Author: Yiduan
Picture: From the Internet
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A marriage, if you want to be happy and stable, both parents cannot intervene too much. How many loving newly married couples have broken down due to the infatuation of the man's parents and the intrusion of the woman's family, and then the tragic ending of breaking up.
Especially the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are almost deadly killers of couples' divorce. Two generations live under the same roof, and there are already deviations in their ideas. One is the mother and the other is the wife. Both of them are all around the man, but their thoughts are different. After a while, it is inevitable that the idea of "competing for favor and jealousy" will appear.
Maybe, some people will say that if you don’t live with your in-laws after marriage, the problem will be solved from the root. However, in the face of rising housing prices, not every family can buy two properties boldly. Just one house, men and women have already overdrawn most of their lives in advance. The 30-year mortgage loan is suffocating, so where can there be capital to buy a second house!
Besides, after the couple gets married, they face the problem of having children. After giving birth, if a woman wants to return to the workplace, the child has to be handed over to the elderly. Young couples inevitably need the help of the elderly. Two generations cannot live together. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts. Coupled with the education issues of the next generation, the differences are even more serious.
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"If I don't remarry my son, I will stay at your doorstep and let the neighbors see your ugly face. As an elder, I have kind hearted and come from afar. Please go back. You are not allowed to enter, and you don't even let me drink tea. Is there anyone who is your daughter-in-law like this?"
Su Hui, who was standing in the courtyard, listened to the accusations of her mother-in-law outside the gate, was so angry. Half a year ago, she divorced her husband. To be more precise, Su Hui was divorced by her husband. At that time, she had kneeled down to try to keep her husband and begged her parents-in-law, but her family insisted on kicking her out of the house.
The cause of the divorce was that her husband had someone outside. Su Hui originally thought that as long as her husband admitted his mistake and was willing to return to the family and ensured that he would not do anything randomly in the future, she would choose to forgive her and just pretend that this incident had not happened before and continue to live a stable life. Unexpectedly, her husband not only did not regret it, but also mocked Su Hui as a "yellow-faced woman" who was annoying to others.
2 years of marriage, Su Hui was working hard in her in-laws' house, and she was willing to complain, and her in-laws would just bully her, but her husband still treated her like this, and Su Hui felt sad for herself. What made Su Hui most sad was that her son was also taught by her in-laws and was very disdainful of her biological mother. She did not give Su Hui a good face on weekdays and didn't even say "mom".
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Out of provocation, the husband also brought the third party back home. When Su Hui's son saw the third party, he called out "auntie" affectionately. His parents-in-law asked him to call him mom. Su Hui's son then started calling him, just because the third party bought him clothes and toys.
At this moment, Su Hui's heart was cut like a knife, and she was like an outsider, watching their family happily. The worst thing is that Su Hui had to enter the kitchen to work hard and prepare a table of sumptuous meals for them. Even though she was so humble, Su Hui was still unable to escape and was swept out by her in-laws' house.
Because she is a full-time housewife, Su Hui has no savings in her name, her husband has not given her any property, and her son is unwilling to follow her biological mother Su Hui. Su Hui, who was left home with nothing, returned to her parents' home. Unexpectedly, after leaving my in-laws' house, my bad luck came to an end and I began to turn good luck.
My mother's old house has caught up with the demolition and can receive at least one million yuan in demolition payment. Su Hui is the only daughter of the family, and this demolition payment will inevitably be her treasure in the end. It was precisely because of this news that Su Hui's former mother-in-law came to her house to seek reunion.
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Only with economic strength can women have the confidence. At this moment, Su Hui is no longer as weak as before. Faced with the uninvited arrival of her ex-mother-in-law, she directly exposed the other party's true face.
"Why don't he come by asking your son to remarry me? Don't think I don't know. You came to your door by seeing my mother's house going to be demolished and you were jealous of this large amount of demolition payment. Don't plot, I will never remarry your son!"
The former mother-in-law sat in front of Su Hui's house for most of the day, but Su Hui just refused to open the door. Seeing that the ex-daughter-in-law was so determined, the ex-mother-in-law left in disappointment.
The next day, the former mother-in-law and grandson appeared at Su Hui's door again. This time, Su Hui felt soft and opened the door for her son. Seeing her son crying, begging her parents to remarry. As a mother, Su Hui hesitated. For a moment, she didn't know whether she should give her son a healthy family, or grit her teeth and not get into the fire?
The wise man does not fall in love, and Su Hui’s wisest choice is not to remarry. After 12 years of marriage, I was so harsh by my in-laws. My husband cheated on me and my son didn't look to me. What else can I miss for in-laws? As for his son coming to the house to ask his parents to remarry, he must have been instigated by adults. He still does not recognize Su Hui, his biological mother.
Behind all the actions of the in-laws' family, it is nothing more than a fancy to the demolition payment for Su Hui's old house. Since she knew that this was the case, Su Hui should not have compromised. After returning to her former husband's family, the days she has to face are no different from those in the past. Only stupid women will choose to turn back.
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If you are Su Hui, will you remarry your ex-husband and continue to be squeezed by your in-laws’ family for the sake of your ungrateful son? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.
