What does it mean to really like someone? Is it the first time I met? Are you happy to see you? Do you want to have you?
The real thing I like is actually that I am careful and inferior, and I am afraid that I am not outstanding enough, not good enough, and I am not worthy of you.
So, when we meet someone we like, we will always show our best side to him. We will never disobey our emotions when we speak and do things, because we want to get your attention and recognition.
. People who pretend to like you rely on your liking for him often touch your places because they don’t care, so they are fearless.
1. Challenge your bottom line again and again
With the vague favorability he shows, you think he likes you too. You open your heart to express it, and the other party does not respond or refuses.
Later, as you chat, you share your daily life, and all the happy or unhappy ones often imply that he likes him and wants to be with him.
Ta often pretends to be stupid. You use various festivals to prepare gifts to confess, but he said that we are friends, and our daily chats are full of ambiguity.
You wait, you think you will be able to wait one day. Perhaps it is because he doesn’t understand you enough, but the more he talks, he becomes less and less bottom line.
does not respond to your likes, but says a lot of inexplicable words to you and send you a lot of strange short videos. You politely warn him that he still does not repent, and more and more.
Later, you threatened him with blackmail, and if you post it again, you would block it. He smiled and started posting various things again in a few days. You did not respond again and again, warned him again and again, and challenged your bottom line again and again.
Relying on your liking for ta and your tolerance, you will squander your favoritism for ta. For him, you don’t care whether you delete it or not, and you don’t want to delete it with your tolerance.
Such a person who dares to ravage your emotions at will, trample on your emotions at will, and overdraw and consume your life's bottom line is not worthy of your liking.
You will be an exception in your heart. Perhaps the other party will change for you, accept your unrealistic fantasy, and continue, which will only cause you to collapse in tearing and tearing each other until you consume your love.
Some people have some feelings that are not going well because they forgive each other again and again to touch your bottom line and give in again and again. In the end, they are either hurt or torture.
People who do not know how to cherish are not worthy of possessing.
2. Strike your self-esteem again and again
Think of Xu Zhimo's wife Zhang Youyi . The woman who lives in traditional concepts, in order to preserve her marriage, Xu Zhimo usually suppresses her clothes and appearance, without complaints.
When she was pregnant with her second child, Xu Zhimo asked Zhang Youyi to abort the child in order to catch up with Lin Huiyin.
Zhang Youyi said in fear at the time: "I heard that someone died of abortion."
Xu Zhimo replied coldly: "There are people who died of taking the train. Do you see that they don't take the train?"
People who don't love you will not care about your life or death. In his eyes, you are not as good as others, and you don't like them from head to toe.
is only indifferent and depressed to you, always picky, saying that you have a bad figure, saying that you have a bad temper, and saying that you have no taste. Every sentence is like a needle piercing into your heart, hurting little by little.
has been around for a long time, and even you doubt yourself. Is it really that unbearable?
makes you uncomfortable. People who live their lives worse than their day, forget it. He can treat you like this because he no longer loves you. You were the ones he had all his eyes on back then.
You can support a person with motivation, but you cannot indulge a person who is not enterprising.
Behind the repeated compromises, concessions and forgiveness, there will be countless requests in the future, and I am not satisfied.
Those who truly love you will respect everything about you, and everything is put first. Those who love you will not touch your bottom line, nor will they force you to do anything.
No matter whether a man or a woman, once you feel that this relationship needs to be maintained with all your strength and do not receive the respect you deserve, it is not worth nostalgic for.
