The beginning of an extramarital affair is actually a betrayal of a relationship.
In extramarital affair, most people actually choose to start because they want to pursue excitement.
But when an extramarital affair begins, it is often a long-term ambiguous relationship and ends after sleep.
Because in real life, most extramarital affair starts because of inner impulses, so it has nothing to do with the so-called true love. No matter how deep the two of them love each other, only when the relationship between them quickly enters the next step, then it will be difficult for them to continue.
So, fundamentally speaking, extramarital affair is not a love, but a need for each person. For relationships like
, because they lack the loyalty of each other, they cannot let go.
When the relationship between two people comes quickly, it will naturally go quickly.
So, extramarital affair is actually a mistake. When a man and a woman break through that layer of window paper, love will disappear.
Many people will fall into such a relationship and then cannot extricate themselves.
Ambiguousness is actually the biggest hurt in love. Rainie Yang has a sentence in the lyrics, that is: "Ambiguous people suffer all the grievances."
In fact, in the world of love, there is no pure friendship. When the relationship between you two becomes ambiguous, then the relationship between you will no longer be pure.
Ambiguous will cause great harm to each other, so no matter how much we like someone, we should not choose ambiguous. Instead of doing this, it is better to say goodbye.
Everyone is actually worthy of being loved in a relationship, so blindly ambiguous will only turn each other's feelings into a kind of hurt.
In a relationship, we must live a real life so that we can not be hurt or hurt others.
Such an ambiguous relationship is actually just a kind of harm to each other in the end. People will have feelings for each other, especially when men and women are together. Over time, this kind of ambiguity will become a vicious cycle.
Wang Ya is an intern in the company. Because she is young and beautiful, there are many boys in the company who pursue her, but when it comes to feelings, Wang Ya does not care so much. She keeps wandering among many boys in order to make most of the boys revolve around her. Every day, different boys send her to and from get off work, which is very fulfilling for Wang Ya.
In fact, a girl’s biggest ability is not to let boys surround her, but to every boy who truly loves herself is always by her side.
In the world of love, we need to face every relationship well. Being able to meet the right person is actually a blessing for each other, and an ambiguous way to each other at this time will hurt each other.
In the world of love, we should not be blinded by the novelty. If the love between two people is just because of the temporary freshness, then this method will not help each other.
Men and women are actually visual animals, which is not false, but in real life, we must understand that good love actually lies in the care and concern of each other. If you are not firm in each other, then such a relationship will not last until the end.
The relationship between men and women may have a little freshness after having an intimate relationship, but when the freshness between you passes, what can truly maintain your relationship is often your loyalty to each other.
If you can't convince yourself, then you will never escape the vicious cycle of freshness.
Extramarital affair is not a glorious thing. Maybe you will taste the sweetness because of the temporary freshness, but over time, your feelings for each other will only decrease continuously, because the love between you has no foundation, and nothing can be maintained. So over time, your love between you will become a walking dead.
From a psychological perspective, the freshness of a relationship can be maintained for about 18 months, and the freshness of extramarital affairs can only be maintained for 3 months.
So, we should not put too many expectations on others. No matter how sweet other people’s lives are, we should not interfere, because it is not yours, you don’t have to force it. In real life, we need to understand one thing: feelings are not impulsive.
is a long-lasting flow. When two people are together, the most important thing is to learn to cherish each other, because in this world, we will meet all kinds of people, some people can become your support, and some people are just passers-by. I hope that each of us can have our own loyalty when facing our relationship.
This way, life can become more prosperous and harmonious.
Only when a happy life will last longer and longer.
