We often say that the kind of person you are will attract what kind of people, but sometimes there is a great dramatic element in the interactions between people.
Sometimes you don’t need to attract others, and others will take the initiative to move towards you, especially those with different purposes.
It is difficult for you to see through these deliberate disguises. My ancestors have actually summarized them for us. You should not have the intention to harm others, and you should be careful when interacting with others.
This is not a scheming, but a wise approach. People will change. No matter how good your relationship was before, many things will change over time. If the other party has these behaviors of cross-border, it is best not to contact each other again.
1: People who are jealous of you
Everyone says jealousy makes people unrecognizable. You think your relationship is not bad, but it is very likely that it is just you who think, maybe the other person is talking about you behind your back.
Some people hide very well. When you are doing well, there may not be any problems, but once you are doing better than him, it will not work.
Many people can allow strangers to be rich and noble, but people who are not allowed to be rich and noble on the same starting line as them may not show it on the surface, but they have long been jealous and crazy.
is a typical example of shameful people around you. Your success undoubtedly sets off his failure, and then he is jealous of you and slandering you behind your back.
In addition to living better than him, some people can’t stand others’ lives worse than him, look down on others in all kinds of ways, and often like to make fun of others to elevate themselves.
2: People without principles and bottom line
Each of us has all kinds of friends. Some friends are full of inspiration, but some friends wander in the gray world and can do whatever they want to achieve their goals. People like
are actually very scary. When you are still in the same group or there is no conflict, everything is easy to say, and it can be very good to you.
But if you have any conflict of interest, you will immediately turn against you. Anyway, they just need to achieve their goals and do things without principles and no bottom line.
doesn’t care who your actions will hurt, or whether your friends still have to do it. Anyway, you will always be ranked first in order to achieve your goals. People like
are generally very ruthless and you will never know when they will be exploited or calculated because of their interests. They are simply unpredictable.
3: People who value interests too much
speak well, "talking about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings will naturally hurts money." These two are like fish and bear's paws, which cannot be obtained at the same time.
A person who values interests too much will definitely not value feelings too much. Such people should not contact them less. Even if your relationship is not good for the time being, stay away from him.
Some people may think that although the other party betrayed many people, they have always been good to themselves, but in fact, this is a temporary beauty.
As long as you betray your interests, the other party can immediately turn against others. Such people often have a certain purpose in making friends. Only when you are useful to him will he be nice to you. If you are useless, his true face will be revealed.
Choose those who do not value interests to make friends, and you can often get a better experience. Such friendships are often very strong. When you need help, you can often lend a helping hand in time.
Everyone says that at home, relying on your parents, and when going out, relying on your friends, friendship is a very precious thing, but sometimes the cheapest thing is often friendship.
The key to making friends is to make friends. For those unreliable friends, don’t give your sincerity anymore, because your sincerity may not be answered.
When dating people, we must keep our eyes open. For those who are not good at character, we should break off contact with them as soon as possible to avoid being implicated by the other party in the future.
