people are in the world. Only by learning "insight into human nature" can we survive better.
When I was young, many people didn’t care about it and felt that there was no need. After being beaten by life, I found out that "human nature" is the root of all contradictions in this world. A piece of cake appeared in
, which attracted competition from everyone, and everyone fought for the cake. This is the human nature of "greed" .
For the sake of one's own interests, he constantly suppresses others, and even treats others as stepping stones to the superior level, ignoring the so-called loyalty. This is the human nature of "profit-oriented" .
Even if he is as close as a brother and sister, he will have conflicts with his brother and sister, and even never interact with each other when he sees himself becoming a sucker and his brother and sister. This is the human nature of "indifferent and unfaithful" .
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We must have a cognition about human nature, that is, "Don't test human nature easily" , but we must see through human nature in time. If you see through others and no longer be confused and bullied, you will be invincible in the world.
There is a saying that is very realistic. Instead of expecting others, it is better to see through others.
If you want to understand a person's heart, just look at these two points, it is enough.
1. Do you understand "repay kindness".
has two words, people know, but they just can't do it, that is "gratitude".
You helped me, so I am grateful for your efforts. When you encounter difficulties, I will lend a helping hand in time to help you solve the situation. The so-called "a drop of water is rewarded with a spring of water" is this.
Of course, with the development of fast-paced life, people's hearts have become more impatient, and there are fewer and fewer "repaying with springs" situations like this.
The current norm is that you kindly help others. Not only do others not appreciate you, they also make a fuss and extort you some money. Or if you give, others let you down, no matter what you did.
Such a person, just help me once, no matter what happens to them later, don’t lend a helping hand. The best way to treat "white-eyed wolf" is to let the white-eyed wolf fall into a trap and fend for itself.
I remember when I was a child, my elders around us always told us that As a human being, you must know how to be grateful. When looking for a partner or a friend, you also need to find someone who knows how to be grateful, then your sincere efforts will make sense. The truth of
will apply no matter how many years have passed. People who don’t know how to be grateful will not have much better character.
2. Performance when facing "interests".
There is a saying that is very realistic. The most real side of anyone will be fully revealed in the face of "interest".
Some people can turn against each other for the sake of interests; some people can destroy their conscience for the sake of interests and do not care about the so-called conscience of heaven and earth at all; some people can show the ugly side of human nature for the sake of interests.
In fact, all the "interests" of are a mirror that directly reflects the person's heart.
There are two bosses, one of whom is profit-oriented, and only focuses on quantity for production products, not quality, hoping to occupy the market through inferior products. The other person is more conscientious and takes the quality completely to heart.
The result is that the first boss's product had an accident, which harmed the consumer, was complained about, and finally the factory was affected and went bankrupt. And the second boss is as stable as Mount Tai.
From another perspective, the word "interest" is also a reflection of whether a person has foresight.
is full of conscience for short-term benefits, so he is a confused insect who has no foresight and does not know how to be a human being. Continuously sticking to long-term interests is a visionary and understanding behavior.
Written to the end
"Gratitude" and "interests" are both the most basic features engraved in human nature. The most essential core of kindness is gratitude. The most essential core of doing things is for the benefit.
Take gratitude as an example. In the past, we would praise those who know how to be grateful. Nowadays, many people cannot be grateful, but they like to use this to morally kidnap others.
What does this mean? This shows that the most "hypocritical" side of human nature has evolved and become hypocritical.
From the attitude of others towards "gratitude", we can determine whether he is real, kind, whether he is moderate, and has principles in his heart. Anyway, takes points to surface, everything is obvious.
Let’s talk about “interests” again. The so-called “the world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit.” No one is unmoved in the face of interests, but everyone’s principles are different.
Some people’s principle is to stop everything when you can, don’t be greedy; some people’s principle is that the more you have, the better; some people’s principle is that just follow the rules.
From the attitude of others towards "interest", we can determine whether he has principles, whether he abides by the regulations, and whether he puts his conscience first. This may be more important than the interests themselves.
For those who do not know how to be grateful and ignore principles for their benefit, we must stay away from them appropriately to avoid causing trouble.
text/Shushan Youlu
