In the relationship between the two genders, men's mate selection is divided into two systems, the long-term selection system and the short-term selection system.
What is "short choice"? As the name implies, it means being chosen for a short period of time.
Women selected by men usually suffer the most during love.
The sweet words he spoke never stopped, but his actual actions were shocking. He just wanted to have a short-term play with you and enjoy the happiness of the present, and never thought of planning you into the future.
Mind and emotional tells you that you can avoid being "short-choose" by men and identifying men's "short-choose" women so that you can minimize the risk of being hurt as much as possible.
Generally speaking, "short choice of men" cannot escape these two characteristics:
1 The giant in language, the dwarf in action
When a man chooses you shortly, he usually uses sweet words and sugar-coated shells to confuse your judgment. He can spend his time making you believe in his "sincerity", gradually remove his guard, believe that he really loves you and really wants to have a future with you.
It is precisely because it satisfies your emotional needs well in emotional expression, so that you are dumped and green, and you will also look for the reason from yourself as soon as possible: Are you doing something bad? Is it because you are not charming enough?
But think about it carefully, besides his great verbal skills, has he ever done practical actions?
he does not.
His short-term strategy is to get the greatest profit with the lowest cost.
If you have too many needs, he will start to calculate the cost. Is the time, energy and money spent on you cost-effective?
Otherwise, he will probably slowly "raise fish", both hanging you and changing you at any time.
So, for those men who only say they love you and are always slow in their actions, they must be more careful.
2 Two faces in front of others
Short-term selection of your man, after you have completely obtained you, he will begin to slowly reveal his nature and become less patient.
He will only exert a little enthusiasm and invest a little cost when he needs you. Once the purpose is met, whether it is physical or emotional needs, he will immediately change his face, either playing and disappearing, or being cold and hot to you.
Women who cannot see through the essence of "short choice of men" action are easily trapped in the abyss of emotions, their self-confidence is severely hit, becoming an accessory for men, and regarding men's needs as the center of the world.
Xinlu Emotional experience for many years, and I have seen too many women, hoping to exchange for the same efforts and rewards of men through my own blind efforts.
Often, those women who blindly give and deeply affectionately will really be foolish and unable to tell whether the man they love is playing with her or whether they plan to walk a long way with her.
