emotional topic interpretation, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional worry-relieving person, but you must know how to let yourself go!
text | Feng Ding Yebo
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The world of adults is the most boring to disguise. But there are many times when you have to pretend!
Just when a person can really return to himself and get along with himself, these boring disguises will not be seen, and he doesn't have to pretend to be the kind of person he dislikes the most.
People have always believed in the saying "rely rely on parents at home and friends when going out. If there are too many friends, the road is easy to walk." In the face of human nature and interests, people have to admit that
The relationship between people has never been so strong and credible!
We are tired of everything hypocritical, the sincerity we pursue, and in the end we discover:
Only when facing ourselves can we take off our mask and live as our true self.
In real life, the relationship between people is all "peacefulness" that coexist with interests and honor and disgrace.
At the moment when material desires are rampant, the relationship between people is realistic. No one will consume oneself and help others for no reason.
When I was young, I didn’t know the real or fake. After maturity, experience lets you know that it is worth it, and it is closely related to the gains and losses of interests.
When I was young, it was not an exaggeration to determine who was a "friend" who had been loyal to each other for life. After I matured, it was not a mistake to leave any relationship.
Friends, I don’t know when it was just a synonym for interpersonal relationships, and it has nothing to do with love!
There are many friends, and it may not be a good thing anymore.
There are groups of friends, and there are almost zero people who really share weal and woe. It’s not just someone’s interests or selfishness, but the more realistic the present, the more prominent the human nature is!
Looking at the present, it has to be said that those who know how to leave behind in interpersonal relationships are truly smart people!
At the same time, you will understand:
After or later, people who are alone and have no friends are "not simple"!
If you don’t believe it, look at it:
First: Only by being alone can you have a deep self-awareness
This life is a broken beauty.
No one can truly spend this life in a successful way.
What is important is how we can reduce incompleteness to the lowest point through our own strength and improve happiness to the highest point as much as possible.
In this way, this life is worth it!
Many people don’t know what they want or how they should live. An empty life and an empty human heart. So, nothing is done except to waste time and enjoy some self-comfort in unnecessary low-quality social interaction!
As you grow older and experience increases, truly wise people will constantly look for their missing branches and vines in their deep self-awareness.
When others are still hustling in various circles, wise people have long filled too many incomplete and gaps in their lives in their deep self-awareness.
At the same time, it has become a towering tree that others inadvertently need to be looked up to.
Interpersonal relationships in real life are like this. Some people hope you will live a good life, but except for parents who sincerely hope you will be well without conditions, most no one wants you to live a better life than him!
The so-called friendship is easy to be together; it is difficult to see the true love again in the low point!
In the value exchange, when your value is not enough, you have no friends, and your value is equal to others, and only when it is "useful" will people be "treated sincerely".
No matter who can do it, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good, no matter who is good. If you are familiar with human nature, you will know:
In fact, in this life, the most loyal friend is the only one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who
When a person awakens in deep self-awareness, he will see at the peak of his life that the best worth in his life is to manage himself!
A hundred years of life, along the way, the company of someone from beginning to end is an unexpected surprise. If not, a person's excitement is the inherent color of life.
Second: People who are not dependent, do not depend on, and are independent, have endless charm
Everyone hopes that there is a big tree behind them to enjoy the cool air. However, life is really hard, and there are almost no one who is willing to be a big tree!
There is a saying that says, "Everyone wants to hide from the wind, who is going to be a harbor?" This is what it means!
people will eventually have to rely on themselves for their own life.
In the face of obstacles in life, dependence and dependence will make people become a giant baby who doesn’t know how to live well, and always open his mouth to make up for it.
Facing the difficulties in work, you cannot rely on your own strength to compete with the challenges, and you will eventually be eliminated by reality. The competition is so fierce that if you can't do things well, someone will do it on your behalf.
When faced with emotional problems, you cannot have the ability to solve problems in person, and you will only become a negative benchmark for one emotional failure after another.
No one can really accompany you until the end.
Parents will grow old, relatives and friends will have their own lives, and their own life path will eventually have to walk on their own.
When a person is truly strong, there are good people around him, and when a person is incompetent, there are bad people around him. Even if you have a certain relationship with relatives and friends, you will step on a few steps.
Experience makes people understand:
In this life, not relying on or dependent is the real way to live.
Only those who are accustomed to dependence and attachment will only suffer and torture in the relationship they think they are in. Faced with those relationships that make them unable to feel happiness, they cannot be separated, and continue to be painful!
Hundred years of life are destined to be a lonely fate that no one can escape. In the lonely progress, smart people will rely on themselves to continue to grow and transform, and ultimately gain an ideal and refined life.
Only when you enjoy loneliness can you shake hands with yourself, develop your potential, and truly live your life contentedly in the sense of security and down-to-earth of self-creation.
What kind of person you are, what kind of life you will have.
What kind of attitude do you have towards life and what kind of life you will live.
When a person seems to have no last friend and his life is still booming, you should know:
Such solitary people have already changed their life into a silent mode. Stay away from the hustle and bustle of consumption and devote too much energy and time to self-management. How can life be wonderful?
Mediocre qualifications are not afraid of, the key is how to develop your potential.
Don’t be afraid of difficulties when encountering difficulties. The important thing is how you can use your wisdom to overcome it.
People who truly live a clear life are people who truly gain benefits through the separation of interpersonal relationships.
If you don’t have a friend, but you still feel that life is fulfilling, down-to-earth and contented, then you are the real big winner!
For the rest of my life, I hope everyone will be honest with each other but not be unpretentious, be persistent in things, but do what they can do.
Faced with a good attitude and self-awareness, and become your most qualified friend in the continuous growth and transformation!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, only by meeting the right person at the right time can you achieve the right result!
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