Everyone may encounter such an embarrassing thing in their life: they clearly put their change in their backpack or carry it with them, but they just can't find it. may have lost it, or they may have been stolen by others . In short, it is gone, making people unable to touch it.
The author once saw a story like . During school, two classmates sat at the same table. One of them suspected that the other had taken away fifty yuan, and was worried that it could not calm down for a long time. But in fact, this is not the case. The person being questioned was wronged and spent many days in a depressed state. During this period, the teachers thought that he was the most suspicious because the two were sitting closest and they probably had some understanding of each other's situation, so he was the one who belonged to him.
"Mom, my money is lost." The two mothers' approach is worth pondering. The gap in the future is obvious.
Even his parents have no choice but to suggest that he seek the teacher's understanding and help. In desperation, he had to choose to swallow his anger and swallow the pain. As the saying goes, a mute eats coptis chinensis and cannot tell the pain . This has brought many troubles to his future life, and it has always been a heart disease in his heart.
The road of life is long, and you will encounter one or another problems during . The educational philosophy in childhood becomes particularly important. Correct guidance can determine the future way of thinking of children, and it is also a collision of positive and negative mentality. Especially when encountering unpleasant things, the child is confused and at a loss. At this time, parents must guide them out of the lost path and recover their mental health as soon as possible.
In addition, the most profound thing in childhood memory is that I lost my change once and . This was a big event at that time. If I were not careful, I would question my character. The feeling of not being trusted is very bad, so I can't argue.
. When the child accidentally lost money, the different behaviors of the two parents in education
This news was reported online . There was a boy who had just turned ten in the school. That day, he received fifty yuan refunded from the school due to the excessive charges. Somehow the child's father knew about this matter. He asked the child for the return money, but the child was accidentally lost. The father was angry and was so embarrassed that he used the method of beating the child for criticism and education, which caused the consequences of second-degree serious injury and regretted it.
is unique. There is another similar event, but its ending is completely opposite to the above event . Because there is an understanding mother who understands his difficulties with empathy, she seems to convey positive energy of care and encouragement. The details of the matter were like this. He threw some meals prepared for him in advance on the road with his mother, and couldn't help but feel anxious and ashamed, feeling as if he had been abandoned by the whole world.
Even in this case, the understanding mother did not say hurtful words. Instead, she came to comfort him not to panic or blame himself. "I was born to be useful, and I will come back after all my money is gone." Treat everything with a tolerant heart and soothe a young heart with a gentle voice. It has to be said that this mother is very good at educating her children.
In order to remind yourself not to have similar mistakes again , the boy in the story learned a lesson deeply and remembered this wrong behavior in his future life. At the same time, he actively helped his mother take on various things. Over time, he developed a skill and became a pillar of the country when he grew up.
This story tells us that should not complain as soon as possible when encountering things, nor should we negatively . Instead, we should take effective measures and means to remedy and improve them. Blindly complaining about others and adding bad words will not have any good results. Especially for growing children, we should pay more attention to using good educational methods for positive guidance.
2. The unintentional action made a child and ruined a child
Do you still remember the boy who accidentally lost his meal expenses? He said that he was very grateful for his current life. It was precisely because his mother chose to be tolerant and understanding of himself that he was now; now he is mentally healthy, strict with himself, lenient with others, and he is not in a hurry to achieve success in everything. treats everything with a normal mind, and has achieved today's achievements. This is by no means an instant achievement, because planting melons gets melons, and facing reality with a peaceful mind in daily life will bring such beautiful results. The future is bright and the future is promising.
The situation of another family is completely different. is affected by the family environment . The child who grew up in a rude education family has been doubtful and has a lot of worries since childhood. He even lost the ability to get into college. He will not treat people with kind hearts. He gradually lag behind his peers, has a confused future and has nothing to do. The different fates of these two students tell us that love is greater than the sky, and a healthy life in body and mind is the true meaning of life. This philosophy is a universal truth.
. Breaking from the inside is a law of self-growth
Correct financial management concept is a goal that needs to be cultivated as a child, and seeing the big from the small. If you want your child to make achievements in the future, you should cultivate it from an early age. When you find that your child accidentally lost his money, parents might as well enlighten his children's mind from the following three perspectives.
. cannot be mentioned in an understatement
Although money is not omnipotent, it is absolutely impossible to have money. When you find that your child accidentally lost the money, should tell them to pay attention to next time to avoid making the same mistake again.
. Ask your child what inspiration has he learned from it
As the saying goes, "Give me one's mistake and become one's wisdom ". After making a mistake, you should adjust your mentality in time to face the real problems. Parents should use enough patience to help their children overcome some bad emotions, reduce the impact of events, and let their children learn to grow up themselves.
. Tell parents in a timely manner and don’t hide anything
Parents are the children’s first teachers. Calm, accept reality calmly and change one's own thoughts are the key factors to ensure healthy growth of body and mind. The road to growth of is full of thorns, and the family is a warm harbor. It is an important role to be full of positive energy in the heart.
To sum up, parents should pay attention to the needs of their children during their growth in time, guide their dreams, think about their health, and be intimately companion and selfless sharing.
