Sometimes we men have to pay attention to some things. If you don’t pay attention, it will definitely be a tragedy waiting for you. Just like in the article, this man is in a dilemma and chooses to divorce. It is not that he does not divorce nor that the ending is too uncomfortable and long, but who can he blame him? If he paid attention at the beginning, maybe it is not the ending now, and now the ending can only be recognized.
hope that through this case, all men can pay attention to preventing theft and protecting their wives from their male best friends. What's going on? Why do you say so? Let’s take a look together. When I came back from a business trip, I found a man at home. My wife: He is here to warm up the bed. I: Get out, get divorced.
Case story sharing person,
39-year-old Mr. Zhou:
Now I really don’t know what to do. Divorce is not, nor is it not to divorce. Now I am messed up by this matter. My mother told me what you have to think about. No matter what, you should consider it for the sake of your child. The child is so young and needs care. What's more, you have three children that need mother care. If you divorce your wife, who will take care of the child?
What should I do with the child? Have you ever thought about your child? When you think of this, you should know what to do. For the sake of your child, you have to endure it. After all, children cannot have a mother. Children are so young. If they don’t have a mother, it is very likely. And you also know that you still young and need a wife. If you live after divorce, you will never be able to live in the future. Once you don’t have a wife, your family will not get married.
So you must not be impulsive. For your children and for yourself, choose to forgive me. Don’t get divorced. Divorce will not be of any benefit to you. After my mother finished, my father told me, "Yes, your mother said so, why can't you choose the same thing?" I know you are feeling very uncomfortable now, but what I want to say is that things will eventually pass, it is just a matter of time. After a while, you will slowly forget about this matter.
What's more, now knowing that it's so open. People who are open now are different from before. Don’t fix their thoughts when they do this before, they will be pulled to recognize the pig cage, but now they are different from before. So there is no need to make a fuss with your wife for this matter. What’s more, women who are so open now, you can’t care so much. You can do whatever you used to be. The most important thing is that your wife can come back and live a good life with you. As long as you can do this, you don’t care about so many others.
Two people are together to live a life. As long as your husband lives well with you, why do you care about so much else? You don’t need to do whatever you do. As long as you can live with you well, that’s fine. You must know how to open the market, otherwise? , you will definitely lose everything in the end. Don’t wait until you lose everything in the end to know that you can’t do that. It’s too late to lose it. Do you understand?
Now your wife is still by your side, and you are still a family. In that way, your wife will be a free nanny for you and will take good care of you and take good care of your children. If you divorce, what should the child do if the mother’s divorce is like this for free? Who will take care of the children? What should you do? You need a wife, too, right?
So you really can't divorce your wife. I know you are uncomfortable, but what can I do? Just think about this according to my ideas. The times are different now. Now the times are open, so just think about it. For the sake of your family and children, you have to ask for this free nanny.
After you wait, you will understand why I asked you to do this. I did this for your good. If you know, don’t do it for your good. If you know, I will do this again when you understand. It’s normal that you can’t stand it now, but slowly you can accept it. So don’t get divorced, hurry up and live with your wife. This matter turns big and small things into nothing.I was speechless when I heard my parents say this. It was so uncomfortable to do what I should do. Shouldn’t we choose to divorce?
Today I want to tell this matter, everyone will give me a comment. If there is no high-choice, although I love my teacher very much, I want glass brick , but Yi thought of me and there was no choice. Although I love my wife very much, although I also want to not get divorced, when I think of my wife's affairs, I can't bear it anymore. I came back from a business trip these few days ago. I was on a business trip in Beijing. When I got home, it was almost 9:00 at 8 o'clock in the evening.
In theory, my wife shouldn't have gone to bed so early, but when she got home, she found that the lights were turned off in my house. What's going on? Did she go to bed so early? Although the weather is a little cold, it is not enough to go to bed so early. Just as I opened the door and went in, I heard the man's voice, which was even more strange. Isn't this my house?
If it was my house, how could there be other men in the house. The voice of the man is not my father. It’s not the voice of my father-in-law. Is there any man in the family? Is it my brother-in-law? It's not right, my brother-in-law has already gone out to serve in the army.
doesn’t know when it will come back. It is impossible for those who suddenly appear at home, and it is even more impossible for them to explain what they say so late, which means it is not their voice. The question is, it is so late, who is this man? Is it because I walked into the wrong room? Isn't this my house?
cannot be not my house. If it is not my house, how can my keys open the door here? What does my key enable the door here mean? It shows that this house belongs to mine, but it actually says that this house belongs to mine. So who is the voice of this man? Just when I was puzzled, I heard my wife speak.
My wife told me that you should warm up the bed as soon as possible. , My husband won't come back tonight. If you can't do anything well, don't blame me for driving it out. Then the man said this to my wife. If you didn't serve me well, I wouldn't come here last time. Even if you beg me, I won't come here. You should do it as soon as possible. They both talk and play...
