In life, we will find a situation like this:
Sometimes, some women are very timid. When a woman sees a timid woman, we will feel that this woman is very reserved, so we women will like this woman very much.
But when you find that a woman is very bold and we women don’t like it, you will find that men especially like this kind of bold woman.
So men and women have different ideas. In close relationships, the bolder women are, the more likely men are to be obsessed:
01. You need to have certain emotional experience
When I was a child, there was a girl and I were good friends. This girl didn’t like to study. She dropped out of school and went to work outside when she was in the third grade of elementary school. Then she fell in love with the young man outside when she was working.
In fact, this girl was already restless when she was in school, and communicated with many people outside, especially between the opposite sex. At that time, we felt that the tutoring of this girl's family was also a problem, because her mother was such a person.
This girl did not go to school later and worked in a factory. At this time, the woman had changed several boyfriends. At this time, the woman would easily control the men and was very bold when she was in love.
Finally, this girl also married a good local person and lived a happy life. Although his parents-in-law had an objection to this woman and felt that this woman was not very reserved, the man was fascinated by this woman.
So sometimes girls need to have certain love experience so that they can be bold and get the heart of men more easily. Of course, we do not advocate early love for girls, because this early love needs to be paid, which means that you may only rely on men for the rest of your life, because you cannot find a better job yourself.
This also tells women that we must look at the outside world more. We don’t have to fall in love, but we must understand the opposite sex. In this way, we can take the initiative in the process of getting along with the opposite sex and make men obsessed with us.
02. Meeting a good man, taking the initiative
A bold woman will take the initiative when she meets a good man. In fact, a good man has a soft heart. I found that this woman is interesting to him, and when she is so bold, a man will definitely add a little favor to the woman.
In fact, many good men have been in love very early, because there are many bold girls chasing these boys, so you find that those very excellent but reserved women don’t marry well in the end, because men of the same age as you have already looked for their partner.
So as a girl, you can sometimes stick to it, but when you keep the bottom line, you should be bolder if you want to make this man surrender.
Some girls are very small when they talk to men carefully. This will make men feel uninterested and make men feel that the woman is not very enthusiastic about them, so they don’t have a good evaluation of women.
03. Women should think about themselves
Women can be bolder in love, but sometimes they should also think about themselves. Some men may be ungrateful. Then at this time, you should know that you will be lost and return. Sometimes don’t hang yourself on a tree. In fact, there are many good men in the world.
Sometimes, when faced with some unreasonable demands made by men, women must know how to boldly refuse to the party and keep their bottom line. This is also a kind of personality for men. Sometimes, the more men bully women, the lower the status of women in the minds of men.
So sometimes don’t endure everything in your heart. Such a life of tolerant will only make women lose their status and will not be bad. Men are obsessed with women.
We can also see that in real life, those women who are not obedient in front of men live a good life, while those women who are revolving around men all day long and are particularly obedient are not doing well.
In an intimate relationship, women must be bolder. Some things must be bolder and some things must be bolder.
When someone does something, he must know how to be himself. In fact, many things are what we want, but we just endure it and don’t say it out. This is wrong. When a woman learns to tolerate, men will actually bully you, which is a common problem for most men.
So we can see that there are many wives around us who are very gentle and kind, but these men will also look for other women outside, and the woman outside is even more fierce than her own wife. This is because men always bully animals that are weak and afraid of the tough.
Because men are very rational, when choosing things, men always choose the one that is most beneficial to them, rather than choosing the woman who invests the most feelings for them.
Women should also learn rationality in love. Sometimes it is best to make men obsessed with themselves. In this way, women will not suffer losses in love.
