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Women who are trapped in love often have a misunderstanding, always mistakenly regard men's occasional care as true love, and then they can't help but fantasize themselves in their minds, and eventually they can't extricate themselves.
What is accompanied by this misunderstanding is endless pain and unbearable, because you are the only one in chaos, and the other party does not know what you are thinking in your heart.
You think you have an unparalleled and beautiful love, but you don’t know that the other person just wants to play a love game with you.
You give foolishly, wait idly, and naively look forward to the day when love blossoms and bears fruit, but you are disappointed again and again.
So women, don’t mistake others’ occasional initiative as love. You must know that if a man really likes someone, his efforts are continuous, not occasionally.
If you really love you, you can feel it from the details of getting along with each other. If you always hesitate and are always worried about gains and losses, it can only be said that he does not love you as much as you imagined.
Someone said: I love someone, I just want to give him the drizzle of spring, and don’t have the annoying dust and sand; the green shade of summer and the first mouthful of watermelon, and don’t have the heat of heat; as long as light and warmth, the wind and rain, and the bright and hidden arrows are all blocked behind me.
There is a person who may not be able to give you a rich and noble life, nor can he say any sweet love words to make you happy.
But you can feel the care and love he shows for you in every detail of his relationship.
So women, if you want to know a man doesn’t care about you, don’t ask him tightly, and don’t do anything stupid to test him. These three details of
will show his feelings and be clear at a glance.
The man who cares about you will put your feelings first
Reader Bingbing said frankly that she especially likes to make up for her when she is in love. When her boyfriend takes her to a high-end restaurant, she will show off to her friends with great excitement, thinking that her boyfriend really cares about him.
But after a period of time, Bingbing found that her boyfriend actually did not love her, because every time Bingbing said she wanted to eat or play, her boyfriend would directly reject it.
Later Bingbing realized that the reason why he was willing to take Bingbing to high-end restaurants was entirely because he wanted to eat, not to please Bingbing.
Seriously, if a man really cares about you, then when facing your request or hobbies, he will give priority and respect your ideas.
. A false person seems to be nice to you on the surface, but in fact his starting point is for himself. No matter how nice it sounds like this kind of selfish person, he does not really love you.
So women, be sure to keep their eyes open when they get along with men. The man who loves you will respect your opinions at any time and always put your feelings first, rather than force you even though they know you don’t like it.
The man who cares about you will not regard you as a trouble, but is willing to help you solve the problem
For most men, they care more about spiritual enjoyment and the pleasure of dating you when they are in love. Once this pleasure is broken, the man will feel bored in his heart and withdraw in an instant.
Many women fail to realize this when they are in love. They think that men are willing to play with them, and this is true love.
But have you experienced ups and downs between him? In a relationship, being plain may be the norm, but at some moments, setbacks can reflect the other person's affection.
If a man cares about you, then when facing your troubles, he will help you solve them without hesitation, and take the initiative to stand in front of you to help you bear the consequences. No matter how bad the situation is, he will take practical actions to help you.
A man who doesn’t love you will only comfort you with his mouth and keeps persuading you "It doesn’t matter, it’s normal, it’s not a big deal."
The man who says these words is clearly perfunctory to you. There are even some men who will directly express their disgust, believing that you are a troublemaker and wish to take this opportunity to stay away from you.
Therefore, when you are in love, don’t just focus on enjoyment. Sometimes you can see who the person who really cares about you is in the face of setbacks.
If this man loves you, he will never leave you and will always be your safe haven.
Men who care about you always want to give you a better life, rather than being content with the status quo
Many women will briefly forget the material problems after falling in love and regard "feeling full water" as a famous saying.
When you are single, women will talk freely and think that they will not choose poor or lazy men, but after they are in love, many women will forget what they have said.
This is true in many feelings. Women are tolerant, while men are trying harder.
This has caused many men to speak nicely but always be content with the status quo.
When a woman asks him when he can give him a good life, this type of man will subconsciously say, "Isn't life good now? Is it good to eat and wear warmly, what else should I do?"
If your man is saying these words to you, then you should pay attention, because he doesn't care about you at all. If you think you should accept everything he has when you are together, and he does not intend to give you better material conditions.
. A man who truly loves you will try to give you more. When he can give you luxury goods, he will no longer let you choose street stall goods.
So don’t be fooled by sweet words. Those who love you are willing to give you a better life, rather than letting you only settle for it.
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Sincerity is often reflected in the details, and no matter how nice it sounds, it is useless.
Please remember: Love words are just lies that men occasionally fulfill, and only behaviors are the best expression of love.
If he really loves you, he will subconsciously take you as particularly important. When doing anything, he will give priority to your feelings and treat you with all his heart.
A man who doesn't love you enough will never do it. He will only use sweet words to make you happy, because he can't give you anything else substantial.
Love is not endless sweet words, but you happen to be by your side when I need you.
So girls, don’t easily deliver your sincerity when you are in love, and patiently observe whether he can do these details. If possible, it is enough to show that you have found the right person and he will not let you down easily.