I will bear it anymore when I hear this. I can do it. I kicked the door open. After kicking it open, I saw a scene that I couldn't stand. I saw my wife and a man rolling the sheets there. I can't do it again after seeing this, so I hit my wife directly. I know that it's wrong for the man to hit a woman. No matter what the wife does, she shouldn't hit a woman.
But when faced with this, I really couldn't control myself. I beat my wife. After beating my wife, I directly pushed my wife out of the room, and then I took out the baseball bat . That's right, I beat my wife and male bestie, and I beat my wife and male bestie to the point of bleeding, and then I called him 120 and took him to the hospital. It is wrong to hit someone, but I really can't control myself when facing this.
I love my wife so much, I give him everything I want, but my wife treats me like this, how can I bear it? Don’t say I can’t stand it anymore. I think there are few men in the world who can tolerate this thing. A wife can do a lot of things, but this thing really cannot be done wrong. Doing such a thing means that your wife doesn’t want to be with you, just like my wife is now.
In order to give my wife happiness, I worked harder and dared not spend money when I earned. I gave all the money to my wife and asked me to give it to my wife. But I never thought that my wife would treat me like this. Although I often stayed outside, no matter how expensive she was, no matter how expensive it was, as long as I could do what my wife wanted, I would give it to my wife. No matter how expensive it was, as long as I could do it, I would give it to my wife.
But my wife did this because I gave too much to my wife, and then my wife treated me like this, so I couldn't bear it, so I hit my wife. I know it's wrong, but I can't do it anymore, so I can only do it. After hitting my wife, my wife told me that things were not what you thought, we were innocent, we were just warming the bed like this...
I slapped my wife in the face again. I told my wife that you think I am a child? Do you think I will believe what you said? That's impossible. Do you still want to lie to me? Yes, now I will give you a chance. You can make this clear, otherwise don’t blame me.
Now this opportunity is the last chance, you can do it yourself. If you don’t want to live with me, just tell me directly that there is no need to deceive me again and again. My patience for such things is also limited. This is how my wife and myself are. The truth is how it is. Believe me. If you don’t believe me, the man doesn’t believe me. If you don’t believe me, it will definitely be a divorce after half a year. Do you want to divorce me? Otherwise, you can believe me.
I didn’t expect my wife to threaten me with divorce. I love my wife so much and treat her so well. Now I give her a chance, but she told me about the divorce. I told my wife if you don’t want to live with me. If you don’t want to live with me, just tell me directly, why do you need to threaten me with divorce? Even children know what's going on in this matter. Do you still want to lie to me? Do you still want to get divorced and let me retreat? Yes or no?
I will not forgive this world. Get out of here, I don’t want to see you again. After that, I will ignore my wife. Whatever she wants, I think I am not wrong in this matter anyway. Don’t say I can’t accept it. I think even you can’t accept it. This is no longer a question of whether or not. Although I love my wife very much, and although I can’t bear to leave my wife, I absolutely cannot accept this matter.
I feel disgusted when I think of this. They are doing something together, but they still tell me that they are warming the quilt. Is this possible? Do I just miss a child? If you were you, you would choose to divorce, but why did my parents not divorce me, but not divorce is the most correct way to protect this family without divorce? My wife's heart is no longer with me, so what's the use of divorce to me?
If you don’t divorce, you will only suffer for a lifetime, isn’t it? If I don’t divorce, I will definitely regret it in the future. Since this is the case, I should choose to divorce. If I finish it, I will be able to keep my dignity and the life I love. If I don’t divorce, I will definitely be hurt again. If that's true, it's better to get a divorce, don't you think? So I think there is nothing wrong with choosing divorce. What do you think would you do if it were you?
Conclusion:
can only choose to divorce for this matter. Just say that, if you don’t divorce, it may be painful in the future. Just like you said, your wife doesn’t love you at all, your wife’s heart is not with you at all, your wife loves the man and the best friend, otherwise she wouldn’t have brought the man home. Since this is the case, you should choose to divorce, otherwise how can you live in the future.
will not be able to survive in the future. Let me say more here. Men should pay attention to this kind of thing. It is impossible for men to prevent fire, theft and wife to prevent their male best friends. There is no friendship between men and women. If you don’t pay attention, you may be the same as men in the article in the future. It will be too late to regret it at that time. If you pay attention now, you may have a chance. Let your wife stay away from male best friends as soon as possible.
also hopes that through this case, we can remind all women to choose family as much as possible. They should choose marriage, and they should be responsible for themselves and their families and marriages. Otherwise, the end will definitely be a tragedy, because there is no free lunch in the world, and every man treats you well has a purpose, including your male best friend. If you don’t want everything to be ruined by your male best friend, then stay away from your male best friend and be responsible for yourself, your family and marriage.
