1 reflective ability
Life is long and there are inevitably times when there are troughs. If you don’t know how to reflect and summarize, you will only be trapped in the same place. Only those with the ability to reflect can avoid making mistakes again and again. The biggest gap between people is not whether they make mistakes, but the different attitudes after making mistakes. Those who blame others after failure will only stand still and fall into a vicious cycle. After realizing your mistakes, summarize and review them and avoid repeating them. This is the best way to solve the problem. Only by reflecting on one's own and thinking hard can one avoid falling and taking detours.
2 Learning ability
"Learning is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat." In today's society, lifelong learning is a compulsory course in life. Only by continuing to learn can you maintain your core competitiveness. Learning is not only about learning new knowledge, but also about how it can help us maintain deep thinking, constantly correct our understanding of the world and self, and then achieve real growth. Learning is never a matter of one thing, it should be an indispensable ability at any stage of life. Only by constantly learning can we keep pace with the times.
3 Deep cultivation ability
There is a question on the Internet: "How to get out of the trough of life?" A highly praised answer wrote: "Take a few more steps." The difficult things in the world must be done in the easy way, and the great things in the world must be done in the details. Doing a simple thing well is not simple, and doing an ordinary thing well is not ordinary. Find a field you love and continue to work hard in the process. You will find that with the accumulation of knowledge and experience, your irreplaceability will become stronger and stronger, and the road of life will become wider and wider. Those who are more valuable as they live, know how to spend their energy and time in the right place. May you cherish time, live up to time, and transform into a better self.
Source: People's Daily WeChat Comprehensive Insights, People's Livelihood Weekly, etc.