Sometimes it is not necessarily the man’s fault to hit his wife. If your wife hadn't forced him or said that your wife was too much, would you think a man would hit you? Men will not take the initiative to do 99% of things, but if you do things too much, don’t blame the men for doing things, just like this in the article.
Who can I blame for this? If you want to blame, blame this woman, if it weren't too much. This woman’s husband will not hit this woman. Let’s take a look at this matter together. I hope to remind all women through this case that you should not do this anymore, otherwise 100% of the waiting for you will be a tragedy. A 57-year-old woman cried: I have to sleep in separate rooms after remarriage. Why should my husband hit me? Am I wrong?
Case story sharing person,
57-year-old Ms. Li:
Is it really me wrong? Today I will tell you about this and everyone will give me some comments. My husband, who has been married to me for a month, actually hit me. I can't stand this. I told my child that my child said it was not your husband's fault, but your fault. If it wasn't for you to go too far, how could your husband beat you and blame yourself? It's because you were too far.
I told my son how it could be my fault. I didn't do anything. I just did what I should do or what I wanted to do. I just got married to him, and it wasn't that I had to have a baby for him. Then why can't I sleep with him in separate rooms? And this matter is a matter of two people, not that I decided by myself.
Sleeping together is a matter for two people. It is not that he can do whatever he wants. It is because I don’t want to sleep with him, so I slept with him in separate rooms. Is there any problem with this? Why did he use this reason to hit me? Also, you are my child. You should help me with this matter, not him. Why do you want to help him or not? If he does this again next time, will you hit him and will you take revenge by me? It is all his fault.
My son told me that it is illegal to ask me to hit someone, and I will not do this. It’s not because you are not worthy of this, but because this matter is wrong with you. If you do such an excessive thing, people will attack you, otherwise he would not hit you.
He was originally a very gentle person. Now that you force him to be too anxious, he would do this. If you want to live with him well, then go back and live with him well. Don’t do this again in the future. Remember, let alone him. If my wife took the initiative to sleep with me and then I disagreed, I would probably get angry and beat my wife in the end, let alone that man gave you so many opportunities.
And you still insist on doing the method to get beaten until the end, who can you blame? He told you that it is not delicious and gave you many opportunities, but the result is that you don’t care about this matter, right? He has no choice, so he treats you like this.
The only thing you have to do now is to go back and live with him, and apologize to him, don’t do this again in the future, so what’s wrong with being with him? Don’t forget that you are married and you are already a family with him. What happened to the family sleeping together? Why do you have to distinguish so clearly? If you are so clear, you are not a family.
Originally, I didn’t want to talk about your business, but you insisted on being with him, and then you refused to sleep with him. Now that someone hits you, who can you blame? Now, the problem is solved here. You can live a good life with him and apologize when you go back. And don’t do this anymore...
I really can’t listen anymore. I told my son, are you my son or his son? How can you help with this? If he doesn’t help me, I don’t care. You must help me.What should I do if my son tells me about this? I have said everything I should say, the problem is, do you still don’t know where you are wrong? Today I will tell you about this and everyone will judge me. Is it really that I am wrong like my son?
I think I am not wrong, it is my husband's fault, okay, why should I hit me? This matter should start a month ago. A month ago, I got married to Lao Zhang, whom I met in ballroom dance, and I didn't want to be with Lao Zhang, but Lao Zhang has been drunk for too long, and he treats me very well. So I agreed to be with Lao Zhang. Lao Zhang told me, don’t worry, since I dare to pursue you, I will definitely give you happiness. If you believe me, I will definitely give you happiness.
Then I agreed to be with Lao Zhang. When I got older, many elderly people wanted to find a partner to accompany and take care of each other, including me. My thoughts were the same at that time. Two people were always better than one person. That's why I agreed to be with Lao Zhang. I thought I would be happy after remarrying, but I regretted it the night after remarrying. Lao Zhang snored too loudly.
Then I asked to sleep with him in separate rooms, and Lao Zhang was very angry. I told Lao Zhang that it was so uncomfortable to be with you. The sound of your snoring sound made me sleep. When I was alone in the past, I could sleep quietly. Those who were with you could not sleep at all. You also know that women will easily get damaged if they can’t sleep. If my body is damaged, will you have to be responsible in the end?
So forget it, we should sleep in separate rooms, which is the best for you to me. You are not used to me, you are not used to me, you should sleep in a sudden way, be nice to you and me, be responsible to all of us, we should sleep in separate rooms, be nice to you and be kind to me, be responsible to our collection staff. Isn’t we together just to accompany and take care of each other? We can just let each other take care of each other. There is no need to sleep together. You said, "Is it so vulgar, it's so old that I still sleep together?" Since the goal has been achieved, that's fine. There is no need to sleep together, right?
00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 I don't agree with this matter, and you are my wife, you have to sleep with me. No matter what the reason or what the situation is, you have to be with me. If you think the sound of my snoring is louder, you can fall asleep first, wait until you fall asleep before going to bed, or you can buy a headphone to plug your ears.
