Time flies and is quickly lost. Many women quickly find their happiness on the road of pursuing love, but some women are not smoother on the road of pursuing happiness.
Older leftover women are a topic of discussion in today's society. There are many reasons why they become older single women. Some women are too independent.
is very excellent. I can’t find a suitable person for a while. Some women often encounter walls on the road of love because of their own personality.
In fact, when you reach a certain age, you will find that many loves are ultimately due to the huge gap in strength. What love needs to be evenly matched.
No man is willing to take a vase, nor is the woman willing to marry a man without strength, so the essence of love is actually equivalent exchange.
Those women who have not married after 38 years old have these two common problems, which are annoying and unaware of them.
01.
is too picky
Zhang Qianqian is 37 years old this year. Because she used to do business, she is still quite excellent. In addition, she was young and beautiful when she was young, so she was very picky when choosing her partner. Relatives and friends also introduced her many excellent men, but she just didn't like any of them. After so many years, Zhang Qianqian is still single.
In fact, it is nothing wrong for a girl to be excellent, but being too picky may not be a good thing. When you are young, your appearance and your ability will be the king.
But as time is slowly consumed, your appearance will gradually dissipate. At this time, if you are still too picky, then you will not get a true love in the end.
When your age begins to increase, you will actually start to lose your price in the eyes of a man. At this time, you will naturally lose the so-called advantage.
Appropriately picky can screen a man, but being too picky is a bad thing, because this will make a man lose confidence in this relationship.
When it comes to feelings, girls who are too picky are not easy to get a sense of happiness, because in real life, there is no real perfection. The essence of feelings is actually not exchange, but mutual like.
Many women are actually very pessimistic when facing a relationship and always feel that they cannot get happiness. But in fact, we need to have confidence in our relationship, because in this way we can reap happiness.
is not picky, but it is actually just a kind of happiness.
02.
Personality is not particularly good
In fact, a woman's personality is still very important in the process of getting along with others. Only a girl with a good personality can make men happy. Most men actually do not need a girl in real life. What they really need is actually the tenderness of a woman in a relationship.
Girls with bad personalities are that most of the people around them want to know her, because such girls always have hot and cold personalities.
Girls with bad personalities will have a more irritable temper in real life, because such women will never care about other people’s feelings and opinions, and they all live in their own world.
A woman with a relatively irritable personality actually lacks a sense of security in the world of emotions. Because of her inner lack of self-confidence, they will become unconfident when facing her feelings.
When a woman lacks the ability to love, then in the world of love, he will only know how to rely on and demand.
People like this often tend to live easily in the eyes of others when facing other people's feelings.
Although everyone desires to find someone they really like, many times, many people are still at a loss when facing relationships. A woman who is too picky will not be understood in a relationship, so it will also make men feel scared and they will not want to get close over time.
In fact, every woman desires to be loved when facing feelings, but no matter what age, a woman has the right to pursue her own happiness, and there is no doubt about this.
No matter what young we are, we must maintain that original impulse towards love. It is a blessing to be able to meet someone we like, and it is also a way to be able to meet someone who loves you.
So in the world of love, we must learn to love ourselves well. When you become more and more perfect, you will actually understand that women who truly know how to love themselves are actually more like fish in the world of love.
Although love is not as perfect as we imagined, when facing feelings, we must try our best to have a beautiful expectation so that we can find happiness. Such love is the most meaningful.
