text | Miss Bai
In fact, many times, women say divorce may not necessarily mean they really want to divorce, but they just want the other party to give in.
But once a man wants to divorce, it is often the result of long-term consideration after weighing the pros and cons.
When a man wants to divorce you, he may not say it explicitly, but there will definitely be these 3 ruthless behaviors. Be careful if you get one of them!
Attitude becomes cold
Resist intimacy with you
Do men love you or want to divorce? The most obvious difference is sex.
Once a man wants to divorce you, his attitude will become cold and he will start to deliberately keep a distance from you and no longer be close to you.
You will find that you have not lived in a couple for a long time. Even if you take the initiative, he will find various reasons to perfunctory you and reject you.
Resist intimacy with you, always with a cold attitude, deliberately alienating you, but not taking the initiative to say divorce, it is nothing more than a consideration of real interests.
He may not want to be a bad person. He hopes that you can file for divorce, so he doesn’t have to feel guilty. Or maybe he hasn’t found a good way out and doesn’t want to make a fuss for the time being.
But no matter which one it is, it means that it no longer wants to live with you.
always accuses you of picky
to prove you are wrong
Once a man changes his mind and wants to separate, his face will change very quickly.
When he loves you, he will consider your feelings, take care of you in every way, and no longer love you. No matter what you do, he will feel irritable and disgusted.
All kinds of things don’t like you, and a small matter can become a reason for quarrel. Even if it is clearly his fault, he will never reflect on it and will only blame you.
and even, some men will talk bad things about you everywhere, making others feel that the problem lies with you, so as to lay the foundation for breaking up.
If a man wants to leave you, he will find thousands of reasons to accuse you, pick on you, prove that you are wrong, and he is right.
With this, I divorce you with kindness and peace of mind and kick you away.
A man who has this kind of behavior only has himself in his heart, and he no longer loves you, only boredom.
intentionally don't go home
Develop extramarital affairs
Although many men in life have had extramarital affairs to more or less, they are mostly looking for a fresh and exciting thing and don't really want to divorce.
But some men, out of dissatisfaction with their marriage, feel that life can no longer last, or fall in love with other people, have a true love for the mistress, which makes them have the idea of divorce. Men like
will no longer be sneaky or hiding, but will blatantly stay away from home at night.
The attitude is firm, even if you try to keep it, it is useless. He will still insist on getting a divorce because his heart is no longer on you, so he naturally doesn't want to live in the same room with you again.
even, they will secretly transfer assets on your back and give money to the mistress, and make plans for the divorce. This situation occurs in
, which means that the marriage has come to an end and there is no need for you to keep it again.
In fact, a man will choose to be separated from you, not a momentary impulse, but a deep resentment in his heart and a long plan.
If a marriage has made each other exhausted and if you want to escape, it is better to let go happily.
Leaving a man who doesn’t love you is also a relief for yourself.
✎Author: Miss Bai, a working woman, writes warm and powerful words, share interesting and meaningful life with you, accompany you to grow up, and accompany you to be strong. The new book " Lives the way you want " is being exclusively pre-sale on Dangdang.com .