If you look like that, you won’t be awakened by my snoring. There are always more ways than difficulties. We are old, so there is no need to make trouble again. So we cannot sleep in separate rooms. It is a disadvantage for me to sleep in separate rooms. We cannot give me a little benefit when we are together.
can't give me some comfort, so how can it be? If that's the case, why bother with you? I have to pay so much to be with you and I have to take care of you. Can't you meet my requirements? My request is not too much. If you are my wife, you don’t meet my requirements, do you want others to meet my requirements? If you don't want to, then you can satisfy my requirements and listen to me. Don't swear to me, otherwise I'll be really angry.
Now I can take what you said seriously, and this matter ends here. If you really can't sleep, you can tell me, and then we can chat together or watch TV. We don't necessarily have to sleep. Anyway, we have a lot of time on the second day, so we can sleep during the day. Anyway, I don't agree with what you just said, if you need this.
Then don’t blame me. I have given you a chance. If you think there is still a problem, tell me that I will find a way to solve the problem.I was also angry when I heard Lao Zhang say this. I told Lao Zhang why can’t you understand what I mean? I said, your snoring sound is too loud, it has disturbed me. I don’t want to be like that, isn’t this okay? Whether you agree or not, we have to sleep in separate rooms.
I just said that the distribution of houses is not good for you to me. I really don’t want to stay up late every day, and I don’t want to make noise with you because of this. That will not be of any benefit to us. We are together for happiness. If it is noisy every day or makes me unhappy every day, it’s better not to be together. Since we are together, we must be happy.
so let's sleep in separate rooms. I really don't want to sleep with you. That night, Lao Zhang had a fight with me. My father-in-law moved out directly after he couldn't. When he lived, Lao Zhang slept in the guest room. I slept in Lao Zhang's room. On the morning of the second day, Lao Zhang said to me with a dark face, "You are too much, I thought you would come to find me last night."
I didn’t expect that you didn’t care about me last night. I told Lao Zhang that I think this is good. I thought you accepted this matter. When I was with you just now, I was really awakened by your snoring. You fell asleep in 5 minutes, and I couldn't sleep with you. You didn't know how irritable I was.
At that time, I wanted to hit you, or I wanted to go back. If you hadn't gone out, I wouldn't have been able to sleep last night. Now that you are out, how good it is for you. You slept well last night. Since I said you slept well, I slept well, then that's it.
From now on, we will sleep in separate rooms. Don't worry, you will be able to accept this matter gradually. There is no need to bother with this and that when we are old, isn't it good for us to do this and that? We can accompany each other and take care of each other. This is not enough. What's more important is that if we do this, we can live a long life. If we make trouble, we will be exhausted. At that time, we will be the one who suffers and me who feels uncomfortable.
so I should go to bed in separate rooms. Don’t talk to me about this matter anymore. Okay, I don’t want to tell you anymore. I have something to do and I’m going out. I make a fuss with Lao Zhang every day, and every night, Lao Zhang wants to come to my room to sleep. I dislike him, I am afraid that his snoring will make me disturb. Moreover, I think Lao Zhang is too irritable, so I want him to restrain his temper. Let’s talk about the things that come out of
later, and I don’t agree with him coming in here to sleep. I won't sleep at his place, either. After working on it for more than a month, Lao Zhang couldn't bear it anymore. Lao Zhang told me that you were too much. Since this is the case, I might as well not live with you.
After saying that, Lao Zhang slapped me in the face, for more than a month. Lao Zhang is okay with me. Although he always makes trouble at night, he now slapped me. He just slapped me a few times, which made me cry. He was still slapped Lao Zhang and told me, "I can't stand this matter anymore, I don't want to tell you anymore. Do you agree or not, if you still do this, we will divorce, and I was kicked out by Lao Zhang, and then I told my child about this matter. Is it really my fault to face this matter like this? I am Lao Zhang’s wife. Why should Lao Zhang hit me if he hit me? I don’t think I’m wrong.
Conclusion:
faces this matter, and he is beaten again. If you want to blame yourself, blame yourself. If you didn’t have it too much, would it be like this? There are more or less needs when you are together, and you directly cut off Lao Zhang's needs. Do you think he will not be angry? Forget it, if you want to blame yourself for the ending now, you are too much. Anyway, if it were me, I would probably hit you or divorce you.
If you want to live with Lao Zhang, then change your temper. Although Lao Zhang snores loudly, it will always be better to go to the hospital for a check-up and find a way to treat it. And you should not always avoid the problem. Since you have chosen to be together, sometimes you should choose to face some things.
instead of escaping together. Escape is a son, and it is not necessarily the man's fault. It is also possible that you hope to mention all women through this case. Being beaten does not necessarily mean that it is the man's fault. It is also possible that it is your own fault. Lao Zhang has given you so many opportunities. It has been more than a month since he was beaten. Who can you blame him? If you want to blame him, blame yourself. Don't let such a tragedy happen again. Women must think twice about this problem.
