Love Uncle Introduction:
Many people complain after getting married that life is not what they want. Some people pursue their own lives too much and then choose to divorce. Sometimes divorce is really about letting yourself go, , but divorce is not necessarily the best choice in a relationship. Fellowship is inherently complicated. Only by working hard can people live a satisfactory life. There are many truths that people only know when they are divorced.
Economic foundation is really important to our lives
Marriage life cannot be managed well if we have a sweet relationship with each other. A good marriage life must be inseparable from a better material foundation. Feelings need material as the basic support. Only when each other is not worried about material conditions can each other develop in a better direction.
Many people understand this truth only after they are divorced. When they are together, they always like to blame each other. It may be because the other person has a bad temper or is not tolerant enough. In fact, many times the cause of the conflict is because of the lack of a stable material foundation. When the material basis is stable, the contradictions between each other will also be much less.
Everything in life requires an economic foundation. When material scarcity is scarce, there is less time for each other. Both of them need to work hard for material life. With less time, less communication will be less, and then there will naturally be more conflicts. Moreover, material scarcity will lead to the fact that two people are often petty about small things, which are all things that consume emotions.
We cannot absolutely act emotionally in life
Many couples obviously like each other when they are together, but in the end they still cannot escape the end of divorce because they are too emotional. If a person is always emotional, he will easily make wrong decisions when he is impulsive. Such wrong decisions are also difficult to save some people and things.
Sometimes, I feel emotional, say things I shouldn’t say, and do things I shouldn’t do, which is actually very stupid. After getting divorced, you will find that some small things are not worth mentioning at all, but when getting along with each other, they like to take care of each other's shortcomings and people always like to keep abreast of each other's minor problems. Such behavior hurts each other's feelings.
Two people need to keep space with each other
When two people are together, they don’t know what the space is. Some people are unwilling to give each other space even if they know it. Some people think that couples should be honest and there should be no secrets, but this is also the beginning of a relationship problem. Any emotion requires space, and anyone needs a sense of mystery. The mystery can support each other's passion for love for a longer period of time.
Keep space between each other means keeping each other fresh. Many people only understand this after divorce, but once they get divorced, it is too late. Many things need to be understood and done in time.
Children's education cannot be separated from each other's getting along with each other
Divorce is a lesson for many people, and divorced people will also think of more things. When two people are together, it is easy to have differences over some things and then they are unhappy with each other. Two people are also prone to conflict when facing the problems of their children's education. In fact, these are all small problems. As long as two people understand one thing when they are together, the children will always be each other's children, and the children's problems should be unified.
But many couples only understand this after they get divorced. Children’s education cannot be separated from getting along with each other, because parents are the best teachers for their children. If both husband and wife don’t get along well, how can we get a positive education for their children?
Love Uncle Conclusion:
Divorce is actually not just a choice, but also a growth and training. When you really understand the above four principles through marriage, you will have the ability to start a happy life again.
