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people often say that couples do not have overnight revenge. But some couples hold grudges and hold grudges for a long time. When they are old, they still look like enemies. It is actually rare for couples like
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People's hearts are full of flesh. If you hold a grudge against the other person so much, you will definitely be sad and disappointed, otherwise you would not be so cruel.
As the saying goes, if you do the first day of the lunar month, I do the fifteenth day of the lunar month. If one party does too much, as long as there is a chance, the other party may have to take revenge.
There is a 56-year-old man who has been ill for several months. His wife goes out to play cards every day and ignores him, but no one sympathizes with him.
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Marriage is about fate. Hu Yinghua, a beautiful person, finally had a person he liked at the age of 28. After falling in love for half a year, he entered the palace of marriage.
The person she married is He Chen, who is 3 years older than Hu Yinghua and works in an auto repair shop.
The second year after getting married, he had a son, and Hu Yinghua took care of the children at home and did housework. He Chen gave all the money he earned to Hu Yinghua. Although life was not as rich as a fortune, they felt very satisfied and the whole family lived a happy and happy life.
As the son grows up, more places to spend money, the couple often quarrels and fights over money, and the relationship between husband and wife becomes increasingly weak.
He Chen thought, he couldn't just rely on salary to support his family, and he had to find a way to make money again.
Unexpectedly, half a year later, He Chen and a few friends opened an advertising company. Over the past two years, the company has made a lot of profits, and He Chen's life has gradually begun to change.
Every time he consumes a high price, Hu Yinghua advises him not to be too luxurious and to save money. There are still many places to spend money in the future.
Whenever this happens, He Chen not only refuses to listen to advice, but also says that Hu Yinghua doesn’t understand life and is a rude person and no longer gives money to Hu Yinghua.
Hu Yinghua didn't argue with him, but only asked him one condition, that is, he asked He Chen to give her 10,000 pocket money every month. In the end, He Chen only agreed to give her 5,000 yuan a month.
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The marriage is happy and relied on the joint management of the couple. The marriage between He Chen and Hu Yinghua has become a mess, but they will live it with nothing else.
During the day, He Chen basically doesn’t go home for dinner, and it’s too late to go home at night. Every time Hu Yinghua asks him, he either gets scolded or has no response.
Hu Yinghua was very annoyed, but she had no choice but to do anything to He Chen. She knew in her heart that He Chen must have had a good relationship outside.
That's right, the woman who is close to He Chen is divorced. She is young and beautiful, and she is very rich. She often buys good wine and cigarettes for He Chen, so He Chen naturally has doubled his financial rewards.
Since Hu Yinghua got the 5,000 yuan given by He Chen every month, it is difficult for him to see He Chen every day. He is a couple in name only.
When a man acts like this, the woman can only hate her.
After their son went to college, He Chen filed for divorce, but Hu Yinghua firmly disagreed. It’s not that she can’t bear to let go, but she doesn’t want He Chen to be perfect.
In fact, there are really many women around us who think this way. They would rather suffer themselves than let the other party fulfill their wishes.
Days go by day by day, He Chen is extremely tired of Hu Yinghua, while Hu Yinghua hates He Chen to the core.
03
The marriage is not happy, but it is not the one who suffers. He Chen has more than one person with his family outside, and his money is like flowing, and he has not saved much money. His purpose is that in life, you must eat and have fun and never treat yourself badly.
In a blink of an eye, their husband-wife relationship is harmful but not beneficial. For He Chen, he has become used to this kind of life, and Hu Yinghua is already dispensable in her heart.
, and Hu Yinghua had already had a plan in her mind, saved money hard, loved herself well, and supported her with her son. She would not worry about having a good life when she was old. She also secretly swore that if He Chen had something to do in the future, she would never pity him.
Maybe God really has eyes and wants to punish this man who treats his wife badly. He Chen played cards at a friend's house that day and suddenly vomited a mouthful of blood. He hurried to the hospital and was diagnosed with throat cancer.
He Chen often had a sore throat, dry and itchy throat, thinking it was a simple pharyngitis, and smoked, drank, and ate spicy food as usual, but it did not attract attention. He saw the results of the inspection and was extremely panicked and desperate.
That day, he went home early for the first time and took the initiative to help Hu Yinghua do housework. When Hu Yinghua stared at him in a daze, he told him about his condition. He still wanted to get his wife's love when he did this. As a result, he was very disappointed. After hearing this, Hu Yinghua's expression was very calm and he said: You are not without money, what are you afraid of?
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Only he knows whether He Chen has money or not. Over the years, his high consumption has reached a point where his people around him are dumbfounded. Sometimes someone kindly reminded him, but he didn't understand. Now, when the disease comes, he needs a lot of money to treat it, and he is starting to be anxious.
He tried to find Hu Yinghua and was disappointed.
The day of the operation has come, and He Chen wants Hu Yinghua to accompany him, but Hu Yinghua goes out to play cards without saying a word. During his hospitalization, Hu Yinghua never called He Chen once, let alone visited him.
He Chen started chemotherapy. The pain was unbearable. He wanted to eat something and did it himself. Hu Yinghua went out to play cards every day, and there was no sign of any worry. He saw that he didn't have much money, and he really wanted Hu Yinghua to take out some to treat him. He was dreaming during the day.
Hu Yinghua never made any food for He Chen. He did whatever he wanted every day, and never said anything concerning. For this reason, He Chen felt uncomfortable. He told his son this and the response he received was still blame.
He Chen has been sick for almost a year, and Hu Yinghua has really done his best. However, none of the people who knew them sympathized with He Chen.
can be seen that in addition to extremely hurting his wife Hu Yinghua, He Chen also left a very bad impression on the people around him.
From then on, He Chen could only live on his own will. Did he respond to the saying: Good will be rewarded, and evil will be rewarded?
was written at the end
Zhang Ailing said: "The real disappointment is not cursing, not crying, nor losing her temper at you, but being silent. I feel that everything you do has nothing to do with me anymore." Hu Yinghua in the article
did it, and her husband He Chen also realized his sins. He did not blame her during his serious illness, and chose to bear the pain silently. At this time, he also understood the purpose of Hu Yinghua doing this.
What are couples? It is a person who shares your destiny. If the other person is not integrated into his heart, he will naturally not be loved.
Since you are married, you must cherish each other and treat them sincerely, so that you can overcome difficulties together.
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