Can a woman recover a man’s extramarital affair? Are there any recovery tips? Today we will take a look at the stories of these three women.
@Ms. Liu: My husband has an extramarital affair, and I became friends with a third party. He never dared to do it again
My husband and I have been married for 7 years. I never thought he would carry my extramarital affair on his back, but when reality was in front of me, I was still shocked.
We got married through blind dates. At that time, we thought others were not bad, so we got married. Life after marriage was calm and simple, and nothing happened in those years.
Later, in order to improve his life, he went out to start a business. He often wakes up early every day and doesn't go home in the dark. I was used to it and didn't pay much attention to his business, but I was told later that he saw my husband go shopping with other women.
At first I didn't believe it, but I still wanted to see the truth, so I secretly followed my husband to see if he betrayed me, but what shocked me was the woman I had met. He seemed to be my husband's first love, but she didn't know me.
So I found the contact information of that woman. At the beginning, I did not directly tell him that I was her current lover's husband, but gradually got to know her, approach her, and make friends with her.
Only after understanding it was learned that after my husband married me, she was heartbroken, so she casually found a man to get married, but the man died in a car accident the previous year and she has always been alone.
I sympathize with her and often give her comfort and help. Gradually, we became good friends. We often go shopping together so we can’t avoid meeting our husbands. She didn't know who I was, so she didn't care about me and my husband.
But my husband is stupid. He didn't know what was going on. He can't say too much in front of outsiders. When he got home, he admitted his mistake to me, saying that he was confused for a moment and fell in love with her when he saw her pitiful.
When the woman knew I was his wife, she was also shocked. Then she admitted to me that you treated me as a sister and helped me, and I did something that I was sorry for you. I really shouldn't have done that. She cried and slapped her in the mouth.
Seeing such a thing, I didn’t hear too much. The woman completely cut off contact with her husband, and her husband did not dare to cheat because our relationship was too good.
Now my husband has completely changed his mind, and his life has returned to what he used to be. That woman has a good relationship with me now.
@Ms. Zhang: My husband had an extramarital affair, I used warmth to make my husband change his mind
I have been married for four years, and our relationship has always been very good. After all, we are in a free relationship, and we have been married for three years.
At the beginning, my husband's family was very poor. My parents didn't want me to marry a poor boy, but I found that my husband was very motivated and smart and would make a lot of money in the future, so I resolutely married him.
Later, we went to Guangdong together. After two years of life, we finally improved. We also paid the down payment for the first small house and had a home that truly belonged to us.
But when life gets better, I gradually feel something is wrong with my husband. In the past, he always liked to hold me at night, but now he is facing his back to me. I said it several times, and he just said he was too tired now.
Later, the matter was exposed. I found a sanitary product in his bag, so I asked him where he came from. He was sly, but he admitted he had a woman, so he told me not to meddle in other people's business. He wants to get a divorce.
How much pain have we suffered in the past few years. How could I be willing to give it all to another woman today, but my husband was very determined and refused to give up anything.
So I changed my strategy of having a big fight with him and instead told him that I don’t want to argue with him now, but I don’t want us to work together, I can’t forget my days without money but happy.
My husband gradually became a little moved and began to say sorry to me. I pursue victory and continue to show my warmth. I said I have been busy with work in recent years and have no time to have children. Now I want to have a baby for you. My husband was so moved that he shed tears.
Later, my husband took the initiative to break off contact with the woman, returned to his family, and his life returned to his former appearance. Now I am pregnant, and my husband loves me even more.
@Ms. Bao: My husband betrayed me, I will make him regret it first
My husband and I have been married for 10 years. Our relationship has been very good during this period. I never thought he would divorce.
My husband couldn't afford a house when he got married, so I bought it. My husband wrote my name and he wanted nothing.
Because my husband knows that I pay for the money for marriage and does not need the bride price, he has always treated me very well and feels very sorry for me. He treats me meticulously in life.
But what I didn’t expect was that such a man who loves me, loves me, and is honest cheated on me under my nose. Moreover, this woman's situation is average, and I don't know how they met.
After I knew he had cheated, I endured it for a while, hinting that he should not do anything in a standard way, but two months later, he still didn't repent and was still close to that woman.
I can't stand it anymore. One night, when he came home, I threw all his clothes out and told him to leave my house. At first, he pretended not to know what was going on and finally admitted.
When he admitted, I recorded it over the phone, so I sent the recording to his parents and sister. Soon, they called me to tell me not to be impulsive, they would deal with this unfilial son.
As expected, the relative's advice was much more useful than me. Soon my husband came to apologize to me. In order to show that he would not make any more mistakes in the future, his parents and sister asked him to sign a letter of commitment.
After that, the husband completely changed his mind and did not dare to have extramarital affairs again. He was more ruthless than him when dealing with men.
In real life, men have too many extramarital affairs. If the wife doesn't know how to defend her marriage wisely, she only knows that after her husband cheats, she will solve the problem through beating, scolding, quarrel and divorce, then the marriage fails.
How can a cheating man change his mind? Obviously, quarrels and beatings and scolding are not only not helpful to your marriage, but also promotes third-party arrogance and makes your husband's cheating more reasonable, so remember not to do this again.
On the contrary, learn the above three methods and now make a summary:
1. Find a child to become a friend and make your husband and children feel guilty. When you find out about your husband and lover, you will take the initiative, your lover will be ashamed of your relationship, and your husband will change his mind because of your generosity.
2. Touch your husband with warmth. The beauty between you, the joyful little things, can become your trump card, or your children, your knowledge over the past ten years, your tolerance for him several times, all of these, as long as you give them a suitable atmosphere and a reasonable introduction, they will become powerful trump card, and the final love of "weakness" can only be destroyed.
3. Take the initiative and tell your parents-in-law and relatives. Extramarital affair is a scandal, so men don’t want to make it public, but the more patient you are, the stronger they will be, so women should take the initiative.
For women, it is not difficult to save a cheating husband. After all, few men will really like their lover. Few men will abandon their wives and choose a cheating woman. Most cheating men may be entangled by mistresses involuntarily.
How can a cheating man change his mind? At this time, a woman should overcome an extramarital affair with her husband. Although they have shadows in their hearts, it is better than not having a marriage.Although I feel very wronged, divorce will be even more wronged, and this is the best way to do it.
