kind and filial and peaceful, while others still have to look at their children's expressions. When people get old, they live carefully, which makes people feel sad.
However, the elderly are careful, which may be a problem with their children's attitude, or it may be a sensitive oneself.
Somewhere in Henan, a woman ran to the farmland to find her mother-in-law and found that her mother-in-law was lying on the ground to do farm work. She couldn't help but be angry and anxious: If you don't let you do it, you have to do it, what do you want to do it, what do you want your neighbors to think of me?
It turns out that the old man is old and his legs are not convenient. Since his wife passed away, he has been taken to the home by his son to live in a convenient way.
says it is the son who is in charge of his old age, but in fact it is the daughter-in-law who is in charge of it. The old man used to treat his daughter-in-law badly, but now he has to rely on his daughter-in-law to live. He is uneasy and is scrambling to do housework.
In fact, the daughter-in-law is also a bit sarcastic. Although she is angry about her mother-in-law’s previous practice, her mother-in-law is very pitiful now. For the sake of family harmony, she is willing to support her mother-in-law.
When she saw her mother-in-law having to work, her daughter-in-law scolded her. She was like this, so don’t do it anymore. It’s even more troublesome if she is injured. But the mother-in-law cannot accept the care of her daughter-in-law and will still do her best to do something.
When it is busy farming, the old man wants to do farm work, but his daughter-in-law is stopped. He is in poor health and cannot stand steadily. It is fine if he has to do housework in normal times, so he stops doing farm work.
On this day, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were a little unhappy because of a trivial matter. After the quarrel, the daughter-in-law went to work hard and ignored her mother-in-law. It was not until a neighbor ran to find her and said that her mother-in-law was lying on the ground to do farm work that she hurried over.
When I arrived at the farmland, I saw my mother-in-law lying on the ground in a coat, picking up corn. She had already peeled off a bunch of corn around her, and crawling forward with her hands and feet, wanting to continue picking up.
When the daughter-in-law saw it, she couldn't help but be angry and anxious. She shouted to her mother-in-law: If you don't let you do it, you have to do it. If you let others see it like this, what will the neighbors say to me?
My mother-in-law is quite aggrieved. She says that she is getting angry when she gets angry and can’t eat anything. The daughter-in-law angrily pulled her mother-in-law up and said that she could not let her do anything else.
The daughter-in-law took this scene and posted it online, asking everyone, what should I do if there is such an elderly person at home? If she doesn't let her work, she will do it on the ground and let others see it, will she not poke her backbone?
comments from netizens
Some netizens commented that they are really helpless in the face of such an elderly person. It’s not that they are unfilial or that they don’t pay. She insists on doing it, and you can’t stop them.
Some netizens also commented that when people get old, they are afraid that they will be useless and will drag their children down and be disliked by their children. It is better to understand more about those who are younger generations.
Some netizens also commented that the elderly are at ease doing this, but the problem is that their children will be discussed by neighbors.
Editor's opinion
The relationship between the elderly and their daughter-in-law is not so harmonious. The elderly used to be bad to their daughter-in-law. When they are old, they need to take care of their daughter-in-law. They feel uneasy and are more sensitive. If they don't do anything, they are afraid of being disliked.
The daughter-in-law has no knowledge of her mother-in-law and is willing to take care of her mother-in-law, which means she is also a hard-mouthed person.
But my mother-in-law is strong, afraid that people will say that she is idle, so she has to do some farm work even if she is lying on the ground. When the neighbors saw her, they would tell their daughter-in-law’s gossip, so the daughter-in-law was anxious to see her like this.
In fact, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been together for so long, but there is no big conflict. It would be great if they get used to this way of getting along.
