If you want to say that the most difficult relationship in the world should be the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. From high-level women to uneducated rural women, they are not immune to the vulgarity.
Some people say that there are only three real mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships: respect each other as guests, respect each other as soldiers, respect each other as ice.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a social relationship. Two people without blood relationships can never be dealt with as real relatives. The best relationship is just to respect each other, and the bad relationship is likely to be to respect each other!
A newlywed from Shandong got married. The mother-in-law was carrying a bowl of noodles according to customs and prepared to feed her to her daughter-in-law. As a result, my mother-in-law's actions are infuriating! Someone took the scene at that time into a video and shared it on a social platform, which attracted the attention and heated discussion of many netizens.
In the video, the mother-in-law brought a bowl of noodles to her daughter-in-law according to the custom. Before eating the noodles, the mother-in-law said a generous word according to the custom: "You are very welcome to marry into my house. In the future, I will treat you like my daughter. Today I come to my house for the first bowl of rice, I will feed you. After eating this bowl of rice, we will be a real family. In the future, the family will not speak two words, but will think about it in one direction and work hard to make our family well!" After
, the mother-in-law began to feed her daughter-in-law noodles. As a result, when my mother-in-law was clamping the face, she deliberately pretended to slide the chopsticks and couldn't hold the face.
finally picked it up and just sent it to my wife's mouth. As soon as my wife opened her mouth, the noodles slid into the bowl, but my wife still couldn't eat the noodles.
The wife looked a little embarrassed at this time. But the onlookers watched it and laughed "chuckled". It can be seen that the mother-in-law deliberately teased her daughter-in-law and successfully teased her.
Just like that, I repeated it over and over again, my mother-in-law grabbed the noodles five times, but still failed to feed them. Finally, it was the sixth time. The mother-in-law firmly clamped a few pieces of noodles and put them into the daughter-in-law's mouth. As soon as the daughter-in-law opened her mouth and put her mouth up. When she was about to catch the noodles, the mother-in-law put down her chopsticks for no reason.
This way, after a long time of struggle, my wife finally couldn't eat noodles. If this were normal, the wife would definitely be angry, but because she was a newlywed that day, she married her on the first day and was very unfamiliar with her new family and the people around her. She knew that her mother-in-law was deliberately making things difficult for her, and her purpose was to give her a warning. She didn't dare to lose her temper, but she forced herself to smile and cooperated with her mother-in-law to tease her.
At this time, the groom sitting next to the bride was a little anxious when he saw his mother deliberately teasing his wife. But he didn't dare to stand up and protect his wife. Everyone laughed, so he had to laugh with everyone. I don’t know whose side such a husband will stand in the future in the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
From the video, it can be seen that the first day of the daughter-in-law getting married, the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began. My mother-in-law is an old man and is slightly better.
After watching this video, netizens talked about it
Some netizens said that it can be seen that this is a local custom, and the purpose is to give their wife a warning and let her be obedient in the future.
Some netizens said that it would be like this on the first day of marriage. If I just flipped it out, what else can I eat? I don’t have to get married anymore!
Some netizens also said that judging from the actions of my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law is very thoughtful and wants to hold on to her daughter-in-law. But the daughter-in-law is a real person and has not fully realized that her mother-in-law has declared war with her! It seems that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are really a natural enemy!
There are even netizens who say that no daughter-in-law wants to fight against her mother-in-law when she just got married. But the mother-in-law started to make things difficult for her daughter-in-law on the first day she got married. In the future, her daughter-in-law's life was not easy, and her mother-in-law would not live there. It’s the same woman, why should women make things difficult for women?
Author's opinion
Mother-in-law's actions conveyed a message to my daughter-in-law, my meal is not that delicious. At the same time, the mother-in-law seemed to have declared war with her daughter-in-law.
In fact, mother-in-law also became mother-in-law from daughter-in-law. Everyone is a woman, so why should women make things difficult for women? On the first day, I was trying to show off my wife in front of so many people, but I was actually digging a hole for myself and raising hatred.
Whether a family life is happy or not depends on everyone's efforts.My mother-in-law is so embarrassed that she just doesn’t want her daughter-in-law to live a good life!
Let me ask, will my son be happy if his wife is not doing well? In fact, the mother-in-law makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law, and the son, and even more so for her future self.
May I ask my mother-in-law, on the day you are old, you need your son and daughter-in-law to respect you in front of the bed, and do you still want to rely on your wife to take care of you?
There is a saying that "you should stay in the front line in life so that you can meet each other well in the future." Don't you understand such a simple truth?
