Between couples, if the wife cares too much about her parents' family and ignores her own family, then such a couple will definitely not be happy. Similarly, for my husband, the same is true.
On that day, Yuling called her mother and said that her husband was on a business trip, so she quickly asked her brother to come and help her move. So, my younger brother quickly brought a few young men over.
After a busy period, Yuling moved her home back to her husband's old house, and then said to her brother: Your brother-in-law and I have moved back to live in, and I will give this house to you!
My younger brother happily cleaned the house and moved in.
A few months later, Yuling's husband Haitao came home on a business trip. When he knocked on the door, he found that his brother-in-law lived in the house. The brother-in-law said to Haitao: Brother-in-law, sister said that you have agreed with you. You will give me this house for marriage. You have moved back to the old house to live!
Haitao heard this and his stomach was so angry that he almost exploded. He turned around and walked towards the old house, thinking to himself: I have been guarding against my wife, but I haven’t been guarding it!
Haitao is an only child. When he got married, he thought his parents' house was old and took out all the money he had saved over the years of work. With his parents' savings, Haitao bought a new house, which was also the one that Haitao bought before marriage. When getting married, my father said to Haitao: Your mother and I went back to our hometown in the countryside to retire. You can live in this old house. Rent the new house and earn more rent!
After the parents left, Haitao and Yuling lived in the old house. Once, Haitao and Yuling went to their mother-in-law's house to visit relatives. The mother-in-law said: Haitao, you have two houses. The house is too expensive now. Can you give the new house to your wife and brother to get married? Haitao said: My parents bought the house. Let’s discuss it with my parents when I go back.
Haitao saw that his mother-in-law had the idea of his new house. After returning home, he moved to the new house and rented the old house with the goal of breaking his mother-in-law's idea.
This time Haitao was on a business trip, and Haitao's mother-in-law called Yuling back and asked her to give the new house to her younger brother as a wedding room. The mother said to Yuling: Parents raised you since childhood, and now you have a better time and you have to help your parents’ home! So Yuling took advantage of Haitao's business trip to move her home back to the old house and gave the new house to her younger brother.
You can give your new house to your brother while I am not at home, and you can't live this life! Haitao returned to the old house and questioned Yuling.
Yuling said: Why don’t you want to live? I don’t like the old house being dilapidated, live a good life!
Haitao shouted: You don’t dislike this house, I dislike it. Do you know, our new house is worth more than one million!
Yuling shouted: Why are you yelling? My parents worked hard to support me so much and marry you. Am I worth only one million yuan? From now on, in order to repay my parents, I decided to give my brother your pre-marriage room to support my family, and my salary to support my parents!
Haitao was angry and shouted: Then why should I marry a woman like you? Is it just to give my property to your parents’ home? I don’t dare to want a woman like you, divorce!
Haitao and Yuling often quarreled, and the two started a divorce, and Yuling returned to her parents' home.
You are too stupid, you can't even control your husband! When the mother learned that Yuling and Haitao were divorced about the house, the mother blamed her.
Sister, even if you divorce your brother-in-law, you must not return this house to him! The younger brother said to Yuling: Sister, didn’t I tell you? You should learn to deceive your husband and keep him in your hands!
Yuling and her husband divorced. She did not get comfort when she returned to her parents' home, but she lost indifference and complaints. Yuling was very sad. After thinking about it, she went back to find Haitao.
Haitao was too lazy to pay attention to her, but Yuling kept pleasing Haitao. She said: Husband, I was wrong, but although the new house was given to my brother, the property certificate was still yours, and he was just temporarily living there! Don’t worry, I won’t help my parents’ family anymore, and I will definitely live a good life with you!
Haitao said coldly: Since you know you are wrong now, why did you do that at the beginning? Let's see your performance in the future!
In life, there are many women like Yuling who are devoted to their parents' home, but they cannot get the care of their parents' home.For married women, the first thing is to take good care of their own family, which is the most important thing.