Love is always beautiful and will be sweeter.
But marriage always seems to be not very good.
No matter how much they like each other before getting married, when they are in love, they are bound to each other, and how full of romance, once they get married, everything seems to only become a different person.
is better, and they can still make do with each other and continue to live. If the situation is not good, they will just divorce quickly. From then on, they will no longer have anything to do with each other, and are even more stranger than strangers.
There are always few people who can truly live a happy life, which is very rare.
is exactly what it means, marriage is nothing good, but it is just the grave of love.
When two people live under the same roof with longing and become a family, everything is like this. Needless to say, it is really uncomfortable. If you don’t want to do this, you have to do your duty and know how to manage it.
is absolutely loyal and has a response in everything.
Many people, when their situation is not very good, get married to someone, and then when the situation improves later, they will despise the person next to them and will start to become restless.
Even if the situation has not changed much, there is no piousness towards marriage and he is dedicated to open marriage.
It would be too disadvantageous to think that you are just guarding someone. There is no need to do so. You can be ambiguous with other people, and even have some substantial behaviors to betray the person next to you.
not only has this concept, but also has a bad attitude towards your lover. He is often very cold and neglected.
It can be imagined that if you are not loyal and are so cold to your partner, this marriage will naturally not be good.
In marriage, whether it is men or women, be loyal, always be loyal to the people around you, care about the other party, often let the other party know their own trends, and always interact with the other party in a friendly manner. This is always necessary.
The world of love is very crowded, and it can only accommodate a man and a woman, and it can no longer accommodate others.
Only when each other cares about this relationship in their hearts, they really care about each other, and live with each other with all their hearts. There is no principled problem. Only then will this relationship have the minimum foundation and will not easily cause problems.
has a certain material foundation, so you don’t have to worry about food and clothing.
When I was young, many people always thought that as long as they like each other, love each other, have money or not, that is not a problem.
But when each other's lives are not guaranteed, they can truly be free from regrets, not blame each other at all, and they can still love each other very much and know how to enjoy the present, and there are never many people, and they even do not exist at all.
There has never been any affectionate drinking water. Money has always been a very important element in marriage.
has no money, can't guarantee a life, can't afford a house, dare not have children, and can't do anything about their parents when they need it. That feeling will really be very bad, and at that time there is no time to care about love and not love.
Of course, it doesn’t mean that we must find someone with good conditions. After all, we want to find someone with good conditions, but if we have good conditions, we will also have our own pursuits and will not be willing to be too backward compatible.
just says that you can find a condition that is not that good for the time being, but you must work hard and the other party must be at ease enough. Your current life may not be very good, but you must have a bright future and be able to see the future.
Furthermore, in this era, as long as each other is willing to work hard, basically, it will not be much worse.
is afraid, and I don’t want to make money well. I even found someone who is idle and lazy. Such a life will be really sad and I can’t live at all.
can speak well and are willing to accommodate them.
The three views are completely different, and they don’t know how to accept each other at all, and they will only disagree with each other. They are not recommended to get married. You can foresee that they cannot live together without thinking.
It is useless to want a relationship to last for a long time, with all kinds of pressure and grievances. From the beginning, they are the same people, and they are indeed very attractive to each other, which is possible.
Get married and live with someone. If you are not careful, there will be many conflicts between you.
has no way to communicate, but only stick to one's own opinions and thinks that the other party is wrong. Whenever the problem arises, not only can each other not solve it, but it will only add new contradictions and continue to appear. Two people like
are destined to be unable to understand each other and to accommodate each other.
Only two people have similar levels of thought. When one speaks, the other person can understand it, not misinterpret it, not knowing what the other person is saying, and they are always willing to communicate and understand each other well. Only such two people will have the ability to solve problems.
Only when the quarrel happens to be on the same channel, and you can really speak out, integrate and seek common ground while reserving differences. There are too many problems with
. In fact, if you talk about it openly and understand each other, it is nothing at all, but many people just can't do this.
Before getting married, it is very important to like each other and willingly marry each other.
. After getting married, it often doesn’t really matter whether you love it or not.
The truly important things in marriage are to be united and moral, to be loyal, to be responsible, to take responsibility for this family, to know how to communicate, and to be able to deal with each other's problems.
is willing to give up part of himself and is willing to treat each other well.
can do these things, and this relationship basically does not have too many problems.
at least will still feel that they are quite successful and are willing to continue living with each other.
one plus one will not always be less than two, but will really be greater than or equal to two.
text/Tan Meng
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